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Long Distance
I'm in a long distance relationship and am only 18. I believe deep in my heart that this person is my future husband, but how do I keep it strong with being so far apart? We really love eachother however, things are just getting difficult between work and school. Any suggestions?
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Well...to tell you the truth long distance relationships (if it plans to stay that way) would be really difficult to handle. I wouldn't try getting married unless he comes back for good. Because if he's away all the time you would probably end up getting divorced in about a year. With the work and school thing(if you still plan to stay in the relationship)try takin one day off of work and school you could plan to fly out there and surprise him and then spend the day together but leave just in time to get back home the next day.
I wish the best for you!
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Even though i'm 15 i have been in a love distant relationship... i know how you feel... you guys sgould talk about it... but if you guys love eachother than you will have probems but your love should help you guys in the end... and since you guys don't see eachother all the time than atleast you know you guys love eachother for personality and not for looks... because maybe you do for looks to but i bet u guys talk more than you guys do anything physical... none of my buisiness... just see if your love can last... hope i helped ease(sp?) yah mind
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Just try to keep in touch and see each other as much as possible. That is really all you can do! Sorry and good luck.
-Brianna
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long distance relationships are always hard but in a way they can be a really good thing...now a long distance relationship will allow you to see and find out things that you never might have knew before saying this what i mean is the distance between you and your boyfriend tests your love if your love for each other is strong enough then it will surpass any hardships that you and your boyfriend may go through...now even if your love for each other it true that still wont exclude your relationship from its problems because believe me there will still be times that you may get frusturated and feel as though you dont know how your relationship is gonna hold on but all that can really be said is that if it was meant to be it will last all you gotta do is hold strong and stay true and eventually fate will take its coarse weither it be for the best or worst there is no possible way you can know but live in the present and dont worry about the future cause if you do then you'll spend your days sad instead of truly being happy...you have the will power to make what you want happen if you truly want this relationship to work then strive for what you want and dont give up when you feel as though its hopeless keep going and in the end no matter what ends up happening you'll know that it was meant to be... so keep your head up i hope my advice helped
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call on the phone, make videos, letter or if you have AIM and you both have a mic then you can talk and keep the phone bills low
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Set a time every few nights or so to call each other, that way you know you'll be able to reach the other person. Visit as much as possible, and if things get tough, take a break from your relationship. It may make him realize how much that phone call from you means to him. If you really love each other, not seeing each other for a period of time won't make a dent in your relationship. Sure, it might drive you crazy, but that shows you two are still in love.
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if you talk on the phone often, put some time in between your conversations. it keeps him interested. when you can see him, try to make it special. and it might help to know how far away you guys are from eachother. and if you believe he is your future husband, stick with it!
XOXO ~*~*Nicole Lynn*~*~ XOXO
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