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talking to girls i dont know
m/13 so if i saw a girl or a group of them anywhere that i didnt know. if i wanted to know them id go up and say "hey, my names___..... whats yours?" and if they replied id ask where they are from , what school do they go to. i wouldnt be scared or something to try it, its just asking them for their msn or phone number, and i only knew them for a few minutes. would they think i was a weirdo or something? if they gave me their msn id talk to them a bit and say that me and some of my friends are coming to the cinema. want to come? ive seen some random girls i dont know look at me for a while, whispering to each other, but not coming over. any suggestions random conversation starters/topics?
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At that age, girls aren't as mature as onler girls, and aren't really used to talking to random guys. Some might giggle about it alittle, and others might be totally fine with it.
The randoms girls who were looking at you, and then whispering to their friends, were checking you out. They were probably telling their friends that you were cute/hot etc. So if you see this happening, go over there and talk to them. And, girls don't usually come over to the guys first, unless they're extremely outgoing and confident.
You're doing good on the conversation. You could also ask them about their hobbies, sports they play, what types of movies or music they like, just things like that.
Good luck & hope I helped!
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Just go up to her and say hi. If you know one of her friends [or a person she's walking with] talk to that person first. Really, I'd love it if a guy came up to me and struck up a conversation. Doesn't have to be a deep, intense discussion. Talk about where you are. At the movies? Ask what she's seeing, or what movies she's into. [Really? You like the Simpsons too? We should see the movie together next weekend!] Something like that. I've been going out with a guy I met at a friend's party for almost a month now. He got my screenname from a friend [that or he got my myspace from said friend, I don't remember] and it was sneaky, but cute. Not stalkerish. You could do something like that and talk online at first, then ask for her number.
If I gave a guy my number, I'm probably into him, or at least want to be friends. You wouldn't come off as desperate if you asked me to the movies in the same conversation as asking for my number- it shows confidence. Confidence is hot :D
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ohkayy well a guy did this recently to mee and i thoughtt it was really cutee.
me and my friend walked around them and then went and sat on a bench. then after a few minutes these two guys came overr and they were like heyy whats up and were like nott alott. you? and hes like ahh not muchhh. but you know it was obvious you wanted us to come talk to youu. and then the girl will most likly say well it workedd didnt it??
Then afterr a few minutess its fine to askk for their numberr or whateverr.
The key is confidencee. if you seem awkward, girls will feel awkward around you, and not wanna hangg. so make them feel comfortable. makingg us laugh alwayss works :D
as for the moviee thing. i wouldnt recomend asking a girl to hang out rightt after you get her number, youll seem desperate.
Call her atleast two times, just to talk. and thenn you can call her and invitee her to hangg with youu.
i hope i helped you :D
id lovee if youd keep me updated.
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