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mixed feelings!
I like this one guy in my school... he's really athletic, nice, and funny. but heres the thing... i've liked him for about a year and a half and i'm so confused on if i like him or not!
sometimes he's really shy and other times he's just his normal self around his friends. He hangs out with the wrong group of friends, who always get into trouble. He sometimes gets into detention in school, he's smart but then sometimes just is lazy. He plays 4 sports and the last thing is that he's shorter than me by about 7 inches!!!!
sooo i'm always getting mixed feelings about him. I like him one day, then the next i decide i don't like him anymore.
whats going on here? does this mean that my heart truly says that i like him? should i just forget about him? Whenever i try to forget about him, i act as my usual self, but then when i'm around him i'm still nervous!!!!!!!! even when i say to myself "just forget about him, he's not for me"
aghh i'm confused
signed,
mixed feelings
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it sounds like someone has a cruuuuuuuush. :]
haha.
getting detention isn't that bad. my friends always get it & i still love them, haha.
he's smart; awesome. he's lazy sometimes; so am i & everyone else in the world.
are we bad people? noooooope, lol.
7 inches shorter? who caresssssssss. lol, if people say something to you about him, they're jealous that they can't get a guy like the one you have(if you ask him out).
wait, so do you want to go out with him?
if you do, ask the kid out!
but whatever happens, happens. =]
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That sounds so familiar that it's no even funny. I liked a guy like that for years. evry summer I'd forget about him and think that I was over him, but when i would go back to school i always got nervous again. If you're not planning on going anywhere with this guy, then it doesn't matter whether you like him or not. But, if you want to ask him out or think that he'll ask you out, then i suggest giving it a try.
good luck :)
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Dear mixed feelings,
Well it seems that you do like this guy but you're mind hasn't been made up but your heart has so they're playing tug-o-war with your feelings. Just wait a little bit and see what happens. And don't worry about the hieght thing, it doesn't matter. Just ask him to hang out at your place some day after school order some pizza and watch a movie and see what happens than plan your next move off of that.
-Beanie
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if you get nervous around him, i think that means that deep down you still like him even though he doesn't act how you would want sometimes. if you would go out with him for a while and you get bugged by his bad habits, tell him and im sure he will try to get better at not goofing off. dont make yourself not like him just because of the little things. i hope this helps!
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