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First off -- I'm a very honest and straight forward person. I don't like drama and I'm pretty chill. When I'm older I would like to be a therapist. So, this site really allows me to practice ! :)

I tend to go by the fllllow and don't regret much. I'm in love with Lillll' Wayne. I could watch movies everyday of my life.



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where can i buy cheap waxing kits for the bikini area? or even better can you give me a specific name on what to buy?

You can buy it from any drugstore. You could see if Nair can be used there, its usually used for your legs, but I'm not sure.

In my opinion, I don't think it is good to wax yourself down there. Because wax's that are sold at stores are usually more irritating and cause A LOT more pain than when you get it done.

For example, my friend bought wax from a drugstore- I'm not sure of the kind- and she waxed her eyebrows with it, and it actually caused her to bleed and scab.

Hope I helped & Good Luck!

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What are some shoe brands geared more towards teenage girls?

There's :

-Vans
-Rocket Dog's
-Roxy
-Etnies

For adults and teenage girls there's :

-Pumas
-Juicy Couture
-Burberry
-Desiel

And Ballet Flats, which are made in all different types of brand.

But mostly shoes that are made for adults can be worn by teenagers, and visversa.


Hope I helped!

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Omg..I cannot stand it when people use your instead or you're or their instead of there or they're.
OH MY GOSH. Example : Your so stupid. & Their retartarded. & Their you are! & You're shirt. And...would you look at that...another error! : Are princess. -_- (meant to be "OUR princess")

GRR. This happens a lot to me. Like I see people doing it over and over and over again. It annoys the hell out of me! Would it be too rude to correct them? They should know by now, right!?

Ugh.

I do this all the time too. My friends get so annoyed by it, and hate it. So, don't correct them often, and say it in a nice manner.

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OK im a 16/f and ive only had sex twice.. i know for sure that neither of the people ive had sex with has an STD. But ive been having stomach cramps lately, and it burns when i go to the bathroom. Could that be an std?

It could be possible that you have an UTI ( Urinary Tract Infection. ) This causing it to always make you feel as if you have to go to the bathroom, and when you do go to the bathroom it's a little tinkle and it burns. To stop the burning and the constant feeling of having to go to the bathroom you can take a pill called Uristat (sp?) which can be bought at a local drugstore, something like walgreens.

You can only take the pills for three days, and you must go to a doctor. The pills will make your pee turn orange. bUt that's normal. So, remember to go to the doctor, UTI's don't go away.

A UTI can be caused by wearing tight pants, not changing your pad/underwear/or tampon often enough, and not wiping correctly.

But I'm not sure you have this, so go to the doctor and find out.

Hope I helped!

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when u give a guy a bj can u use your tongue? or would that be weird..?

You're supposed to use your tongue sometimes.

So, no it's not weird.

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Can u have ear sex...becuz I have done everything else nd it gets kinda boring nd I need more excitement..

Ear sex is not possible.

And your penis, if you're a boy, will probably not fit. Also, it would stretch out the ear. And that would just look weird.

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m/13 so if i saw a girl or a group of them anywhere that i didnt know. if i wanted to know them id go up and say "hey, my names___..... whats yours?" and if they replied id ask where they are from , what school do they go to. i wouldnt be scared or something to try it, its just asking them for their msn or phone number, and i only knew them for a few minutes. would they think i was a weirdo or something? if they gave me their msn id talk to them a bit and say that me and some of my friends are coming to the cinema. want to come? ive seen some random girls i dont know look at me for a while, whispering to each other, but not coming over. any suggestions random conversation starters/topics?

At that age, girls aren't as mature as onler girls, and aren't really used to talking to random guys. Some might giggle about it alittle, and others might be totally fine with it.

The randoms girls who were looking at you, and then whispering to their friends, were checking you out. They were probably telling their friends that you were cute/hot etc. So if you see this happening, go over there and talk to them. And, girls don't usually come over to the guys first, unless they're extremely outgoing and confident.

You're doing good on the conversation. You could also ask them about their hobbies, sports they play, what types of movies or music they like, just things like that.

Good luck & hope I helped!

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my sister wore super red nail polish and when she erased it (and yes she did it good because my aunt used to work at the nail salon so she has everything at home) her nails were like pinkish red.

What's wrong? she scrubbed really hard and stuff but it just stays that colour

This is totally normal.

Darker color nail polish are harder to get off and they stain the nails alittle for a while, especially red.

This should go away in a week at the most.

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In the movie, "Super Sweet 16", the one where Aly and AJ Michalka starred in, what was the name of the song that hellogoodbye sang during the part of the movie where Aj was sitting by the poolside while Aly was hanging out with Aj's friend?

Haha, I just saw that movie today too :)

The song is called All of Your Love. I love that song, and that band!

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i've been talking to this guy all summer but we've liked each other for like ever. but he went on vacation a couple days ago and called me last night. he said his dad got a job offer in tennessee and he's moving there. well i think hes joking because hes been known to do crap like that and hes joked around like that a couple times in the past. but idk if he's serious or not i love him and he says he loves me but if he did, he wouldnt want to move down there anyway. but idk if hes joking or not. please help.
15/f

Just ask him!

As for him moving, even if he loves you he still has to move. He can't not move just because you love eachother, he's not a legal adult yet, so he has to live with his parents or a guardian. He may not like moving down there, but has to.

Just find out if he's joking or not. Easiest way is to just come out and ask him. I can't tell you if he's joking or not, because I don't know that answer.

Hope all turns out the way you want it to and good luck!

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anyone nos any good game websites ? thanx

pogo.com

addictinggames.com

ebaumsworld.com (sp?)

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I was just wondering..
If four people are in a car and three of them are smoking weed.. does the fourth one [the one not smoking] end up with any of the affects?

If you were in a Clam, which is when you are smoking pot in a car, with all the windows up, so no smoke can escape. This allows the car to become filled with the smoke and everyone in there becomes high, even if you are not smoking, you still get a contact high. You can also get a contact high if the smoke is constantly directly blown into your face. I've heard that even with a contact high, it still shows up in your system. Just less than if you would have physically smoked it.

Hope I helped

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i like really really funny, girly, heartwarming, romantic movies. can you give me some recommendations? btw im 13 years old, and i can watch anything up to rated R.. just as long as it isnt THAT bad, ya know. i love the parent trap cause it leaves a fuzzy feeling in me, i like.. dance movies, movies about kids my age.. not too old movies too. stuff like that..

There's :
- The Holiday
- Because I Said So
- How To Lose a Guy In 10 Days
- A Walk to Remember
- Elizabethtown
- Just Married
- Rumor Had It
- Prime
- It Takes Two

Other good Movies
- The Ringer
- Fun With Dick and Jane

These movied are comedy and kind of have love in it.

But the best movie I mentioned is How To Lose a Guy in 10 days!

When you're older, you should watch ; Dirty Dancing, Pretty Woman, The Sweetest Thing, The Best of Youth, The Girl Nest Door, Euro Trip, American Pie Movies, and Riding in Cars with Boys.

Hope I helped!

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Ok I had sex with my boyfriend the first time, he wasnt a virgin, but afterwards it didn't really bother me, why do people make such a big deal out of your first time? It wasn't all it was cracked up to be, am I thinking normal?

It's peoples opinion on the subject. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, and yours is that it wasn't a big deal. For some, like the columnist below me said, is like loosing their innocence, an to others this is not a big deal. Some people like to rush and get the first time over with. Others like to wait to share this experience with someone they truly care about.

Hope I helped

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This is Pretty nasty i know but i have a question..I was making out with my boyfriend and i got on his and i dont know what it was but i was kind of grinding on it and i felt this huge rush through me it felt amazing..well after that i was holding a pillow which was long and it was against my front part also and it gave me that same rush after a little bit because i kind of did the same thing i did with my boyfriend but with it..What was that rush? and is it like masturbation?
Thnks alot in advance

You didn't have an orgasm. You were horny. This can occur during masturbation also. The thing you did with the pillow, is kind of like masturbation.

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ok one of my friends took a pregnancy test and well actually she took two and well the instructions said that
negative -
positive +
and her tests come up as a straight line like up indown line with out the the other line
its not the negative sign nor the positve signs
and both of them showed up like this
what does that mean

It's negative, she is not pregnant.

Haha and DangerNerd has a good point.

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14/m whenever im somewhere and girls i do not know see me that are my age, they seem to be embarrassed and wont look me in the eye. I see them looking at me when im not looking at them and they wont face me. i went over to my friends house and she had two of her friends i had never met before. They were eating when i walked in and the two new girls looked really embarrassed and wouldnt look at me. then when they get to know me there not embarrassed anymore. does this happen to all people when they have never met before??? im not doing anything or looking at them strangely.

Well the girls were checking you out. When a girl you have never met is looking at you when you are not looking, and won't look at you when you are looking at them, then they are checking you out. And as for the girls who were eating and seemed embarrassed, that's normal. Some girls don't like eating in front of guys they've just met, or let alone guys in general.

This is totally normal. You're not embarrassing them. They're just shy. As I'm sure you're when you meet someone new.

Hope I helped.

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Hey I have a question about clothes. What kind of clothes should I wear to be more attractive to girls. I have most of the basics of dress down but just wanted some tips. Any advice is appreciated. 16/M

My friends and I like when guys who wear things like:

- Khaki shorts or pants.
-With a polo, or cute t-shirt.

- Jeans with or without rips. If with rips, minor rips. Or jean shorts.
-This is also cute with a polo or cute t-shirt.

- Also, hoodies. Cute hoodies from like Abercrombie, Hollister, Zumiez, or Pac Sun. Depending on your style.

And make sure everythings clean and neat.

But, if you want to go more dressy black dress pants and a button up dress top with or with out a tie is cute.

Hope I helped ?

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if i have unlimited texting
and i send pictures from my phone
to my email
does it cost still
or is it including in the unlimited?

It doesn't cost money. I think the people answering below me got it mixed up. You mean that you send pictures from your phone to your email, which you check on a actual computer, right? If so, then you're not connecting to the internet, and there's no extra charge.

Hope I helped?!

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To make a long story short, my cell phone fell in the toilet. It the sprint A900M, if that helps somehow. I don`t even know how that could help, but do you know of anything I could do to fix it? Or should I just buy a new phone?

My mom did the same thing with her Motorola Razr, and she had to get a new phone. So I suggest you get a new phone. Maybe see if it's covered in your warrenty. But if you dry it out, I doubt it will work.

Hope I helped ?!

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