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PLEASE DONT DELETE THIS ONE. There is this guy and he is 17 and im a girl and im 14. Well we both like each other alot or at least i think so. well anyway there are these two other girls and they like him and he says he cant stand them but then i catch him flirting with them sometimes. and also we makeout and stuff and i dont know if he is just useing me and then goes and makesout with these other girls.what do u think i should do and be specific. and do u think the age difference between us matters?
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Well the age difference won't matter if you think about it in the future like when he is 23 you will be 20. Most relationships are like that. But anyways if there are other girls he flirts with this may be an iffy situation...but if you really think, even know he said he couldn't stand them, that he would cheat on you with one of them, then maybe you should move on. Like if he's known to be a player. But if you've seen him before hand in relationships with girls for a decent amount of time I think you should stick with him. But if he ever tries to pressure you into having sex with him then he is just using you, don't fall for that you will regret it.
well I hope you solve your problem!
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First of all, I don't think the age matters. Think of it this way, when he is 25 you will be 22. Not a big deal. Tell him that you see him flirting with them and maybe ask them if he tells them that he likes them. He could be using you, but I can't say for sure. Good luck!
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YES! the age diffrence matters a whole heck of a lot. guys think about three things sex food and sleeping if youre three years younger then him and all you two really do toggether is make out he doesnt want a relationship he wants youre body dont let him use you like this dump his sorry but and find a nice boy whos youre age
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the age difference does kinda matter, i think he is just using you, think about it.. when your 17 would you want to go out with a 14 yr old.. y cant he go out with people his own age?
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The best thing to do is go and ask these girls if he is flirting with them and hanging out with them, or making out with them. No girl wants a cheating boyfriend, so if this guy is double-playing you, you need to go as a group to stop him.
And no, if he isn't actually cheating on you, the age difference doesn't really matter if you like each other. Sometimes it's hard to grasp the fact that he is this much older than you, but remember- when you are in your twenties (let's say you're 21) and this guy is 24, it doesn't seem like much of an issue, does it? You just need to talk to him like you'd talk to any of your friends, and the age difference won't matter.
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