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the first time..
I know this is grose, but when you have sex for the first time.. what if you do it wrong?
or what if the guy puts it in the wrong hole..
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The bottom pic shows the vagina in relation to the anus. There are three holes in the woman's genital area. One is the urinary meatus, where the urine comes out (no, we don't pee out of our clitoris). The second is the vagina, which has a relatively loser ring of muscle at the opening. In the relaxed state, it gives way fairly easily to pressure. The anus is located probably a couple of inches away, and you would have to push harder and use lube to get into it, usually. It will be obvious to the woman if the man has his penis in the wrong hole, whether she is intending to have vaginal or anal intercourse. The two areas feel very different. Like you rarely stick a forkfull of food up your nose on acident when aiming for your mouth. ;)
Make sure you are having sex the first time with someone whom you trust. If you make a mistake, hopefully, you are both mature (and horny) enough to just keep going. [One warning, don't have vaginal intercourse without washing and changing condoms if the penis has already been in or near the anus. The other way around is fine.] If you're worried, have the woman guide the man's penis to the opening of her vagina with her hands. And relax. People and animals of many different intelligence levels do it all the time. It's not rocket science. You'll be fine. :)
Sabine
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Um, there's no real way of doing it "wrong" and it's very unlikely for them to put it in the wrong hole so don't fret.
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lol if you do it wrong that meens both of you dont know what your doing so i guess it doesn't really matter if your just playing around. but if you do do it wrong you could probably tell by how it feels.
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