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Is it just insecurity
i have a bf and we've known each other since kindergarden (i'm 14,8th grade)well the problem is he calls me but RARELY i trust him but when he doesn't call or i have to call him too much too talk i start to think negative thoughts. I really startto doubt our relationship, but after we talk and joke around i'm ok again, i don't want to be clingy or annoying,so can i have some advice on how to take on this situation Please!!!!!!!!!!
Thanks in advance and i will rate 5s!JUST HELP ME!
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i kno how you feel because i doubted me and my gfs relationship until i talked to her. i would ask him to call you more or just talk to him on aim alot. just when you get like some alone time with him tell him that you want to talk to him more and if he doesnt wanna talk to you then hes not right for you. hope it helped.
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ask him if there is anything wrong ..... or maybe he is just shy .. and there is nothing wrong with that! ..... maybe when yall talk try to get him to talk about personal stuff to get him to open to you , and than you can talk about anything
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it's ok, i have a childhood friend of mine too, i love her very much, but our relationship goes far more and surpases love. i trust her completely and she trusts me. the thing is, is trust, trust you're childhood friend and he will trust you too. It's youreself negative thoughts that are keeping you from focus. just be normal and act natural like nothing happened, ride the current and the seas will calm
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I've been in the same situation to. All u need to do is talk to him about that.
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wow i was in the exact same situation. like ive known him since kindergarten and we were together and i worried cuz he never called but i didnt want to keep calling him. yep. ok well heres what you do....
stop calling him. after a couple days hes going to miss you and start to wonder what your up to. youre right to trust him and want to give him room so just completely back off and let him do the calling. trust me it works.
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