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My parents think every plan for a cellphone is expensive! That's why i'm wondering if that kidconnect plan from t-mobile for 19.99 a month is actually good? I don't care that it has only 50 minutes. Is this plan good for a 13 year old girl?

$19.99 a month is still pretty high, considering you wont get but 50 minutes. Doesn't seem to be worth the money. A good plan from US Cellular is the pre-paid ones. The lowest starting at $29.95, which is only $9.95 more than the one your wanting. You get 200 daytime and 1,000 night and weekend minutes on that plan.

http://www.uscellular.com/uscellular/SilverStream/Pages/x_page.html?p=b_prepaid

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Okay,... I don't know if this is in the right category, but...
I just put in a tampon for the first time. Do you have to take out a tampon before you pee? I have to pee while it's in. Is this normal?

Yes, everyone has already told you that you could pee with a tampon in, but also I didn't know if you knew or not (I'm thinking you don't) You have 3 holes "down there".
First: Urine Only
Second: Tampons/Sex
Third: Feces

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my friend thinks she is a few days pregnant...she keeps punching her stomach because she does not want the baby. does this hurt the baby or cause her to have a miscarriage?

I knew this girl that pulled that same stunt...It turned around to bite her in the ass because she ended up giving birth to a son that now has mental problems. What makes her think she's pregnant and she is only a few days? There is almost no symptoms that early. Please do your best to stop her and talk her out of the stupid decesion she is making to harm that child-if there is one. Let her know, that it is not that child's fault that she was irresponsible! Tell her to go to the health Department and get a pregnancy test. If she is pregnant the counselors there can help her make the best decesion such as abortion, adoption or the 72hr pill. she can also get on birth control if it turns out she is not pregnant. All of this is free of charge if she is under the age of 18-the State pays for everything and they won't tell her parents! Be a good friend-and help her...because God knows....She needs it!

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ok so i have a stick shift car. and today i accidentally revved the engine really high when i was starting from a stop sign. now, the car is having trouble gettin gpast 10 mph. what could i have done to it?

It still won't go over 10mph? If that's the case I can almost bet ya' that you messed up the master or slave cylinder. The slave cylinder will cost about $100.00 for the part and $300 in labor and if it's the master cylinder, the past will run ya' about $75.00 and $100.00 for the labor. This is what happens when you rev the engine and burn out. If it's a newer car like a 2004/2006 then you'll have to get both parts fixed on it because that's the only way it comes, and you have to get it through your car maufacturer.

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I am 28/f. The situation is complicated. He has had a female best friend for a while now. I have always felt a little jealous, like he was spending more time with her than with me. I know her and her boyfriend, and thus am 100% sure he is not cheating with her, but I am still jealous. About two months ago, we started marriage therapy. When he told me he wanted to to that, he said he felt like he should move out for a while and had arranged to stay with this woman temporarily. Now I am insanely jealous of her. He knows this. So does she. They are starting an internet business together, and as work at the same place, and spend a lot of time together as a result. We have been doing well in therapy. He understands my jealousy and has been spending less time with her over the past couple months, but now they are starting to spend more time together again. In fact, he is at her place now working on their internet project. Her bf is there too, but it is still hard for me. I don't know if I will ever stop being jealous of her. Honestly, I would feel better if he never saw her again. But I know that they are just friends, and I would feel terrible asking him to not see his best friend again.
Oh, about 5 years ago, I had a male best friend. My marriage was on the rocks then too as I was in the midst of terrible depression (for which I take antidepressants still). My husband let me go out with my friend all the time, so now I feel like a hypocrite not wanting him to spend time with her. But I never made arrangements to live with my friend.
Other than this issue, we have really worked out pretty much everything in therapy and are doing so well. I am very much in love with him again, and he loves me and makes it very clear. That only makes me feel worse about this jealousy I feel. Then I get stressed. It is a downward spiral from there.
I guess my questions are: Should I be so jealous? What can I do to make it less of a problem? Will I get over it? Should I ask him to not see her, or is that just a bit harsh?

I don't care if the borfriend is there or not. He shouldn't of ever moved in with this woman! I would have forbid it! It's a recipe for disaster. Yes you have every right to be jealous. Is he still staying with this woman? If he is, then tell him he can't no more if he expects to be with you. Keep your eyes open.

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Hey my friend is 11 years old and she thinks she has a yeast infection cause she always wears her bathing suit after shes done swimming to bed and she has yellow stuff in her "down there" she said its yellow and mushy please help!

I could be a yeast infection, even though that is a very young age to have one. The only way to get it treated is to go to a Dr. or buy yeast infection cream. I would go to the Dr. though because no one on here can tell you 100% if indeed it is a yeast infection or not. You get them from having to much sex, wearing tight clothes & wearing WET CLOTHES -like a bathing suit.

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Okay. I'm 16/f and I want to get a vibrator. The problem is, I'm afraid to get one because I'm scared my mom will find it and I would be SO EMBARRASSED if that happened!! Am I too young to get one? If not, where should I put it (maybe in another room in the house?) where there's no chance of her finding it? FYI- she sometimes comes in my room and starts cleaning out my drawers/closet because she thinks they're so cluttered, so I'm not sure that's a good place to put it.

To the person below, I know it's illegal to purchase one under tha age, but It is not illegal to own one if your under the age of 18! I mean what, are the vibrator police gonna' show up at your house? *LOL* girl, what I would do in your case, being your kinda screwed on the age thing, is go buy a BACK MASSAGER!! A vibrating one. Just use that, and also if your mom found it, it wouldn't be that big of a deal. You can get them anywhere! Even Wal-Mart!

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i am 15 female.
one of my bestfriends just lost her virginity to her boyfriend and she'll be 15 in a couple of days. i know the guy she lost it to and he's very sweet at times. she told me that his penis was big and fat. wow.lol. she told me it hurt like hell and im really curious about if it should even hurt because i heard only when you're nervous it hurts but she claims she wasn't nervous and wanted to loose her virginity to him right away. why, i have no clue? Could anyone please tell me stories about thier first time and every feeling you had.
to be honest i kind of feel pressured to have sex because everyone around me has either lost it at 12,13,14, and 15. But i know who i am and i know that loosing my virginity won't make me a betta person than i am now..but still im curious about sex...please tell me everything i should know!! thanx in advance

Props for you for still keep your virginity in tact. So many ppl, myself incluced lost it because of so much peer pressure. You stay a virgin however long you want and wait till its with someone you love and you know loves you back, when you have that, then sex is a wonderful thing. Now, on to your question about Do you remember your first time. Prime example of peer pressure: (I'm 24 now...was 16 at the time)

My best friend called me August 28th and told me she just lost her virginity and now I should too or I was going to be left out. My other best-friend called me August 29th and told me she lost her virginty too (THEY DIDNT KNOW IT AT THE TIME BUT IT WAS TO THE SAME GUY HAHAHA) anyways, August 31st rolls around and my guy friend came over and he always would pick with me and say lets go in your room...welp he said it, like I knew he would and I said...Let's go! His mouth dropped! Yea we had sex for about 30 seconds before I told him to get off of me. Just felt so wrong. I lost my virginty to someone I didn't even love. Something that you can never get back. And you will ALWAYS remember...that first time.

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Does anybody know some really good jokes??? Im known for good jokes but I'm all out. I'm talking about the story jokes that are about 30 seconds long. Please tell me your good joke.
Thanks

You'll love this website then: http://funny.com/

One of my favorite jokes lol: Lesson to be learned from typing the wrong email address:

A Minneapolis couple decided to go to Florida to thaw out during a particularly icy winter. They planned to stay at the same hotel where they spent their honeymoon 20 years earlier. Because of hectic schedules, it was difficult to coordinate their travel plans. So, the husband left Minnesota and flew to Florida on Thursday, with his wife flying down the following day. The husband checked into the hotel. There was a computer in his room, so he decided to send an email to his wife. However, he accidentally left out one letter in her email address, and without realizing his error, sent the email.

Meanwhile, somewhere in Houston, a widow had just returned home from her husband's funeral. He was a minister who was called home to glory following a heart attack. The widow decided to check her email expecting messages from relatives and friends. After reading the first message, she screamed and fainted. The widow's son rushed into the room, found his mother on the floor, and saw the computer screen which read:

To: My loving wife

Subject: I've arrived Date: April 6, 2006

I know you're surprised to hear from me. They have computers here now and you are allowed to send emails to your loved ones. I've just arrived and have been checked in. I see that everything has been prepared for your arrival tomorrow. Looking forward to seeing you then. Hope your journey is as uneventful as mine was.

P.S. sure is freaking hot down here!!!!!

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I'm a girl and I just shaved my hair down there off. I used conditioner and went down first then went up. What should i use afterwards to keep it from itching?

Hair that grows back thicker or faster is only a MYTH. so don't believe that. (Here's the website to back up my "theroy" http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/hair-removal/AN00638

Because dry skin only increases itching, You can use some really good lotion like ~Dove Calming Night Effects $5.00~ It's supposed to in essence, calm the skin and take out the dead skin. Other than lotions, there's really not much you can do to keep it from itching.

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is there anyway to get rid of bacterial vaginosis besides going to the doctor. i'm very embarrased to show the doctor "down there" so is there anyways to treat it at home??? THANKS

No...There is no way to treat this without a Dr. prescribed medication. Yeast Infection cream is not strong enough. I know going to a Dr. does bring up queasy thoughts, but rest assured, that a Dr. see's hundred's of em' a day, and yours is no different. It's like ppl that you see wearing flip~flops... You notice if it's a white foot or a black foot but other than that, you don't really care about what it looks like up close lol.

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To start out, I have been with my boyfriend for over a year, and we plan on getting married. I'm still a virgin, and I really want to loose it to him soon. Since he is the guy I want to spend the rest of my life with. But, I heard your first time hurts really bad, and you start bleeding as soon as you start. Is this true?

I mean, I know a lot about sex, and everything. And I am sure I am ready. I just want to know about the pain, and bleeding and all. I mean, my boyfriend has a rather large penis too. Any websites will be helpful. Thanks. =]

Different girl's have different pain tolerances and different expierences. While "Sue" could have sex and bleed some and think it hurt like hell, "Mary" could have sex, not bleed at all and only expiernce little to no discomfort. If sex in general hurt THAT bad for the first time then everyone would stay virgins! (Except for the one girl that tried it and told us all how bad it was lol) Here is a good website for you: http://www.pamf.org/teen/sex/virginity/
It's got articles about: Sexual Health & Experience, Virginity & First Time Sex, Am I Ready?, Preparing for First Time, First Experience, Disappointments, Not Doing It,
Dealing With Pressure & Second Virginity?
I think you'll find it quite useful. Good Luck and remember: Insist on a Condom everytime!!

TIP: To avoid pregnancy all together, steer clear of your ovulation days which is the most likely time you'll get pregnant. Here is a website (ovulation predictor) and you put in when your last period was and it will tell you when the most likely time is that you will get pregnant. http://ibabydust.com/tools/ovulation_calendar/calendar.asp

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is spaying and neutering a pet wrong?

No not at all. Think of it as a woman getting her tubes tide.

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What are some good ways to straighten my hair? I use a Conair Cermaic straightner now and when I'm done, some of it is still frizzy. Any good creams or anything you would reccomend?

Sunsilk shampoo, conditioner and creme called anti-poof. Also, the wet 2 dry straightner is the bomb!! dag, havent used that word in years lol

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So.. Cheerleading pictures are comming soon and I always manage to get sucky pictures.. blah. Anyways, I would realy appreate if someone could tell me some cute poses fora cheerleading picture.. or send me a picture..?

For Indv.
&& buddy pic..


Im a freshman if that helps any

http://home.tampabay.rr.com/armsfamily/Sasha_cheerleading_2001.jpg

http://www.angelfire.com/mi4/cooterfish/Picturesofme
http://rds.yahoo.com/_ylt=A9gnMiCEo9tEM4IB9ryjzbkF;_ylu=X3oDMTA4NDgyNWN0BHNlYwNwcm9m/SIG=122fnlkv6/EXP=1155331332/**http%3a//www.imagesinaction.com/cheerleading.asp

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My period was July 26th to July 31st. I was ovulating from August 4th to the 9th. I had sex the 4th, 5th, 6th, and twice on the 8th. I also expierenced this:Many mothers-to-be get a few days of bleeding right around the time that the early embryo is burrowing into the wall of the uterus. -But, this happened around the 4th & 5th. I have never bled after my period, I have very regular cycles. I dont know if this is all in my head because I want a baby so much or what. How soon can I take a pregnancy test? I'd like to today but not if it's to early and will just come back a negative.

It'd be pointless to take it now, it will only come up negative. Best bet is to wait till the end of the month and take one or better yet go to a Dr.

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Alrite i have a hole in my molar and its pretty big. I know i need to go to a dentist. But i havent been in a year because its diffucult to get my parents to make an appointment and Keep to it.

I really need a filling in this tooth but i can't bring my self to the dentist. Is there anything i can buy from walmart or Cvs that will work for the mean time till i can fight my parents to bring me to one?

Thank you :)

The same thing I'm using right now.. Dentemp. You can get it at Wal-Mart for $2.34. Don't put it on till your fixing to go to bed, that way you want be inclined to eat, drink or smoke, to give it time to harden. Once it's on the tooth, I dont think it will just come off, I've had mine on for 2 weeks now and it hasn't budged. You can take it out anytime you want too so don't worry about the dentist not being able to remove this stuff when the time comes for you to really get it filled.

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ok, me and my girlfriend are planning on having sex,and she is scared that the condom might break or she might get pregnant. i was wondering if i pull out soon enough and im using a condom if that would decrease the chances, even tho theres the pre cuming thing? and i was also wondering if there are any other precautions we could take besides for birth control?

There's this stuff at Wal-Mart on the condom isle, I beleive it's called Eva Care or something like that. Anyways, She would take it and depoist it into her vagina prior to having sex and if you cum inside her, it's supposed to kill all the sperm. (It's like $5.00 and there is NO age limit to buying it)

Another thing to do, Is make sure she's not Ovulating. If she is, it can triple her chances of getting pregnant! Here's a website for her. She puts in the date of her last period and when it ended and it will tell you when she is ovulating so you know to steer cleer of those dates.
http://ibabydust.com/tools/ovulation_calendar/calendar.asp

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what are some safe, easy, non virus causing websites that i can get ringtones from and get them to my cell phone?

The safest way is to go though your service provider! Example:

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okay. im 14... i dont see how people geet fat... i mean theres alot a big people in this world always complaining about their weight..&& ive never been fat before..im like really skinny...and i eat alot...when i see that im gaining a few pounds i cut down a little..&& it helps me keep my figure...alot of people even think im anorexic but im not..trust me.....what i dont get is why is it a really big person all like look at me im fat..i dont fit in&& low self exsteem and stuff...when really they can control that fat of theirs...unless someones making you eat alot...if you really want to be skinny...work for it you fat cows...just kidding...just saying...if you really want to be skinny WORK...and if you think you dont fit in cause you're different(fat )..you are different..cause you take up more space so get over it seriously..im tired of listening to them fat people...most people who are fat are fat because theyre 'GREEDY'
get over it..or do something about it..WORK..


My question really is: why are there so many fat people in this world??? cant you learn how to cut down..you GREEDY people...why cant a fat person just stop eatting so much..and WORK..come on people!! if you are one who eats alot..it helps to cut down by eatting less..dont even look at the food that is saying"eat me!!!"...so please help me understand thanks...

Wow now don't this question bring out the bit*h in me. I'm 5 ft. tall and I'm overweight by about 40 pounds. I eat once a day..IF THAT and drink lots of water & I exercise. What's my problem Mrs. I hate fat people? lol I'll tell you, it's called LOW METABOLISM which Metabolism is the amount of energy (calories) your body burns to maintain itself. That's not an excuse for ALL fat people, but does account for a few percentage. Some are pre-disposed to be overweight because there mom or dad was -not the child's fault, there weight will just always be a struggle for them. Then there's the ones that are just a little overweight and ppl pick on them or call them fat and they get depressed and turn to food as there comfort. And then there's certain medicine that makes you gain weight. Maybe you should look into this a little more since it interests you so much. At least get your facts together before you go fat-bashing. Maybe "we" want to know why some girls want to be so skinny that they turn side ways and dissapear? or why there eyes look like they have sunk into there head from malnutrition? or why there bones are so brittle? or why there members of the itty-bitty-titty club? or why they have no curves what so ever? Being fat isnt the only problem there is out there, being skinny can suck too.

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