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Hey I'm Francesca!I know I havent been through everything, but I have had my share, and I would be glad to help you!
Ever broken any bones? How about rules?
What are the 3 things about you that you wouldn't want me to know?
1) I fall in love too fast 2) I HATE my body 3) I hide everything I feel
What is your favorite food color?
Purple
Do you sleep thru thunders and storms?
No, i'm a very light sleeper.
Are you a dog or a cat person, or rather prefer a comodo dragon?
i love cats, but I have a dog cause i'm allergic to cats.
What is the single feature people compliment about you the most?
My legs
Are you ALSO scared of spiders?
I don't like them.
What is your biggest fear, except for spiders?
Death, afterlife.
Name your most favorite part of day?
Daytime
Ever had an imaginary friend as a child?
Yes, her name was Masa
Ever been in an accident?
I have been in a car accident.
Have you ever stolen anything from a store or from someone?
I stole lotion from my grandma...
What are your turn on's and turn offs?
on's: attractive, loves God
off's: rude, having a "big head"
Are you a morning person?
I'm a morning and a night person.
What are your most favorite and least favorite foods?
Most: sushi
Least: black olives
Name the one piece of clothing you can't live without.
A bra
Do you have tattoos or piercings? If yes, how many and where are they?
I have a tattoo down my spine that says 'you are the light of the world'
My ears are pierced twice and my cartilage is pierced and my belly button is pierced.
What is/was your least favorite subject in school?
Math
Do you take showers in the morning or at night more?
After I exercise
What are the most important 3 things in your life?
1) God 2) my family 3) my friends
advice
1) so there's this guy and he's 17 yrs.old and i'm 14..i'll be turning 15 in october! would that be considered rape if we went out?[boyfriend girlfriend]
2) he's been sending me mixed messages online because we've been talking. i'm pretty sure he likes me though.[he got kept back 3 times so he's a sophmore] and i'm a freshmen] so if he sees me @ school we'll hug but he won't talk to me. i don't mind though because i think both of us are trying to keep our feelings on the "down low" so what should i do? he asked me for a kiss and i said yes,,, but i'm scared because this will be my 1st kiss and i'm pretty sure he's expecting it on the lips. so should i do it? and we'll be seeing eachother tonight @ the skating rink. i was thinking of dodging him.. but should i ??
i know this was very confusing to understand.. but please answer. thanx in advance.
you shouldn't dodge him cause that would be really mean, so dont. if you absoulutley dont want to go and you dont want to tell him the truth then call him and tell him you dont feel good but if i were you i would go meet him and when you get there tell him that you're not sure about the whole kissing thing. i hope i helped.
oh yeah and i dont think it would be considered rape unless he makes u have sex with him
What are songs
that like are about how you feel left out, and how you don't like your life.
Kind of like the song
"welcome to my life" by simple plan.
similer to that.
= ]
adams song- blink 182
be my escape- relient k
brilliant dance- forgot the group, sorry
girl anachronism-the dresden dolls
come on- goo goo dolls
i have more but i forgot the singers/groups so sorry! hope i helped!
so wen i go to starbucks i usually get a frappacino because i dont like the taste of strong coffee, but i like how there is a little tase of coffee in frappacinos. is the any other kind of drink that is really good but not alot of coffee?
you can get a hot chocolate or one of the frozen things. like the double chocolate chip or the vanilla bean or the strawberry kind. there really good and you can get them with little or no coffe at all! hope i helped!
So, i was the rebound girl for this boy, and he left me for a girl and now he has a girlfriend...and i still like him. How do i get him to know i still like him and that things can be different between us
if he left you for another girl then i dont think he is good enough for you but if you really do still like him and want to give him another chance than tell him that you still like him and if you could have another chance! i hope this helped!
Alright. So for whoever actually goes on advicenators, KEEP READING. Seriously, I REALLY need advice and I don't know who to talk to about it. I WILL RATE 5's for anybody who actually like tries to give a good- like really good answer. Okay this might be long but please. So, I need advice on a couple things, one of which is like at school, people call me a lezbo- WHICH I AM TOTALLY NOT. Like people (even popular) say it sometimes to my face, behind my back, or like say something kinda like "So make out with any hot girls lately" or something like "Yeah, you would look really good with all your hair chopped off- like a dyke", pretty much something like that in a really wise ass way. And I know from reading this you probably think I'm a total nerd, but I'm actually average. People are usually nice to my face but still, it really bugs me thats everyone once in a while people I don't even know, or do, talk about me and say stuff that they don't even know is true. I really would like for someone to help me GET OVER THIS and GET THIS TO STOP. It started last year so I really really want this to stop. I mean I would rather be known as a slut then a lezbo (no offense to anyone). I know I shouldn't care, but it's not something you can really not care about. I don't know maybe its because I never had a boyfriend (not like i don't want one, but that anyone who ever asks me out I don't want to go out with because either i don't know them, or they are one of my best friends) PLEASE! I really need advice, I get so upset about it. One more is, I really need help making new friends. Like I have about only three friends that I actually hang out with outside of school and act like myself around and then the other people are either from other towns or we only hang out once. I have like friends in school, but not the kind that you want to talk to on the computer or call or hang out with. I know its kind of pathetic, but I really do need to make new friends. I'm kid of shy at school and I know if I just acted like how I do around my normal friends (funny and like loud and around guys a total flirt) that I most likely could be in with the "popular kids". ha. yeah so all I want to do is have those rumors stop, and make a WHOLE new bunch of friends. One of my best friends,Casey, ALWAYS hangs out with me and kinda sorta follows me. Im pretty much her only friend because she NEVER talks in school. I really need to kinda of pull away from here because I'm spending all my time with her and not focusing on meeting new people&makin new friends.
Please help.!!!!
if you want to not be called a lezbo anymore, try going out with someone, even if you dont know them very well, you can get to know them. and if you go out with someone then people will know that you are into guys, not girls. or you can go to the school counselor (i no it sounds cheap but they can really help with problems like these). and for the meeting new people thing i think your on the right track, you just need to try to pull away from casey and talk more to other people and always act like yourself. i hope this helps!
I like this one guy in my school... he's really athletic, nice, and funny. but heres the thing... i've liked him for about a year and a half and i'm so confused on if i like him or not!
sometimes he's really shy and other times he's just his normal self around his friends. He hangs out with the wrong group of friends, who always get into trouble. He sometimes gets into detention in school, he's smart but then sometimes just is lazy. He plays 4 sports and the last thing is that he's shorter than me by about 7 inches!!!!
sooo i'm always getting mixed feelings about him. I like him one day, then the next i decide i don't like him anymore.
whats going on here? does this mean that my heart truly says that i like him? should i just forget about him? Whenever i try to forget about him, i act as my usual self, but then when i'm around him i'm still nervous!!!!!!!! even when i say to myself "just forget about him, he's not for me"
aghh i'm confused
signed,
mixed feelings
if you get nervous around him, i think that means that deep down you still like him even though he doesn't act how you would want sometimes. if you would go out with him for a while and you get bugged by his bad habits, tell him and im sure he will try to get better at not goofing off. dont make yourself not like him just because of the little things. i hope this helps!
i honestly can't concentrate, and it's starting to worry me a lot. like, i have midterms tommorrow and I'm trying to study, but it's like I try to read information and I'm not understanding it, and then why I try to understand it, it's really weird, it's like as if like my brain is telling me that it's too much work for it to make sense of what it's saying. i don't know if i'm lazy, but I don't think so, because i WANT to study. i WANT to learn this, it's not like I want to put it off. Sometimes I start daydreaming, but that doesn't seem to be my biggest issue. it's just the concentrating
any advice you can give me? please (:
it seems to me that you have a.d.d. or a.d.h.d., which can be treated if you get help. i have adhd and i went to my doctor and now im on medication that helps with concentrating and everything. just tell your parents and get an appiontment. hope this helps!
I know this is grose, but when you have sex for the first time.. what if you do it wrong?
or what if the guy puts it in the wrong hole..
???
lol if you do it wrong that meens both of you dont know what your doing so i guess it doesn't really matter if your just playing around. but if you do do it wrong you could probably tell by how it feels.
Okay, so here goes. I'm in 9th grade/f. Tommy is in 10th grade. Alex is in 10th grade and Harry is in 11th grade. I like Harry but no one at my school knows. Tommy and Alex are both in band and are really good friends. Tommy and Alex are obviously friends because they're both in 10th grade. Anywhos, I was talking to Tommy yesterday and I made a stupid mistake of saying "I don't know how to tell him that I like him." and he was like "who? is it charles?" and I said no. And then he was like "OHHH!! I KNOW ITS ALEX!!!" and now he's caught up in the idea that I like Alex even though I denied like a million times and he's pretty persistent when trying to find out who peoplelike. So now I don't know how to tell him that Alex isn't who I like without actually telling him that I was talking about Harry and not Alex.
if you really want him to know the truth then you should tell him that you like harry but if you dont care if he thinks you like someone that you really dont then just say that you like alex and tell him not to tell anyone then like a week later tell him you've moved on and dont like alex anymore.
Okay, I am really nervous about getting my braces off. I mean, I am worried that those brown spots will be underneath the brackets and my teeth will look gross. I brush my teeth twice a day with whitening toothpaste for the recommended two minutes and wash my mouth out with listerine. Is that enough? It's really hard to floss!
it sounds like you are doing a really good job of keeping your teeth clean, and when i got my braces off it didnt look bad or anything at all and i didnt even brush as much as you (i always forgot!). even if your teeth are a little discolored it wont look bad and if you are really self concouis about them use crest white strips, they work really well!
My grandpa died recently, and I am not sure how to deal with it. I feel like I have everything, grief, sadness, still inside me, but it wont come out. I think I have not come to terms with my feelings, just pushed them aside. What should I do?
talk to someone else that new him or even anyone that you trust. it will make you feel better to get your feelings out. good luck!
Well
I was saying that my eyebrows are messed up.
I know I can do waxing but there's really nothing to wax.
Could you dye around your eyebrows to darken the lighter hairs to make fuller eyebrows?
Do salons have that?
that would look really fake so i wouldn't try dying it. my advice is to just love how you look no matter what or you can maybe add in a little makeup to them but DONT make it look fake!
I never had acne and I don't have it on my face or anything just on my forehead.
I always have my hair over my forehead so I was thinking it was hair oils and maybe I should get the hair out of my face, but I don't think it would work,
Proactive.. I've heard so many bad things about it and I don't even want to try because I usually don't get in the habit of putting things on so if I stop using it I heard I'll break out really really bad.
I just started using clearisil but no results yet
Do you have any tips on getting rid of them?
Thank you :]
i wear proactive and it works really well, but if you dont want to its all right, and the rumor if you stop using it isnt true. also, you could go to a dermatologist and ask them for help.
how do i stop liking a guy and move on?
Oh God How did I do this..??? Well I told myself that I had talked myself into loving this guy only because I kept on telling myself that i like him a lot. I relised that if i just told my self that i liked him as a friend, it would work.. and it did... i know this might sound confusing, but it really did help me and I hope it helps you too! good luck~
hey i like this guy named ryan.I bacically talk to him every morning at school and we SEEM to agree to everything.Everything i say he bacically laughs at..and we SEEM to have alot in common.idk if he flirts with me. like ill be writing something, then he will like get a pen and scribble on it.But when hes around his friends, he flirts with this cheerleader,Nicole. But the next day at school(morning) he starts talking to me again. Does he like me?
age;14
gender;female
if a guy doesn't think he has a chance with you or he doesn't think you like him he will move on, but i think he likes you. test him by asking him to a movie, casually, like as a friend and see what happens!!!
hope it helps~
I hatee studying! I know rightt.. who doesn'tt? Like i'm at the point wheree like i'm not gunna do it! && i know i have to! Is there any way to make it fun.. ohh yeahh it's spanish if that helpss.
thankss
Yea, Im taking Spanish 3 at my high school. It is soooo hard to understand at first, and it still is, but it will totally make more sence if for like 10 minutes a day you look at flash cards with the vocab written on it. Don't spend major cramming time, cause you'll totally forget it.. trust me I know from personal experience... but spanish is a really good language to take, and it looks good on a reseme.~
Ok well im white lol
im not tan or light brown or olive colour lol im white anad i need to know what make -up suits me
cause i want to try on make up and i dont know what colours i mean i know pink wouldnt suit me
please help me =]
[xOo]
well, if you are white then you dont want to go for a shade to dark or the pinky because it will look totally fake, so go for a really light/calm shade of tan/brown. pink does look good but make sure its not gaudy. or you could just go to a tanning salon!
ok im 13 and female and ive started to notice im getting bigger around my stomach and my thighs. ive always been pretty small but last your we had an end of the year picnic for school where we went swimming and i felt really self conscious how can i tone my abs and thighs so i dont have to suck it in all summer?
This may not be the answer that you are looking for, but puberty is catching up with you, so you need to start working out, and jogging and eating healthier. I had the same problem you did when I was 12 and I started jogging and doing situps every day, and I got healthier, and I looked Hott! lol youll feel great about yourself if you learn how to eat right too! Hope everything works out great!!!~
you know in movies in stuff, esp. when someones gambling in las vegas they show one of those poeple behind a "card game" table doing this really cool thing.. like he makes the whole deck stand vertically and then moves the whole deck with one card.. i dont know how to describe it.. but it's REALLY cool and i need to know the name for it to be able to google it! and i need to google it to be able to learn it, and i need to learn it for a cool class presentation i ant to do! thaaaaank youuu!
well, the people are called like black jack dealers and i think its called a bridge that they do. hope this is right!
i am 13 female and this guy invited me over to his palce after school. he like really hot so i said yeah. well we got there and he gave me a drink booze. and soon i was like really spining. he start to make out with me and i let him. as he got my skirt up and panties down. some other guys show up and well they all end up have sex with me. I am not sure why i let it happen am i a slut?
you need to not let guys take advantage of you. it doesnt matter if there hot or not, dont let them get to you. If you start to feel like they are getting to intimate or your uncomfortable, just say you have to go.
hope this helps!