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ok so i have this friend and she went to this one school untill the end of 6th grade and then she moved to my school and she is my friend now (im in 8th grade now) and so we went to the track meet and i met some of her friends from her old school and so i talked to them and then when i got home i taked to them on the internet and asked them who they thought was hotter and they said that i was and so when i went to school the next day she wanted to know what they said about who was hotter and i told her that they said that i was hotter then she was and so was like no seriously what did they say and i told her that they said that i was hotter and she goes stop lying and i was like im not lying b/c that is what they said and she was like no tell me and i said it again and she was like oh well then they must have just said that to make you feel better about yourself and i was like no b/c i talked to them on the phone too and she was like im sure that they were just making me feel better and they thought that i was hotter and my friend (lets call her Lee) well lee isnt that pretty she weighs more then me and her hair is all frizy and i am 5-2 1/2 and weigh 105 and my hair isnt frizzy oh and she has acne too and i dont ppl keep telling me that i am prettier then her and her boyfriend told me that too so i dono y she would say that they were lying to me and i am a teen runway model can someone tell me whats wrong with her? i rate 5's for good and not stupid answer
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Well, your friend is just jealous because the boys like you better. But, don't get too carried away with yourself there! You know what they said, so don't even bother arguing with her about it!
-Brianna
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PLEASE DONT DELETE THIS ONE. There is this guy and he is 17 and im a girl and im 14. Well we both like each other alot or at least i think so. well anyway there are these two other girls and they like him and he says he cant stand them but then i catch him flirting with them sometimes. and also we makeout and stuff and i dont know if he is just useing me and then goes and makesout with these other girls.what do u think i should do and be specific. and do u think the age difference between us matters? (link)
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First of all, I don't think the age matters. Think of it this way, when he is 25 you will be 22. Not a big deal. Tell him that you see him flirting with them and maybe ask them if he tells them that he likes them. He could be using you, but I can't say for sure. Good luck!
-Brianna
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I'm in a long distance relationship and am only 18. I believe deep in my heart that this person is my future husband, but how do I keep it strong with being so far apart? We really love eachother however, things are just getting difficult between work and school. Any suggestions? (link)
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Just try to keep in touch and see each other as much as possible. That is really all you can do! Sorry and good luck.
-Brianna
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Well this is so random but my dad is my soccer coach and when ever we are at practice and i say daddy he says i am not gunna respond to that call me coach.. and i get really sad (link)
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Aww, that sucks. Tell him how that makes you feel. I think that is dumb and mean. Sorry and good luck!
-Brianna
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ok.. ive liked this guy for a while now and now he knows and i can tell he likes me too but i think that were both afraid to talk to eachother :(.. i really really like him and i wanna be able to talk to him but im really really shy. and plus ive never had to go and talk to someone, theyve always came to me. but anyways.. its been a few weeks and i jus wanna get it over with and talk to him...but the thing is.. i dont kno wut to say, and when or w/e so can u pleasssee help me?? im starting to get frustrated with myself cause i cant do it. I dont have any classes with him so i cant send a note or anything,plus hes not that kinda kid.. and i really wanna do something tomorrow so i can talk to him.
I rate high!
*depressed and sad
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Just suck it all up and tell him! Or, have a friend tell him for you. You can always tell him online (if you have AIM, obviously). Just pretend he is just another boy, no one special. That should work, you won't be as nervous! Good luck.
-Brianna
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My friend lets call her Ashleigh well Ashleigh always is assuming she is fat.. and she is gunna dye.. she is never thinking positive.. she is always thinking negative things about her self.. i really want to help her control her self.. she told me it's mostly b.c of her dad and brother..
her dad has cancer and doesn`nt have much time to live mayb 2 more years..hopefully god will help him and her brother just got released from jail.. and i feel bad for her..if you know ANY way for me to help her please tell me i will rate high if thats what you want
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Aww that sucks. Give her positive feedback about herself. Tell her she isn't fat and deff. tell her that she won't die. It was proven in a survey statistically that people that have cancer that think they will live, have a better chance of fighting the cancer! So her being negative, won't help. Cheer her up and try not to bring up her brother or negative things in her life unless she does and when she does, try saying positive things to her! Sorry and good luck.
-Brianna
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My mom was born in a foreign country, and their thoughts on things are a LOT diffent from the United States, and her thoughts are LOTS different than what I want to do. For example, she refuses to let me date, so I have to keep all my feelings for boys bottled up in my diary. She doesn't let me wear shorts (only capris) in the summer, so I end up burning up in my classrooms. I really need to tell her that these things might not be allowed where she grew up, but I don't live where she lives, and I need to have a LIFE! How can I tell her? (link)
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That sucks, just tell her that things have changed since then and you live in a different generation where those things are allowed. Tell her that you get hot in school, tell her that you are old enough for a boyfriend. Just talk to her. Hopefully, she will understand. GOod luck!
-Brianna
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can someone help me? my friends always say how sad they are and depressed bc they are alone and don't have a bf, or they say how their life sucks when they have one. Or they just brag on how much they love him...and ect...and it pisses me off...bc my life is worst then all their's compared basically...and my friend always saying how she is fighting and getting dention (sp?) amd shit and it annoys me...bc its her choice to get into fights not mine...and also i never had a bf...im not allowed till im 16 which is next year...and they always say how their mom's never let them do things..when my life is much worse then theirs...and i dont have a bf to courage me to stay strong like they do!! plz help me :-( (link)
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They want sympathy. They know their lives are good. I hate when people act like that. But umm, what is the question? Lol, just tell them that you have it soo much worse than they do and to stop whining!
-Brianna
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hi i am had the injection as form of contraception is there any possiblility that i can fall pregnant on the injection is it 100% safe or 99%? im not sure and i really dont wanna sound dumb or anything? (link)
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You can't get pregnant if it is 100%... WOW, lol.
-Brianna
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first of all, i apologize for the misspelling of 'skating', and the general idiotic appearance of the title. but it worked, didn't it? you came in here to correct me! :P
i am a 16 year-old rookie skater (female) who can't ollie yet.
i was at the skateboard-city.com forums, and this guy posts a rather mean post about how most of the girls that skate are posers, who skate to try to get with 'skater boys', or to get the whole 'skater punk rock' look.
whe someone calls you a poser, the first reaction is to deny it. so of course all of the female skaters on that site protested, but it made ME wonder...
am i a poser? i wish i could say no, but i honestly don't know. there are various reasons why i started to skate (about six mo. ago).
i can definitely say that i didn't start skateboarding because i thought the 'skater style' was hot or anything. i am a "girly-girl" however, i'm not so sure about the skater boy factor. what if i unconsciously DID start to skate because i wanted to meet skater boys? i know it's definitely true that i wanted to make some friends (regardless of gender) through skateboarding.
also the fact that skateboarding - just skateboarding around your town and on the streets itself looked "cool" was a part of the reason why i started. but is this necessarily bad? don't guys get inspired, after seeing a skating video, to do better because of how 'cool' it looks?
and, is it possible to start off as a poser (start skating to look cool or meet guys or whatever) but to change along the way?
sorry about the length. however, i'd really appreciate it if someone (hopefully a skater themselves) replied. thanks in advance. i rate. (link)
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Well, you are not a poser just because you skate. As long as you like what you are doing, how could that be possibly be posing? I can see if you really didn't like skateboarding and you wanted to look cool or whatever, but that is not the case. Ignore the stereotypers and keep on skating!
-Brianna
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Im actually starting to hang out with the people ive wanted to for about two years. I talk to them online and at school. They have a group of 4 people and if I join, it would feel weird becasue it seems to me like i would be brakng into their group when they might not want anymore friends in it. Im best friends with someone who is close with them and the only time i hang out with their group is when that best friend of mine asks us all to. I want to plan something on my own and i have talked to one of the girls about it she said it would be fun but how do i know if she says that to everyone who asks her to do something. Should i go for something that i dont know would work out but truley really want it to, or is their no point in even trying? How do I let the person know that i want to be in their group with out actually saying those exact words? (link)
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Relax! If she says it would be cool to hang out with you, why would she lie? Just start hanging out with them more and more and they will accept you into their group. If they were your friends who cares if there are 4 or 5 people in the group, lol. Good luck.
-Brianna
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I have this friend (we'll call her Rachel) that was my best friend for years, and another best friend that we used to hang out with all the time, and we were a trio. Now, Rachel is getting on my other friend's nerves a lot, and she is ignoring Rachel all the time. Rachel is getting to be a little annoying for me too, but I try to handle it because I don't want to get Rachel all angry at me. Rachel isn't really my best friend any more, but I don't want to hurt her feelings. Sometimes I find myself making up lies to get out of hanging with Rach, and it makes me feel terrible. What can I do? (link)
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That sucks that you feel that way, but that is life. Just try telling her that you guys aren't as good of friends as you used to be. Maybe you can tell her that she gets on your guys' nerves too. If she doesn't understand and whatever, why do you care, she isn't your best friend anymore. I think she will live if you tell her that you aren't as close as you used to be with her. GOod luck!
-Brianna
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O.k so my freiend has feelings for me (love feelings). I 'm not sure what to do. When she told me I told her I was flattered and I was but its been really awkward trying to make conversation since. We used to mess around and call each other "sexy," so I assume she got the wrong idea. The other day she sarted feeling me up and iI told her it was wrong and Iw asn't into girls as much as she is. I don't know what to say or do to make her realise I don't fancy her. Any advice,I rate a five for any good advice.
p.s I'm a 16 year old girl. Don't reply to this if your going to give me shit about being shallow, cause I don't care what you think!
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All you can do is tell her that you don't swing that way. Also, tell her that you didn't really mean it when you called her sexy and stuff. That is all you really can do. If she doesn't stop with the stuff, you can always have the option of not being her friend. Sorry, and good luck!
-Brianna
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I have a really great singing voice, but I'm so embarassed to sing in front of anyone, even my mom. Can someone please give me tips to overcome my shyness? I RATE HIGH. Someone pelase help (link)
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Hey, just start of low singing like humming or something in front of them. Or, you can pretend like you are all alone. They probably sing too, so don't be shy!
-Brianna
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hey i'm a female and i'm 14 yrs. old and this guy that i've been really good friends with since i was 11 has been flirting with me and we did some stuff the other day. I don't regret it at all i mean it wasnt that bad but my friend has asked him if he likes me and he said he thinks i'm really hot but we've been friends too long. I can't let this go though because i dont have many guys liking me and he has never cheated on anybody and he would be the perfect boyfriend. He's really hot and i like him so much. My problem is that we've decided to just be friends more than once before but we always get together and flirt and do stuff and this happens all over again what should i do?
Luv,
~Very Emotionally Confused~ (link)
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Your head thinks you two should be friends, but your heart wants something more. For the both of you! It is clear that you guys like each other more than friends. Tell him that! Good luck!
-Brianna
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For the last few days a bunch of boys in my class have been looking at me funny. At first I thought that I mite have had somthing weird on my face or maybe my outfir looked redicules to them. Then they all started talking to me. Not at once, but boys would come up to me all threw out the day and talk to me. This one boy even said that his best friend (one of the boys who wouldn't leave me alone) had a crush on me. I didn't belive him. Another one, was always trying to make me laugh, anouther one was always starring at me. The boy I have a crush on is really cool and always talking to me too. I can tell he has a crush on me. I think all the other boys have crushes on, and it really freaks me out!!!!!! A bunch of girls have been giving me the cold shoulder, or being really mean. My crush is my best friend too, and we are always together, some stupid boy calls us the love birds. I really don't know what to do. Should I just stay away from all boys in general. (link)
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Hey, don't mind the girls. They are just jealous because you are getting the attention. If you like this guy, then go for him. If the other guys actually bother you by liking you *I would be flattered* but just ignore them or something. Good luck!
-Brianna
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Well, ive taken all the advice, and i havent had soda and I feel great! Ive been doin regular exercises, but my thighs look fatter then ever same with my upper arms ! Whut can i do?? (link)
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That is because muscle is taking over your fat. Don't worry, keep it up! If you do, your arms and legs won't jiggle and they will get more toned!
-Brianna
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ok, my birthday is in 5 days and my mom usually asks all her kids what they want and where they want to go out to dinner for their birthday. well, she didn't ask me anything yet and she forgot 2 years ago and i think she forgot again =/. i feel like she doesnt even care and i've tried to hint to her that i actually have a birthday unless i'm delirious and its not april 21st today? (link)
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Aww, maybe she is going to suprise you. She does care, but maybe she is just too stressed out. I say, if your birthday comes and she doesn't mention it, talk to her about it and make her feel bad. Sorry!
-Brianna
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ok well i started to like my best friend, and i was talking to him one day, and he asked me who i liked and i couldnt lie so i said it was him. acctaully, i asked him who he thought it was and he said he thought it was him, so i said it was. ever since then we've still talked and stuff, and things only feel a little different. today, i told him i didnt like him anymore. he asked me why and asked if it was because i liked someone else.. while in my head i was thinking aww i imed him back and said no, its because its screwing everything up between us. then i got booted off. but i dont know what to do, i wanna stop liking him but i cant! (link)
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Alright, I can see why it would feel weird telling your best friend you like him, lol. But yea, you can't control who you like, and your not suppose to. If you like him, then let it be. Just don't let that interfere with your friendship! If you really want to stop liking him, try meeting new people or something. Sorry, hope I have helped.
-Brianna
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Last night I did this really hard aerobics class at my gym and i am sooo sore that it hurts everywhere everytime i move...is there anything i can do to make the soreness go down?...thanks (link)
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Hey, don't do any strenuous activity until the soreness goes away. If you have a jacuzzi or a whirlpool, go in them. They ease your muscle tension. I don't really know of anything else, just wait it out and be careful! It should go away in about a day or two!
-Brianna
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