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Fingering pain


Question Posted Sunday January 13 2008, 8:36 pm

ok well i was just figured for the first time and it hurt bad he did it about 3 times and they only lasted about 20 seconds because it hurt.
is that normal? ive never like masturbated or anything but i was thinking maybe i should so it doesnt hurt next weekend if he does it again.
how many more times will it take before it stops hurting when he fingers me?.


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mama16 answered Tuesday January 15 2008, 6:40 pm:
you could just be really tight and/or tense which is why it was painful for you,if it was your first time being fingered then thats why it was painful,you should try masturbating,but make sure your wet and don't just try and jam your finger up in there,OUCH!

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queenhearts answered Sunday January 13 2008, 11:22 pm:
If you never fingered yourself, it's going to feel uncomfortable. Make sure you're wet before he puts a finger in you because I'm sure as you know.. that hurts. I don't really agree with the.. "if he does it again, he's doing it wrong" because if you've never masturbated.. you're going to feel really tight and it's going to hurt or feel uncomfortable anyway. It takes some time especially since male fingers are usually larger. Make sure he cuts his nails so he doesn't scratch you and tell him to be gentle if he isn't. It might take some time... maybe two or three more times.. depending how on less tight you get in that time. He shouldn't try fingering you deep soon because that would hurt. So you should finger yourself until next weekend. tell him to stop if it hurts or to slow down, something along those lines..

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yourlollipopgurl answered Sunday January 13 2008, 10:44 pm:
ok for the first time it will hurt but if it hurts again he may be doin it wrong but your shold probably start so you can tell him what feels good and stuff .

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