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why is he jealous if were just friends?


Question Posted Sunday February 12 2006, 12:22 am

why would a guy that you're just friends with get mad if you ask about a friend of his? I had just gotten hired at a new store. I found out from my guy friend that another one of his friends got hired at the same company. I asked him what department he got hired in, and if he knew that I was working there as well. Then my friend got angry and said "why do you want to know"? It almost sounded like he was jealous.
Is this a normal reaction? Or does it sound like he's possesive of me, considering that we are just friends.


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lucretia answered Sunday February 12 2006, 5:03 pm:
It does sound oddly possesive. Your question doesn't say whether you're interested in either of the guys, or why you asked about the second guy. However, that's hardly relevant-the point is that the first guy has no right to be jealous of you. If you were, just possibly, contemplating him as a boyfriend(ie if you rather hoped that he was jealous)be warned. Possesiveness, while it may be flattering, is a most undesirable quality in a partner.
However, to keep the peace if you're interested in the second guy I would keep it to yourself, and find out about him from some other source.
Good luck.

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xohottcherie07 answered Sunday February 12 2006, 10:22 am:
He probably likes you a lot. That is a normal reaction and he probably wants to make sure you are not interested in his friend.

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xcheerbabex108 answered Sunday February 12 2006, 9:18 am:
Yes, jealous. I guess you could say it's normal, but in my opinion it seems like he's possessive, but that's just mine. I think you should still talk to him, just not too much about work. I mean, there's not much you can do, really. Quit? Um, no. So that's what I would do. And, in your actions, show that you're still there and that you want to be friends.
Good Luck ♥
Anything else, I have an inbox ;)

Jessx3

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KiSSxMYxPEARLS answered Sunday February 12 2006, 6:36 am:
It`s a normal reaction. Honestly, I think he might just like you, but doesn`t want you to know. I`ve dealt with guys like this alot of times, && we ended up going out..Weirrrddd. Anyways, you might just want to flirt with him a little bit[if you want]. The reason he said "why do you want to know?" is his way of trying to find out if your into his friend. Totally guy expressions.

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