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I have to do 5 hours of community service for school and I was wondering if anyone had any ideas on what I could do that would involve things that I like to do. Some things I like to do that might involve any kind of community service are being with little kids and dancing. Any help would be appreciated... thanks.

daycare...hospital visiting kids and like reading to them and stuff...good luck

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umm yes people know what it is and what it means (the trinity) including me..keep me posted if u want me to tell you.

Sorry Thats not what i meant to say....i meant to say some people dont believe in it and say theres no proof...and that some say it was the big bang and all that and evolution...and that there is no god...sorry...i was thinking about suttin else at the time...had some stuff on my mind...thanks though...maybe we could talk bout God and the trinity sometime..

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My bestfriend is being cruel to me. She likes to show off. She also acts to me like i am her slave. She is a suckup and don't know what to do. We have been friends for so long. I am moving far away soon and she is either really sad and is mean to me or she doesn't care that i am moving. I don't know. She use to be so nice. But know she is trying to be popular and mean. PLEASE HELP!!!

Maybe shes trying to make other friends since her best friend is moving far away. Im sorry that you have to deal with that plus moving..i hope it gets better!

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I was invited to a black tie event for the first time my escort is wearing black and white so what should i wear im 5'5 132 pounds should i go with a short dress or long one please help.

Long dress one that touches the floor, black dress maybe with sparkles or something pretty just not too flashy, sliver high heeled shoes or black high heeled shoes...hope i helped

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okay, so i basically live in my room when i`m home.i`m kind of getting bored with it, so i need ideas to make it like super cute! So can some of you guys tell me what all you have in your rooms?
also, i need something to help keep me organized, so my room doesnt end up soo messy all the time! please help i`ll rate you all 5's

ok well what i have in my room is a really cute lamp...its taller than me....and its all different colors...also spruce it up with LOTS of picutres of friends and family and some posters...if your talking color...maybe light pink or pink and maybe light purple...or baby blue..also for your room add some colorful candles and cute rugs and little accessories for your room...
To keep you organized you should make a chart and put on it one thing a day to clean in your room so that its not as messy and that you dont have to do alot in one day...like maybe
monday sweep/vaccum floor
tuesday clean wood/desk/window sill/book shelf
Wednesday Pick up things off floor
Thursday clean dresser
Friday relax day
Sat. clean anything that looks messy
Sun. If anything is messy clean it, if not relax
Hope i helped!

~Always~

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My exboyfriend and I have been hanging out. We're the closest you can be without being together. Valentine's Day is coming up, should I get him something because we have feelings for each other, or should I just leave it alone since we're not together?

its perfectly ok to get him something but you dont have to considering your not together....maybe a stuffed animal and a card saying that you really cherish your friendship and stuff...but you dont have to....dont be bummed if he doesnt get you something though, but maybe you should have a talk with him and say like " valentines day is coming up....are we exchanging since were close friends? " something like that....hope i helped.....goood luck!

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I am jewish, people tell me all the time that in their religion there is a trinity of some sort. My question is how can Jesus, The Holy Ghost, and _________ make up G-d? I dont know the third one either.


I'm just a little confused.

~Nokomis~

Father, Son, And the Holy Spirit? lol your asking how can they be god? well the answer is...nobody knows....everybody has beliefs..If you think about it this way....an apple has a core, meat( insides ) and the skin...god is just like that with the Father, Son, And the holy spirit...one holds it together,without that the rest would be nothing...one is the meat...without the meat there would be anything to live off of, and the other is the core..without the core there would be nothing...my youth group teacher has a handshake for that...the first is the Father and thats handshake part is a regular handshake like you would somebody you just met or your Father, then son hankshake part is as if you were to shakehands with one of your buddies where you grab their fingers, then the Holy Spirit which is the last part of the handshake where you do the butterfly you and the other persons hands. Its something that catholics/Christians believe in I believe in it. I am Catholic/Christian. I hope i answered you question and if i didnt sorry for wasting your time learning about a different religion...good luck.

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hiya,
im 14 and ive been going out with my boyfriend for 3 weeks now. it'll be exactly a month on valentines day. he's the sweetest guy i could ever know, and i know he'd never do anything to hurt me. he's so sweet in fact that he texted me last night to ask if it would be ok for him ti kiss me on valentines day. we're going ot watch the sunset in the park overlooking the city, it should be really pretty.
in theory, it should be the perfect evening, but im terrified. ive never kissed a guy before, so im really scared about my first kiss. and i like him so much, i really dont want to mess this up. everyones told me it'll be fine if i relax and enjoy it, but im scared that i wont enjoy it! i mean, what if we kiss and its horrible? what do i do then? and what if i screw it up completely?
please help!
xxx

Hey
Well First that sounds SO romantic! im so happy for you! Ok Second, Your afraid you wont like it, But accutally If you truely do love him then you will feel like your on a cloud...If your talking in terms that what if he sucks at kissing or what if i suck at kissing...well if he sucks at kissing it shouldnt be hard to help him out with it...and plus that shouldnt really matter all that much if you truely love/like him...if you suck at kissing then practice...I've heard of people who have used their hand, mirror, pillow, anything really...just practice.. there is really no right way to kiss its just whatever comes naturally...with tongue..thats different..If you screw up completely, then 1.) your boyfriend shouldnt be rude or hurtful...its your first time...2.) laugh at yourself dont show sadness or madness because you screwed up..laugh it off...and your friends are right...when you get together and he goes to kiss you just relax yourself...enjoy it...close your eyes though..im sure nobody wants someones eyes staring at them while they are kissing...lol...maybe do meditation or yoga before you go out together..help relax you...If you kiss and its horrible then just keep going on through the date...its ok that you dont like it maybe your just a little uncomfortable since its your frist time and you feel a little unsure....but it should be special...it sounds like you will have a wonderful night...just dont sweat it..you'll be fine...i hope you have a wonderful night...have fun! ; )

~Always~

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Is it wrong to cry if your dog died and you've known her since you were a toddler? My friends would think it's silly, and when you think about it, it kind of is. Does anybody else think it's silly?

no i think its perfectly ok...if my dog ever died...i would be so upset for like weeks...im very attached to my dog...at times she could make me mad and i could say i hate her but really...i love my dog and that might sound silly but its the truth...so dont be afraid to cry its always good to get out your emotions...and if your friends were real friends they wouldnt think thats silly because something that gives you pain is not something they should laugh at....im sorry about the dog.... :`(\

~Always~

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Help!! My Twin And I dont know what to get our boyfriends for Valentines day! Valentines is a week away tomorrow and we have no clue what to get them! We dont want to get them candy because thats sorta a girl thing. Hmmm No Clue!!! I need some good ideas for me and my twin to use! Please All answers are fine with me i am very open at this point!
--Thanks!!--


**I am thinking maybe a big basket of candy and a card???**

ok you could get him flowers like so many flowers for so many years months weeks days youve been together and maybe dinner ( idk how old you are ) umm a sweet card...maybe something he likes, maybe sports or something...good luck!

~AlWaYs~

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13-m What clothes should be worn on a regular day when ur trying to impress people.(im on a budget so no p diddy stuff.)

be yourself...you shouldnt follow trends...be origional....pick things that u like and think are cute.....good luck and have fun shopping!

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ok my best friend is dateing this guy that iu so totally had first and he kissed me and held my hand and then all of the suddenhe likes my best friend when i see them together i get so sad and she keeps on saying oh i will dump him and then she doesnt what should i do by lost and forgotten

Forget both of them...if she was your real friend she wouldnt go out with someone that you really like...and if he cared about you at all then y would he want to hurt you....you can find better friends and better boyfriends....good luck hun..

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When you put on eyeliner on your bottom eyelid,do you put it above or below your eyelashes? Also, what kind of eyeliner should i use? liquid or pencil? what brand?

thanks aton!

I put eyeliner on the top and bottom....an i do it above my eyelashes...dont do it too dark...i use pencil and pretty much every pencil eyeliner workes good...hope i helped!
~Katie Leigh~

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Ok well I used to be like really popular, like the most popular girl in the school, and im not just saying that. Like some of my friends who weren't popular were alway like i wish i could be like u ur so popular and stuff even some kids i dont no that well would say it. And like every guy thinks im way out of their league. But this year things have changed, my best friends from last year who i hung out with everyday barely talk to me anymore. We used to be so close like they would even call my mom "mom" or "mommy" we used to have so much fun together and now we barely speak to each other. And i used to tell a couple of them everything and im still friends with them but not as good we only hang out in school. but like now i hang out with the kids that arent popular and everyone says i ditched them and now all my old guy friends are really mean to me. My nest guys friend doesnt even say hi to me in the hall anymore I MISS THEM ALL SO MUCH!! i really miss being known as popular i no it sounds selfish but i had so much fun where i was before and now i still have fun but its different WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?! HELP!

Ok, First its not all aout being popular, but its good to be friends with everyone, not just the popular kids...try being friends with people not so popular and call your old friends and have a hugh sleepover and start talking about how you miss the old days and how you always hung out with them and stuff...as for the guys just talk to them and be confident in yourself and strike up a conversation with them...you can still have just as much fun not eing popular..for your best friend guy, call him on the phone ask him if he wants to chill like go bowling sometime or come to your birthday party and stuff...im not popular but im well liked bye many people i dont hate anybody and i dont think anybody hates me...i just be nice to everyone...try making it hard for people to hate you...i hope i helped...

~Katie Leigh~

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I was just shoveling yesterday alot and last night when I was sleeping I noticed my back hurt ALOT. Today even when Im typing I cant bend over because it hurts too much. What can I do to stop it from hurting? Please help!
Jacki

Jacki~
put a hot pack on it....ask one of your parents to massage it and then put a hot pack on it...also take some advil or something for it...good luck

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ok so, im friends with these people, and they were always cool with me, but then they like their group split in 2 and i was still friends with them but now they're mad at me cause im friends with who they hate. i cant be friends with both sides, what can i do?

if they are that selfish then they dont sound like such good friends....they are trying to controll who your friends with and thats not right..you dont tell them who to be friends with so te shouldnt tell you...id say forget about them if they are seriously going to get mad at you for having friends other then them...it will be hard but it will be worth it...god luck

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i'm 13(male). my brother is 10(male).


i've shared a room with him since the day he was born. when i was 7 or 8, we switched to bunk-beds. the ladder up to the top is prety much the only place of privacy i have, other than the bathroom. my family isn't the richest in the world, but we're in a pretty good financial situation compared to others (my mom is a college professer, my dad is a newswriter). my question is, am i selfish for asking for my own room. we've been searching for about a year give or take, and have been outbid in 3 situations so far. currently we're in the midst of bidding.


sometimes i do feel selfish, because my parents are slightly older, and i feel that i'm taking away too much of their retirement funds. (this isn't exactly all for me, the neighborhood we're in now is pretty bad for them, for ex: my view from my room is at my neighbors dark green pool, 10 feet away, and theirs noise pollution from the other side from a stupid bird, which drives my parents nuts.) so am i asking for too much?

no your not asking for too much your in your teen years and you just want privacy, somewhere that you can just relax by youself and right now you dont have that due to your room and brother problems...just think of it as a good benificial thing for all of you family...good luck and i hope you find a place...

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When me and my friends go shopping, usually the only thing we buy is FOOD. lol. We plan on buying clothes but we rarely do, what stores have good clothes, and what are some good styles? Next time we go we actually need to buy clothes.

Abercrombie, hollister, kholes, j c penny, places like that....just buy things you think are cute and that you like...good luck have fun!

~Katie Leigh~

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any reccomendations? I like nature sort of screen names and I want one that will last forever

lavenderRAINdrop
LavenderForest
things like that..good luck...

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hey i cut myself and a teacher asked me about them and i have to go to see a counselor should i deny it all or get help?

dont deny it....tell the truth you dont want to get caught up in cutting its not good...my advice to you is tell the truth and get help so you can stop cutting....good luck...

~Katie Leigh~

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