about

My name is Melissa :]. I live in California.I seriously do. Fresno,CA. Look it up. I didn`t know what or where Fresno was until my dad came home & told us we were moving there.. I live in like the friggen richiest part of Fresno called Clovis[it`s another city that`s in Fresno.]Nothing ever happens in Clovis.No robberies,killings,etc. Things always happen in Fresno. This city is so effing small that you find out about everyone`s problems. It`s like Gossipville. My highschool is even worse. People talk smack like it`s their hobbie, so i`ve had my share of gossip about me. Doesn`t really bug me, unless you continue to do it. Then I get pissed. Who wouldn`t?! Fresno is okkaayyy, if you meet the right people. But Clovis will always be the most boringest place ever.



I've been through alot. Anything really. I don`t really trust people that easily, but if I do, then congrats, you`re awesome. Don`t straight up ask me what i`ve been through. If I really really really really really really really really know you, then I might tell you. But you know, it`s hard telling people what you`ve been through because it brings back so much horrible memories. I got over some shit, but it still leaves marks..Welcome to a world where being yourself isn`t good enough..



My closet is full of clothes from Hollister,Abercrombie,Forever 21, Charlotte Russe, and all those preppie stores that you hate. I can`t live without my cell phone or a purse. Don`t judge me. If you do, I friggen hate you with a passion.I have alot of confidence, and you might think that i`m cocky, but i`m not. I actually think low about myself, but what girl doesn`t? I sometimes think that i`m better than a few people, but i only compare to those who are pretty shallow & fucking dumb. Like gossip starters, stalkers,backstabbers, & anything like that.I'm probably the coolest 15 year old that you`ll ever meet :]. I love going to the beach, even though i HARDLEY ever get to go. I was born in San Francisco. I move alot. I stayed in new york for 4 years because of my daddy's job. But now i'm back here in california.I love my friends. I'm a really nice girl. I`m full of sarcastic remarks.Anything acustic(sp) realllyy turns me on. I love it when a guy can sing & play something hot, aww so adorable, don`tcha think?! ;]



I have a boyfriend & his name is Junior. He's gorgeous.HE PLAYS THE ACUSTIC GUITAR & SINGS FOR MEEE!! Oh man, I just feel like grabbing him. He makes me really happy && he surprises me alot. He makes me feel all like..warm and soft inside.Shut up. Your jealous. I know. Our love is anything but average. We have the weirdest relationship, but I wouldn`t trade it for the world..I love it when we watch re-runs of the O.C. I love how he can watch romantic movies with me. I love it when he lets me win in video games.I love when he kisses my nose or forhead. I love it when he trips me lol. I love it when he gives me piggy back rides & won`t let me fall when i`m standing on fire hydrants.I love it when we eat chicken nuggets together & share only one drink. I love it when he squeezes my face cheeks together & kisses me. I love the way he runs up to me at school & jumps on me. I love the way we skip together holding hands. I love it when I take out the crust of my bread && he eats it. I love it when I turn out to be hecka sick & he comes to my door with soup & his blanket. I love it when he sends me like .. friggen 2 page love letters & he sends them through the mail & i get them. I love it how he believes in me & teaches me to make better choices and incourages me. I love the way he can easily cheer me up with the simpliest things like smiling. I love it when i start crying and he cheers me up by doing the "balony dance". Lol. I love the way he pokes my cheeks with his finger. That`s love, baby.♥

I say tre-cool & dunzo alot.


advice

I made this thing for my boyfriend, and I wrote "I love you" on it, but I have room to put his name under that.
Do you think I should personalize it or just leave it as "I love you"?

I say personalize it. It`ll mean that you ONLY love him. It`s cute. :]

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there is this girl at school that i really like. i want to ask her out but i don't know her that much.

what advice could you give me?

thanks

I just hope you realize that since you hardly know the girl, it wouldn`t be such a good idea into asking her out. I say talk to her a little bit more. If she`s around you, make small talk about what you guys are doing in a class(ex,p.e, history project, spanish worksheets). Get it? First realllyyy talk to her, or flirt with her too. Then when you see her around, just give this cute smile or something.

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why would a guy that you're just friends with get mad if you ask about a friend of his? I had just gotten hired at a new store. I found out from my guy friend that another one of his friends got hired at the same company. I asked him what department he got hired in, and if he knew that I was working there as well. Then my friend got angry and said "why do you want to know"? It almost sounded like he was jealous.
Is this a normal reaction? Or does it sound like he's possesive of me, considering that we are just friends.

It`s a normal reaction. Honestly, I think he might just like you, but doesn`t want you to know. I`ve dealt with guys like this alot of times, && we ended up going out..Weirrrddd. Anyways, you might just want to flirt with him a little bit[if you want]. The reason he said "why do you want to know?" is his way of trying to find out if your into his friend. Totally guy expressions.

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Okay im totally in luv with this guy but he treats me like sh*t. I dont know wat it is about him I love about him but I cant help it. Everytime I c him I try to stay away or act like a total b*tch but all he hasa to do is touch me and I fall back into his arms. Then he gets wat he wants and leaves. I dont know wat to do,I feel like im gonna b stuck with him forever. Please help.
Tyisha Fonder

You realize that he hurts you, so why don`t you do anything to just dump him? Trust me, you`ll be better off without him. Things can seriously turn really dangerous with him. Break up with him NOW. You aren`t in love with him, because if you were you wouldn`t want to break up with him or try & stay away from him. You know this isn`t love. So don`t stay into this relationship. If he treats you like shit, he isn`t worth it.

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Last night my boyfriend and I went to a lounge with my friends. Me and my boyfriend came back to my house and told me as soon as we got in that he told my best friend that she's been looking better lately. This kind of upsetted me even though he told me himself. It makes me feel uncomfortable that if he goes out with me and my friends that he'd be checking them out.. which I guess all guys do anyway. But I mean, she is my best friend and all.. I just think that what he said to her should have been kept to himself. Like, I know that if I was hanging with his friends and I told one of them that they looked good that he'd be mad too. Plus, I've always been insecure about myself lately since my depression has gotten a lot worse.. so that might be why the comments he gave her made me upset. I don't know.. but do you guys think I'm overreacting?

No your not. It`s typical to have a girl get mad when they`re boyfriends are checking someone out. Especially your best friends. So no, your not overreacting.

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I have a problem.
I cut.
LIke I stop every once in a while,
but than things at home, my mom, and stuff get me upset again.
So I cut again.
I don't kno what to do.
I want to stop, but I can't.

Well firstly, I`m proud of you that you want to stop cutting. :] . Cutting is not the right way to express your emotions. You can seriously hurt yourself BAD, and even worse, end up dead. Try seeing a therepist or counsler to help you. They`re really good into talking to. But if you don`t want that, you can write in a jurnal[sp]. When ever you feel like your about to start crying or become angry, pull out a jurnal and just start writing. That`s what I do. You don`t even have to call it a diary, it`s just a way of expressing yourself.

Everyday, when you realize that you aren`t cutting, give yourself a treat. I know right, that sounds gay, but you should be proud of yourself for not cutting yourself. Do something good for yourself. Go out more & talk to a friend. A friend that you trust. Anyone.

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This guy that I used to want to date is showing some less than desirable qualities. Firstly, I found out he's a gay basher. He says that when queer eye for the straight guy comes on the television he wants to throw his boot through the screen. He's also sexist, and has said to me that men are smarter than woman, and that woman are stupid. He also said that anyone over 30 who isnt married must be gay, and that I'm a prude for saving myself for marriage. He's also made nasty comments about my weight, and I'm not fat, just average.The funny thing is he thinks he's hot but he's really not, he's about 20 pounds overweight and has an ugly hairstyle and outdated clothes. I would love to put him in his place one day but am too "nice". But it makes me mad when he constantly puts me and his other friends down. Should I say something to him?

Absoloutly. This jerk needs to realize that his rude comments are no where desirable & not even needed. He`s just making people pissed off. You & your friends need to say something. I know that your too nice, but this guy needs to be kicked in the face[sorry]. If he doesn`t take what you have to say seriously, then whenever he says something rude, just tell him to shut the f*ck up.

PS- Call him tacky. :]

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Hey,

I know everyone hates relationship questions, but this one... well I'm basicially dying for advice.

My friend Jackie asked my crush if him and i could ever be more than just friends and he said could be. I am seriously considering telling him how I feel on Valentines Day and then maybe giving him a peck on the lips. Is this a bad idea? I've liked him for a long time and I feel like I really need to tell him in person. So does anyone have any suggestions for me?

If you answer, thank you SO much, you have no idea how grateful I am for your feedback.

-Jacki

I totally agree with how your going to do this. It`s cute giving him a peck on the lips and telling him how you feel, ESPECIALLY on Valentine`s day. Awwwwwwwwwwwwwww how adorable!! :] Well I say go for it, && I hope everything turns out great.

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okay ive died my hair like 4 times in the last 3 months and my hair is kinnda unhealthy like i put stuff in it about once every 2 weeks and i do straighten it. what can i do to make it more soft and healthy?(dont say dont straighten it because i have to)

Honestly, you don`t HAVE to straighten your hair, you just do so because you WANT to. And your going to lose hair if you straighten your hair. You`ll become like..bald [no joke.] You need to stop straightening your hair so much. Straightening your hair heckkaaa damages your hair & it burns it, so that is bad.

Go to a salon near you & ask for something that you can use to put in your hair that won`t really damage it. Try changing shampoos,too. I heard Pantene makes you lose hair because of all the chemicals in it, so I don`t really reccommend Pantene if it`s true.

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ok so is there supposed to be this, umm, thing inside your vagina? like i have this thing its kinda weird its like this thing of skin or whatever with some bump shaped thing. is there supposed to be something in there? i have no idea if this is normal or what.

Yes. It`s normal. I think I know what your talking about..

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what is the best way to say no when a guy you dont like asks you out?

Just tell him - "Honestly, I think I`d rather just be really good friends....I`m sorry." It`ll let him know that you still want to be his friend, and that you`re sorry for turning him down.

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15/f
what do you get for a guy that you have been only going out with for about week? lame, huh? i really like him though. we have liked eachother for sometime too...
thanks. ill rate, no need to ask.
=]

If it were me, i`d just go to dinner with this kid or movies or something like that. A week isn`t long enough, but just do something simple.

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My best friend snt me an e-mail telling me she doesnt want to be my friend anymore i asked why and she cursed me out! its been 8 months and we sometimes talk.. aquaintences. Later i found out she didnt want to be my friend anymore cus she felt like i was replacing her with my new friend elise. i need my best friend back!

Just talk to her about it! Ask her to hang out & call her now & then to make it seem like you haven`t forgotten about her. Whenever you see her just say hey & start talking a little bit. Hang out with your new friend and her together. But tell her so that she won`t throw a bitch fit when she shows up and Elise is there & you didn`t tell her that she was coming. Tell her it`ll get to know Elise better & maybe you guys can all. Also, let her know that it`s okay to have other friends besides her.

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My grandpa has some kindof bone disease. it basically said he'll be dead in 5 years. its called myo... uhh i 4get the rest. any idea on what its called/ what it does?

Is it called Myeloma?

Well if it is, here`s a website to give you information about it is:

http://www.montefiore.org/healthlibrary/centers/cancer/mbdmm/

You can also google some stuff,

only search advicenators.com


I`m so sorry about your grandpa. :[

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Male 13

I didnt know what category to put it in.
But here it is

Give me a step by step on how to shave facial hair Mustache in particular

Thanks

I totally googled this for you. :] Your welcome.

Anyways, I found this site:

http://www.ehow.com/how_2116_shave-face.html

But if that doesn`t help much, thennnn:

only search advicenators.com

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what should i do for my mom on v day she is single...thanks

Make her dinner. Go out with her. Go to the mall or movies or something. I would say give her flowers, but my mom doesn`t like us giving her flowers because she`s like "I`m not dead yet!" I know..shes nuts. Buuttt if your mommy likes flowers, then get her that. I just think you should spend the whole day with her. And give her lots of kisses & huggies. :]

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ok well theres this guy and ive liked him since 0ctober....well he likes my friend ALOT and the day my friend and someone eles started going out he called me and said he liked me...i dont know whether to belive it or not but he seems like he does but i dont know if its true because i think he just wants to get her jealous...please ill rate high..what should i do?!

Don`t get with him just yet. It seems really weird that all of a sudden he told you he liked you when your friend started going out with another guy. Just wait until he FINALLY makes a move on you. If you want, flirt with him, but to much because then if he really is trying to get your friend jealous, then it`ll mess you up && you`ll end up getting hurt. Just be friends with him still.

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how do i get to be a featured columnist???

http://advicenators.com/faq.php?t=7

This explains everything. You have to meet the qualifications to become one.

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actually, "tre" means "very"--it's french

Oh really..woah..I didn`t know that..I just put the tre in there because it sounded cool.. Hahahahahaha thanks for telling me. I don`t know french. I only know spanish. Oh well. Who cares.

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what dose the tre in tre-cool mean

It`s like three. Like triple the coolness...lmao . I know lame, but it sounds wayy better when you say it.

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