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Virginity and Ect.
To start out, I have been with my boyfriend for over a year, and we plan on getting married. I'm still a virgin, and I really want to loose it to him soon. Since he is the guy I want to spend the rest of my life with. But, I heard your first time hurts really bad, and you start bleeding as soon as you start. Is this true?
I mean, I know a lot about sex, and everything. And I am sure I am ready. I just want to know about the pain, and bleeding and all. I mean, my boyfriend has a rather large penis too. Any websites will be helpful. Thanks. =]
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i lost my virginity to my boyfriend who is about 3 years older than me and has a large penis. the first time for me was painful, but i only bled a little. like the pain was tolerable but i used tampons, rode my bike on a normal basis, rode horses, did stuff that could tear my hymen. the first time is different for everyone though.
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Well, it's different for everyone, but here are some websites:
www.teenwire.com
www.teenhealthfx.com
*Hope I helped!
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Different girl's have different pain tolerances and different expierences. While "Sue" could have sex and bleed some and think it hurt like hell, "Mary" could have sex, not bleed at all and only expiernce little to no discomfort. If sex in general hurt THAT bad for the first time then everyone would stay virgins! (Except for the one girl that tried it and told us all how bad it was lol) Here is a good website for you: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
It's got articles about: Sexual Health & Experience, Virginity & First Time Sex, Am I Ready?, Preparing for First Time, First Experience, Disappointments, Not Doing It,
Dealing With Pressure & Second Virginity?
I think you'll find it quite useful. Good Luck and remember: Insist on a Condom everytime!!
TIP: To avoid pregnancy all together, steer clear of your ovulation days which is the most likely time you'll get pregnant. Here is a website (ovulation predictor) and you put in when your last period was and it will tell you when the most likely time is that you will get pregnant. [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
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It's not like that for every girl. It depends how "loose" you are from other things. If he fingers you, that probably would make you a little bit looser, so it won't hurt as bad. You can also use lube, it makes it easier to slide in. If that is something you are unable to get, he can always like, lick his hand and rub the spit down there to make it wet, and that should also make it easier to slide in.
And again, it's different for all girls, some hurt, and some don't, i was one of the luckier ones, and it didn't hurt me, due to what i told you that could make it easier above. :]
And please remember to always stay safe and use a condom!
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