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Shes gone
My best friend snt me an e-mail telling me she doesnt want to be my friend anymore i asked why and she cursed me out! its been 8 months and we sometimes talk.. aquaintences. Later i found out she didnt want to be my friend anymore cus she felt like i was replacing her with my new friend elise. i need my best friend back!
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tell her that you can have more than one best friend .... try really really hard not to leave her out because it dont fill good to be replaced..... maybe try to get both friends to be really good friends.... tell you old best friend that you are sorry and that you miss hanging out with her
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Well, if she's a best friend, think to yourself: Do best friends leave eachother?
I'm nervous this is going to happen to ME because me & my best friend are having a problem.. a big one. But, what YOU need to do is talk to this girl and ask her if you two can have a mature conversation. Ask if she will listen. Then, proceed to say how you don't understand while the whole destruction of your friendship was necessary & how much you enjoyed her just as equally as you did Elise. Maybe then, she will come around.
GOOD LUCK! :D
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then tell her how you feel inside. I know this may sound corny but just tell her that " i'm sorry i haven't paying much attation to you, its hard to tell when you don't tell me anything, i want you to come back and be my friend again. It's not the same without you and no one in the world can replace anyone like you. i hope you understand that mistakes can be made even with the most simplest tidious things" or something like that. hopefully she'll come back with something, and if she talked to you a lil that at least means she misses you, but still. Tell her, hope this helps
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You really should be telling strangers that you need your best friend back..thats exactly what you should be telling her let her know that your not trying to replace her and that you miss her
good luck
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just tell her that she will always be your best friend no matter how many new friends you get
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I know what its like to lose a best friend. I had a best friend and we were really close. Then she started dating this 22 year old guy. (She is 15 by the way!)She and I rarely spoke to eachother after that. She backed off and I fought to keep her as a friend. But one day she was gone. I knew in my heart she would come back sooner or later. But it felt like I had lost her forever! But her and her boyfriend broke up so now we are best friends again.
The best advice I can give is this: Friendship is like a rollercoaster. It has its ups and downs. You and your friend need to trust eachother to the point where if you get a new friend or she gets a boyfriend; you will always be there for the other. She will get over it. Just give her some time. All in all go with what your heart tells you to do. Hope this helps.
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Talk to her a bout it and if she duenst want to talk then try agian another day .Ive felt like my bestfriend was trying to replace me to and its a great feeling when you know they havent and when they actually get to meet your other bestfriend let her know you miss her do things with her and Elise just tell her how you feel
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Just talk to her about it! Ask her to hang out & call her now & then to make it seem like you haven`t forgotten about her. Whenever you see her just say hey & start talking a little bit. Hang out with your new friend and her together. But tell her so that she won`t throw a bitch fit when she shows up and Elise is there & you didn`t tell her that she was coming. Tell her it`ll get to know Elise better & maybe you guys can all. Also, let her know that it`s okay to have other friends besides her.
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