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confused if i am a slut
i am 13 female and this guy invited me over to his palce after school. he like really hot so i said yeah. well we got there and he gave me a drink booze. and soon i was like really spining. he start to make out with me and i let him. as he got my skirt up and panties down. some other guys show up and well they all end up have sex with me. I am not sure why i let it happen am i a slut?
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You want the truth right?Yes,what you did was very bad for a 13 year old.You can end up pregnant and not know who the father is.Theyre all gonna end up using you for sex now.A woman or female should be modest and not give herself away that easily.Im not trying to make you feel like crap im just telling you the honest truth.Anywayz whats past is past and now you have to thinik about the future.You can get STD's...do you know what that is?Before you do anything in life you should always ALWAYS think about the consenquences.Always look before you leap.
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let b truthful i think you are not a slut but i would lie off the booze and dont blur ur judgement
it could have been worse
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What happened to you doesn't mean you are a "slut". You probably didn't show the best judgement in going to the guy's place after school--I'm wondering how well you really knew him, since he turned out to be such a jerk by getting you drunk and taking advantage of the situation. Letting other guys have sex with you as well tells me that he is NOT worth your time in any way whatsoever. If you didn't agree to have sex with these other guys, then what happened was rape. At any rate, no matter how hot a guy is, I would advise you to wait until you really know him before being alone with him in his house.
These guys all took advantage of your intoxication. Did you have protected sex? Are you on birth control? Please realize that you were in a very dangerous situation, and don't repeat it. Don't get down on yourself for it, either; it's in the past, you can't change it, and it doesn't mean that you are a "slut". Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. gigi
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Wow. Thirteen? And how many guys were there? I wouldn't necissairily [sp?] call you a "slut" but you aren't the most innocent out of the bunch either.
First off, you shouldn't have taken the booze. Second, why did you wear a skirt? Were you expecting to get laid? Third, If you only had one drink of booze, it's not enough to get you drunk enough to not be aware of your surroundings. I know all of this sounds mean, and I really am not trying to sound that way, but wow. That's reeeeally not good.
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you need to not let guys take advantage of you. it doesnt matter if there hot or not, dont let them get to you. If you start to feel like they are getting to intimate or your uncomfortable, just say you have to go.
hope this helps!
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