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how do u get over someone that said they love you, but one day changed their mind?
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You take one day at a time. Pick up some new hobbies. Try not to focus on it. Sourround yourself with friends and fun. Only time will make things better. It's okay to be sad for a little while, but don't dwell. If they don't care, you shouldn't either. Just take from the relationship, learn and grow! :)
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how do u tell a person that likes to help people, but also hurt people and dont care that they do it?
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Simple. Just be blunt. Everyone has their reasons for hurting people. Sometimes it is intentional other times it is not. Just remember, there's always two sides to a story, so keep that in mind. If a person doesn't care though, you can't really force them. They'll only care on their terms and when they want to. :)
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If my moms family is german and irish and my dad is from egypt? (link)
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It's really whatever you and your family consider yourselves to be. If you are talking about how in school you always have to fill out what circle you fall under then you could put White or Other. It's whatever you prefer. Technically you could said your European and Egyptian. But ultimately, it's whatever you are comfortable with! :)
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okay
so i think im pretty popular
alll my friends are popular , our whole group is and stuff.
but like, it doesnt seem like i have that many goooooddd friends and then just friends i know a little bit are just like temperaroy and we dont hangout unless like we are at a party or sitting next to eachother..
how can i like make more GOOOD friends? (link)
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Hard as it may be to believe, being "popular" and having lots of "popular" friends isn't what it's all about. I mean, it's great to have lots of school friends that you have brief encounters with. The best way to get good friends--lasting ones, is to find someone you can connect/bond with. Find similar interests. Try joinging a club at school or a team. Sit with someone new at lunch. Ask questions. Put yourself out there. You really have nothing to lose. And most importantly, to keep and have good friends, be a good friend yourself. Listen, learn, support, and mostly have fun. :)
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Is this normal weight for a thirteen year old-- 105 pounds and 4'11 or 5'0. Thanks. (link)
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Yes! BMI wise and everything you are at your ideal weight for you height. According to BMI you could even be up to just undr 120lbs and still be at a healthy weight for your height. But just remember, feel free to be you and weigh whatever you are most comfortable with. :)
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How do you make those cute little heart pictures (like some people have them next to their name)? I know this is a dumb question! (link)
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& hearts ;
Only, don't put the spaces in between each. I had to show you like that or it would of come up like this. ♥ :)
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What are some natural cures for headaches? (link)
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The best thing to do when you have a headache and don't really want to take any at home medications, take a heating pad of some sorts (you know, the kind filled with rice or beans that you can microwave) or even a wash cloth and let the water get extremely hot. Lay down with dim or no lighting and place it on your forehead. It works wonders. :)
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Even though some relationships bring about the most incredible happiness, does that even matter when the same relationship is dragging you down? As in, the person who brings about the only true happiness in someone's life also brings about the lowest feelings when things are wrong. Is that just love, or a really emotionally charged relationship? If it's love, how do you know when to press and when to walk away? The old saying, "If you love someone, then let them go" has always inspired great confusion within me. If you love someone, why would you ever let them go? Why not just fight with all of the heart you have already given that person to be with them? How do you know when to rely on that old cliche as the best advice? (link)
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In short, relationships and love are always suppose to bring out your best attributes and should lift you up, not drag you down. During the course of a relationship, it's okay to fight or have arguments. That's actually healthy, BUT you should NEVEr have to describe your feelings as "low". That damaging to the relationship, your self esteem, and even more so, your self dignity. Sometimes it seems like that special someone brings out our best feelings even though they also bring out the bad ones because we WANT so badly for that to be true. Often times it is you yourself that is creating this "Cloud 9" feeling. It's not your fault though. When you want something for so long and so badly, you start to believe what you want rather than the truth. Only you personally know when your heart's in love, but I would highly agree with the statement that this is a really emotionally charged relationship. Here's something to keep in mind: With love and relationships, you tolerate ONLY as much as your heart/head can take. You know when you are pushed too far. It's okay to take risks, but not at the expense of your self worth. To me personally, I think that cliche line "If you love someone, let them go is not really meaning they'll come back, but more so like if you know that there is someone better for them and y'alls relationship is holding that person back, then let them go. Sometimes they do come back even when it is an unhealthy relationship because they are just so use to that chaos. Fighting with all your heart i a great thing to do for things you are passionate about, but first, you and that person have to be on the same page, or it's chalked up as a lost casuse. Cliche are generic, never specific. Listen to your heart, but also you HEAD. And lastly, remember, it's okay to take risks. It's a part of life. And when something ends, ALWAYS take it as a learning experience. Allow yourself to grow and learn from the past and carry that with you in your future endeveors. :)
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This may sound absolutely stupid to some, but most of the problems in my life deal with my family & friends. I'm constantly getting into fights with my best friends, which puts so much stress on me, and then when I go home..there's no one to talk about it with, because my parents wouldn't understand. I've tried talking stuff through with them before, and they told me my friends & my fights are over useless things. WELL, I already knew that, the point IS the fights put so much stress on me and I'd like to relieve it. Is this a situation in which a shrink is needed? I have been feeling for years like I need one, I'm 17/f. (link)
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Ultimately only you can decide if seeking the help of a therapist is in you best interest. If it is something you feel like you want, then try it. There's no harm in at least trying it. If it doesn't work, you're no worse off. Now, with that said, if it is something you really aren't too keen on, then try some of these solutions. As we progress we ALWAYS get in petty fights with our friends. It is a natural part of the teenage years, so please don't feel like you are alone in that respect. Next time you have a fight, take a step back, and allow yourself to calm down as well as your friends. When you muster up the feelings, tell them something along the lines of "Y'all, this is stupid, fighting gets us know where and I know it personally stesses me out a lot, and I am happier when we can all get along." So in a sense, you have to suck it up and be the bigger person. But if you do this just a few times, your friends will probably pick up on it, and do it instead the next time or two. Also, since venting to your parents isn't an option, try writing in a diary. That way you can remember the situation, explain your side, vent, and move on. Also, you may want to tell your parents that you are feeling a bit stressed and overwhelmed when you are having a tough time, and you really could use a little more support. When you reach out to them, they'll help. But you have to communicate. Don't clam up. It's not good for anybody. Also, keep in mind that it is okay to have little fights, but if one of your friend is doing something harmful to you, or hurting you over and over, you don't have to stick around. :)
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ok so my friend just started dating this really nice boy and they are soo cute together and her boyfriend has a friend who is into.. and they are all trying to get me to go out with him but i do not want to... don't get me wrong i like him in all but i am just not one of those girls that should have a boyfriend. and i have tried to tell them to stop trying to set me up with him cause all i want to be is friends.. please help thanks
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Well, you really have done your part as far as voicing your thoughts and opinions. Really, I guess you could try one more time explaining to them that there's nothing wrong with the guy and you appreciate their efforts, however you don't want a boyfriend and certainly don't want to hurt this guy. Maybe suggest that you wouldn't mind hanging out in a group. Don't agree to like a double date type thing, because then that can send the wrong signal. If you do end up hanging out with the guy, drop little hints about how you aren't interested in ANYONE (not just him) and really want to be single. To do this, emphasize school work, hectic schedule, etc. :)
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my friend is constantly trying to leave me out of stuff with some of my other friends. i'm not talking about just like hanging out at someone's house or something, i mean other stuff. it's hard to explain. why is she doing this? how do i avoid it? or what should i do? (link)
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This could be due to a lot of things. Maybe your friend just needs some space? Maybe she's upset with you over something? Who knows. The only way you are really going to find out is if you talk to her. Tell her that you have noticed she is excluding you and it is bothering you, but you just want to know what's going on. Get to the root of it. I am sure she'll tell you. If she doesn't and says nothing, maybe she feels like you are growing apart but really doesn't want to get in to the nitty gritty of it. Just continue being you and try not to stress it. Don't drag attention to this in front of all y'alls other friends though. Do it one-on-one. :)
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Is there a way to delete all of your past google searches and your entire internet explorer history (you know how when you start to type in an adress or a search the word pops up)
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It's really simple. With your Internet Explorer browser open:
-Click on the TOOLS option.
-Select INTERNET OPTIONS.
-Down where it says HISTORY it will have a box that shows how many page you can clear. Usually up to 20 will do, but go up to as high as you want.
-Click Clear History, and it will ask you to confirm
-Click Apply then Okay.
Then you are done.
Also, if you REALLY want to cover up your tracks you can delete the Cookies in the Temp File. This option is right above the history section.
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I was wondering if their was a plastic surgey to like whiten teeth? Like a laser whitener?
&& to get rid of pimples
How much would it be?
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Plastic surgery is a really drastic measure. So before you start to consider resorting to that, please consider some of the other options and/or possibilities.
For example, for teeth whitening:
-There are various forms of Crest Whitening Strips. They even have a new line out that's age lifting. It is suppose to be able ot take up to 20 years of stains off. Although, it is not a professional measure, many people have had great results with Crest. They are availale at your local drug or grocery store for about 20-30 dollars. The key is to stick with it for maximum results.
-DO NOT waste your time or money on an infomercial based product like IonicWhite. They turn out to be very ineffective. This is also available at local drug stores like Walgreens and runs you about 20 dollars.
-At the dentist office, they offer a 30 minut procedure called ZOOM whitening. It is about 300 dollars and is not covered by your dental insurance. It does have excellent results though. It can make you gums sensitive though.
-Another option via your dentist would be Take-home-whitening trays. That price range is about 175 dollars. You take the trays home and sleep with them I believe, results are still attained just not as fast. Again, sensitivity to the gums does occur.
As far as treating pimples and/or ance:
The possibilities for this are endless.
Depending on the severity of your condition, options will vary.
If you are experiencing a few pimples here and there you want to go for a topical cream. If it's not that major, try something over the counter. (Ex: Acne Face Wash)
-If it is something that is VERY habitual you should most likely seek information from a dermotologist. They would be able to best perscribe something for your particular case. Antibiodicts are also an option.
-Pills like Retin-A-Micro and Acutane are very dangerous and cause extreme redness and peeling and should generally only be used in extreme situations. They have a lot of side effects.
-You may want to mention a common topical cream like BenzaClin. It's really booming on the market right now for acne.
-If that route doesn't work or appeal for you, or in addition you can resort to an Acne Treatment Facial. I must warn you though, they can be extremely painful and costly. You have to keep up with them and depending on where you go (Most licensed upsale Salon and Spas have registered skinticians (sp) for this) it can cost you upwards from 80 dollars each time.
-Another approach via a salone is a treatment called Micro-Derm-Abraission, (sp). Again, it is painful. It is basically removing your top layer of skin via small rocks. It's like sand papering your face basically. It does work well though, but like with the facial, you have to keep it up.
Lastly, I just want to say a lot of these are last resort remedies. I know beauty things can be frustrating at times, but sometimes these things clear up on their own. Also, in no way am I a doctor so please consult with someone before you make any rash decisions. Best of luck. :)
EDIT/ADD ON: Although I did not concentrate on the topic of plastic surgery I just want to make it apparent that I didn't because it is such a drastic measure for really commom occurances. Also, it is often times you can see a plastic surgeon for treatments like Microderm Abrassion. :)
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Ok, so in the nineties, I would hear this song on the radio all the time when I was falling asleep, and now I can't find the name or the lyrics anywhere. All I remember is a few phrases.. one part's about feeling alone in a crowded room... and then there's a line that goes "well I tried to, forget you, but I guess I, forgot to"... with small pauses where the commas are. It's a male singing, too.
This is gonna bug me forever, so if you have any clue, please let me know! (link)
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Collin Raye is the singer and the name of the song is "I Can Still Feel You". If you just type that to any search engine it'll pull it up for you. :)
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Hey does anyone know were you can get prufum cheap? Cuz I really like CHANEL COCO MADEMOISELLE Eau de Parfum Spray but its like 80 dollers and i cant afford that. Here is a like if that helps
http://www1.macys.com/catalog/product/index.ognc?ID=76073&CategoryID=24910
thanks in advance!!
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http://www.imaginationperfumery.com/
In the search spot, type Chanel. Scroll down, and click. It has 2 size variations one as cheap as 46 bucks. If you register as a member (for free) they will send you discounts and stuff via e-mail.
It is a very trustworthy size. I actually use it weekly!
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I have 2 questions about college.
1) I applied to 2 colleges: one community college and one 4-year college. I got accepted to both. I chose to go to the community college, though. I still want to go to the 4-year college after I get my general education requirements out of the way. Will they automatically not accept me now because I turned them down, or will I still get in?
2) The community college that I got accepted to (Georgia Perimeter College) has 6 campus locations. Can I take classes from any of the campus locations, or am I only limited to one?
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1. You will have reapply for the term you wish to be enrolled there. Some of your information could still possibly be in the system--or maybe not. Each school is different. This time however, you will not be applying as an incoming freshmen. You will be considered an Undergraduate Transfer. So the procedure might be slightly different. You will have to submit your community college transcript and most like your high school, etc.
2. You are more than welcome to take classes at any location. You can take one at each if you really wanted to. There is no restriction in that nature. You can even take classes at another local community college if you wanted.
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I am 18/f. I have been dating a guy for 2 years. But it has been a really rocky relationship. He has lied to me quite a few times, he went through a lot of trouble with drugs (he swears up and down that it is never going to be an issue again but I dont know if I believe it considering he has sworn that so many times). Recently after we had a big fight, I broke up with him. That night he went out with some other girl. He is now telling me that he loves me more than anything, and cant imagine not having me in his life. We have broken up a few times and every time he gets me to go back out with him. We are happy until something big happens and then we go through this all again. I cant bring myself to stop talking to him. I really dont know what I need to do. What should I do? Should I end things for good, if so how do I do that? How do I stick to it? Thanks. (link)
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Your story REALLY hits home for me in pretty much everyway. Before I go ahead and give you my opinions and advice on all of this, I realize that ultimately the final choice is going to be soley up to you, but I hope my words can help guide you into the direction best for you. With that said: Two years at 18 is a pretty substantial relationship. In a lot of ways, that's good. You shouldn't regret having the experiences you have had with your boyfriend because they have helped to shape and mold you into where you are today. Relationships are based on communication, trust, and HONESTY. With infidelity, betrayal, or lying of any form about ANYTHING, you risk jeopordizing the relationship. You are probably never going to trust your boyfriend again the way you use to--not because you aren't forgiving--but because, you aren't naiive in that sense anymore. Drugs are a big deal; that's a given. The fact that he has quick is good. But you're right--he could EASILY go back to it. Drugs are a bigger beast that sometimes one person can't tame. The fact that you are even writing this now shows that deep down you know things aren't the way they should be for y'all to be having a healthy, lasting relationship. Love and relationships are meant to lift you up and embrace you, not drag you down. You have to ask yourself, is this what the relationship is doing for you? And, if you a had a daughter, would you like for her to have a boyfriend like yours and be in the position you are? Chances are, NO. Think about it. Sometimes we let ourselves settle. Not because we don't think we can do better, but because we make excuses for the people we are in a relationship with because we want SO badly for things to just be alright. The fact that things with y'all go really well for awhile in a sense gives you major false hope. Not knowingly, you are probably latching on to those good times and just tolerating the bad. The fact that he went out with another girl shortly after you broke up with him shows MAJOR disrespect. If he loves you so much and cares about being with you and making things work, then why isn't he at home crying or trying to think of a way to fix not only what he did but ALL his problems. After 2 years, he knows you well enough to tell you exactly what he knows you want to hear. And, you believe it. Not because you are dumb, but because it makes you feel better. Anyone would act the same way. The whole talk of him not being able to be without you is--BULL. If he REALLY felt that way, he'd take a step back and go to rehab or some kind of outreach program. He would work on his characteristic flaws that make him treat you the way he does--overall, he'd get his act together. Now, I'm not saying he doesn't have good qualities. If he didn't, you certainly wouldn't still be around. And I am sure you have made mistakes too, but the majority in this case is probably him. Unhealthy relationships can be addicting. You are being abused. Maybe not physically, but for sure mentally and emotionally. It's going to effect you with future relationship. In short, you need to give your boyfriend a choice: COMPLETELY get his act together, or you're gone. FOR GOOD. I know that's easier said than done, but there was a time when I thought I could NEVER breath without my ex, but I learned the more you don't let yourself give in, the stronger you get. If you end things with him, you can't just halfway do it. You need to cut off ALL contact. Ask your friends and family to help and support you. Take one day at a time. Don't feel bad for crying. But don't feel badly when you realize each day gets a little more easy. Instead of getting angry with your boyfriend--get angry with yourself. Respect yourself. Don't let some guy treat you wrong and take your pride or dignity. Dignity is one of the few posession we really have and too often we are willing to give that up. I know this was really long, but I hope in some way it has helped guide you. Just remember, you are only as strong as you allow yourself to be. Stand your ground. Even if you do completely break up, maybe in awhile the two of you can get to a place where you'd be okay with him as a friend. If not, that's okay too. And if he completely changes and proves worthy again, then give him a chance if you want. There is breaking point--ultimately it's up to you to decide when enough is enough. But don't ever sacrifice who you are for whom others want you to be. And don't accept things you know in your heart aren't right. :)
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my relationships dont last, but my new bf for once is.. the love of my life. How can i try to make it last?
or any tips?
P.s. i always break up with them, why.. i dont know, would there be any reasons why? Is it possible that im a slut? (link)
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The reasons your relationships seem not to last and you had boyfriends that you have broken up with is simply because you are 13. At your age, it's very common. Although it seems like things may last for ever, it's easy to get bored and find something more exciting and new. Just enjoy the memont and don't let yourself get too hung up on any one guy. None of this makes you a slut--you are just a normal young teen. Now, if you are jumping from guy-to-guy because you are bored of sleeping with one, then that's a whole different thing. Just have fun, and get to know people. Junior high is all about that. As you get older and especially when yo move into high school, things will get more steady. :)
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Hi, I am a junior in high school who has an high average and I am now active in many extra curricular activites. My question is what is the best way to organize myself and not get stressed out. I know that I can do it, just need a few pointers. Thank U n advance (link)
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Prioritize. That's the key. You have to learn to manage your time wisely and utilize and given amount of free time. First, get a schedule that works for you. Set aside a certain amount of time for homework every night. Maybe an hour? Even if you don't have anything due the next day, there is always something you can still work on. Maybe study ahead for an end of the week test. Make sure it's in an area where you are comfortable and won't have to get up 60 times to get supplies. Next, give yourself rest/break time. If you are feeling overwhelmed/stressed do something for a little bit that you enjoying. Reading, writing, tv, snack, power naps--anything. Letting yourself step back from the task at hand recharges you for when you have to return. Make sure you write all your assignments, duties, etc in a planner or something/somewhere you can easily keep track of. On the weekends, pick just one night or 2 to go out. Don't go out EVERYNIGHT for the ENTIRE day. For example, if you want to go to the big football game on Friday night--try doing your homework in a study hall (if you have one) and right when you get home from school. That way, at about 5 you can start getting ready for the game, but you have an hour or so in of homework time. The key is to just stay on top of things by taking baby steps. Don't procrastinate. Just do little by little and you will never feel overwhelmed. And make sure to enjoy life! :)
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i was wondering if anyone knows where to get the little black nike tennis dress that maria sharapova has and how much it costs cause i cant seem to find the dress or even order it
thanks i appreciate it
it looks like this > http://www.post-gazette.com/pg/06244/718227-139.stm
sorry i know its not a big pictue of it but thats the only photo i can find
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I searched all over the Nike site and over the net. On the Maria Sharapova website I read they will be auctioning off the dress (and a few others that have been made). Here's the link: http://www.mariasharapova.com/defaultflash.sps
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