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Hey my name is Caitlin I'm 14 and i love giving advice! I'm gunna be a freshman@ Bristol Plymouth
I LOVE: My boyfriend Dylanger♥ // my bestest friends♥// Fall Out Boy♥//Relient K♥// hanging with my friends♥// eating♥// cookies♥// talking on the phone♥// chatting online♥// taking pix♥// writing in my journal♥// swimming♥// the beach♥// music♥// taking walks♥// dunkies (dunkin donuts)♥// mountain dew♥// bike rides♥// going on adventures in the woods ♥//sneaking out♥// streaking♥// sleeping♥// singing♥// drawing♥// skating♥// cheering♥// shopping♥// money(which i never have!)♥// hot topic♥// tinkerbell♥// cartoons♥// t.v.♥// bologna and cheese!♥// DC shoes♥// PacSun♥// clothes♥// shoes♥// baking♥// candy♥// steak and cheese!♥// the Country Side♥// dancing in the rain♥// movies♥// ON DEMAND♥// downloading music♥// burning CD's♥// painting♥// kissing my boyfriend♥// making smoothies wid my bestest friend in the whole wide world... Brittny!♥// dirtbikes and quads.... wish i had one! :(♥// fireworks♥// the 4th of July♥// Halloween♥// ice cream♥// making stuff♥// doing hair and make-up♥// getting all dolled up for nothing♥// making fires♥// goin to the mall and the movies♥// roller coasters!♥// cotton candy♥// cook outs♥// summertime♥// snow♥// Hampton Beach♥// Henna tatoos♥// pizza♥// piercings♥// Target!♥// concerts♥// being me!♥// going crazy♥// snow boarding♥// skate boarding even tho i suck♥// parties♥// and a lot more♥//

I can relate to a lot of people and i know about a lot of different things ask me what ever you want and i can try and answer you the best i can!
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is there an age of how old ur supposed to be when u get ur belly button peirced? ill rate ya. lol thanx ~JessiKa~

not really any age your parents let u!!!

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Whats like the maximum age difference thats considered normal??

I mean when u get older like say your 23 and u meat a guy whos like 33 iz fine but like now when your 14 and say u went out with a wat um.... 24 your old thaz not good but when your an adult iz way different hope i helped if u need ne thing juss ask*

Caitlin

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hey i want to get my tongue pierced but i was just wondering how much it hurts to get it done. either way i am going to pierce it i just wanted to no ahead of time......

thanks

well i wouldnt kno from excperience but my bro gut it dun he sed it dont hurt juss when they put the clamp on and like afta when your tounges swollen but i guess he sed iz no that bad!! hope i helped if u need n e thing else ask*


Caitlin

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hey yall i need some help (16/f/single) well i was with my bff yesterday..and we invited over her bf and his friend who i kinda like!..well my friend and her bf were makign out...and i was talking too the other guy and well he put his hand on my leg no big deal then he was rubbing it you know it was comfortable..well i told him i liked him and he said he liked me! it was great lol then he fingered me...while we were making out...then he asked me out i said ya...then i ono what came over me i took his hand and wa\lked upstairs and we had sex..greaaaat sex...i was on the pill anyways and we used a condom...but am i a slut and was that a bad thing?? im not pregnant or anything...sry that was long..please tell me! PLEASE DONT DELETE THIS IS IMPORTANT TOO ME!!!

Juss becuz u have sex wid a guy duznt make u a slut i mean if u go around sleepin wid madd guyz then yea but 1 thaz ok and if u felt comfortable enough to then it was fine to do i can see u enjoyed it and will prolly wanna do it again but theres nuttin wrong wid it!! hope i helped if u need n e thing juss ask*

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well my n my bf have been going out for 3 years now...16/f btw...well weve gone too 3rd base...well once i was giving him head and he pulled down my pants we did 69 and the dorr knob was turning and his parents were there so we QUICKLY stopped and then pulled our pants up n sat there his mom was like hey guys...she said adam youre pants are unzipped! i was like oh crap she didnt think anything i hope...well i was wondering how do we prevent getting caught...should we do it in the car or got oo a ahotel maybe? MODS DONT DELETE!!! you dont understand i need help

i mean make sure no 1 iz home or sumtin or if he has a lock on his door lock it and if he duznt he might wanna get one and u can do stuff otha places like as u sed the car or maybe at the movies nobody knows n e thing at the movies i mean iz dark and yea but n e wayz hope i helped!!
if u need n e thing else juss ask*

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I need to look good for my new school which starts tomorrow! I need help on the following things:

-I have a little acne! Is there anything to remove them before school?

-I have hair on my arms/legs! Are there any home remedies to lighten them coz i cant go to the store?

-A new hairdo! I have long brown hair, and it's not layered. I have never dyed/frosted it, and I want to have nice hair without putting harsh chemicals to my hair.

For acne u juss wash your face b 4 u go to bed and if its still there u can use cover up um for hair on your arms and legs i cant really help u there sry and for a new hairdo um....... juss maybe keep it done or scrunch it u kno wid moose and make it all wavy and curley!!! sry i couldnt help ya that much but GOOD LUCK!!

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I was wondering if it's okay for girls to shave their stomachs because somebody told me that it's one of the places you shouldn't shave. Is that true? and what are the places you shouldn't shave other than your face?

well if u want to shave your stomach go ahead but only if u need to and iz normal i kno ppl who do it and places u dont wanna shave are your face as u sed and not many otha places cuz girls can shave n e where cuz iz normal but for guyz iz a lot different lol!! Hope i helped if u need n e thing juss ask

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hi! ok well i just started highschool . and my best friend goes to dif. school then me . and were allowed to talk to much cuz her mom dont like me and its a long story . well she sneaks phonecalls to me . and ovr the summer we would talk bout dif. things and she was totally dif. ( good dif.) b4 she started this new school. and she called me 3 days ago and she was acting REALLY preppy , and her voice sounded fake . and she kept bragging bout her new friends and her boyfriend she has ( boyfriend , its only been 1 week since school started) . and like she'll talk to me for bout 5min. and she'll ok i hav to go , and she just hangs up and duznt evn say bye and she duznt evn giv me a chance to talk . and its pissing me off a lot!!! i dono wtf happned to her , shes totallly different and wen she called one time i missed the call cuz i left my phone in my car and i got it and i saw the # and called it bak and her NEW friend answers so i ask if jenna was there and her NEW friend sez " jenna! its ur lil friend" i was like WTF!! and its pissing me off and i dono what to do . do i sound jealous?? i dont wana sound like a bitch but she's turned INSTANT POPULAR PREP!!! help plz!!!!!!! :(

well i dont think u sound jealos i personaly thin that she iz the one bein a bitch to u and like avoiding u n shyt thaz not kool juss cuz she iz at a new skoola ndhas new friends duznt give her a reason to juss forget about you and treat u like crap so juss confront her and be like wat iz up wid u, u have changed a lot since u gut all these new friends and your at a new skool and stuff i thought we were suppose to friends and see wat she has to say bout it!! hope i helped if u need n e thing drop 1 in my inbox k!!



Caitlin*

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i talk to this guy on aim. lets call him joe. joe always says stuff like "shes so hott" and then gos o sry wrong box. and im like sure. why the heck is he doing this to me??!!

I think he iz tryna tease u so y dont u do it back like he iz doin it to u kno and find out wats goin on between u 2 k!! hope i helped if u need n e thing drop 1 in my inbox k


Caitlin*

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Okay well this guy saw my picture in my advice column and started saying I was fat and shit and I was ugly...and well I don't know what I did to him...now I just feel like dying I wrote him back a message and I freaked out after him but not that badly I didn't swear to much well not like f*** or shit like that and well I just feel like dying man it's not my fault I'm fat god I got far with my life like I play pro junior basket ball for my height and force and now he calls me fat I feel so bad...I'mm putting myself down and I hate it...I wanna die can ne one help me??

Dont listen to wat otha ppl say i mean he iz juss sum stupid a-hole who prolly enjoys puttin ppl down i mean juss dont take it to heart cuz im sure your a awesome person and he iz juss sum loser u kno wat im sayin hun u have a good life dont let sum a-hole who sed sum stupid shyt make u feel like crap about yourself so juss try to forget bout him k hunni i hope i helped if u need n e thing juss drop 1 in my inbox k

Caitlin*

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My sister always likes going swimming with me and my dad. I find it fun too! But the thing is she's been planning it since last Sunday for her me and my dad to go Swimming today. But when I went to the bathroom this morning, I found out that I have my period. So I told my mom that I couldn't go swimming. But then when we were driving home from Church today, my sister brought up the subject, and my mom said that I couldn't go. She kept on asking and asking why I couldn't go and we told her because I can't. So now she's really mad at me. She's only 9 and doesn't know about periods and stuff so she's really mad at me. I feel really bad. I wish she was a little older so that she could know. So now I feel really guilty. What should I do?

Maybe u should have a one on one talk wid her so she knows bout it cuz she iz gunna needa kno soon n e wayz u kno so juss tell her about it and maybe explain wat iz goin on like how u have your period and explain wat it iz well hope i helped if u need n ething else drop 1 in my inbox k hun!!


Caitlin*

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Hey Caitlyn
I have a question. There is this guy that lives in Easton which is where my cousin live and i really like him. He is 16 and i'm 14 almost 15. Easton is like a 30 minutes from my house and i don't see him much. but i'll be going to the church they go to there in easton in like 3 weeks,when my sister goes to college. But I'll be doing confirmation in the fall so i'll be seeing him like 3 or 4 times a week. I saw him the other day and i totally wanted to ask him out but i was nervous because i didn't know if he liked me. Now i'm prety sure he likes me as more than a friend cus we were talking and he brought up strip poker lol as dumb as it sounds. Then he asked me to go see the Exorcist, even though he knows i'm horrified of stuff like that...he said that i could be his damsel in distress and hide my face in his shoulder at the movie. he also keeps asking me when i'm gonna see him again. he asked me if i could give him a hug when i see him next and of course i said yes.he also gave me a wicked awesome nickname Do you think he likes me? I'm really nervous to ask him out so i keep kinda pushing things for hints. should i just ask him out or keep pushing till i know for sure?
Thanks a bunch
~to love or not to love

I think he duz like u cuz he iz givin u all these hint u kno and i think u should go for it and ask him out he oviously wants to maybe he iz juss nervous to ask u like u r to ask him u kno hunni well i dont think it matters where he lives he oviously likes u and pluss u will see him a lot at church or w/e but besides that u can talk to him on the phone and on the computer and use can chill and go to the movies and stuff it will be a lotta fun for ya!!! well hope i help if u need n e thing else juss ask k cupcake!!!



Caitlin

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if you make-out with someone you like, but you arent dating them, does that make you a slut??

no........

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well im 13 and there is this boy i knew for a long time and he wants to do things wit me but im not sure if i want to but i say i will but we like never get a chance to even chill and i asked him out and he said yea but not yet and i am all confused so i dont no should i or not cause i really like this kid

Well i can see if u r goin out wid him or sumtin then that would be fine but make sure u dont do n e thing stupid u kno hunni i mean im 13 to but im almost 14 and me n my bf have been togetah for 10 months on sunday and we do stuff like that but we r comfortable doin it but if u dont feel comfortable doin stuff with him then u dont have to and dont let him pressure u into stuff u dont wanna do u kno i mean if your goin out and u have been goin out for awhile then thaz fine juss dont rush into stuff like that u kno hun but u can do stuff wid him as long as your comfortable k so if u need n e thign else juss ask k!!

Caitlin*

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what do u do for a burn on ur skin?

You can use aloe colling gel stuff!!!
Hope i helped!!


Caitlin*

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hey
im a 14yr old gal who has a crush on a guy like 10 months younger than me. i kno 4 a fact that he USED 2 like me - but i didnt feel the same way wen he did. he neva told me he felt that way but all his frends told me he did.

he has heapz of gf's n none of them eva last
but recently he's goin out wit a gurl in the grade below me n its pretty serious..
she n i h8 each otha but pretend we dont, i kno from her frends that she bitches about me all the time 2 them even thou we've neva met.

im reali stuck cos i care alot bout him but i cant tell him that, what makes it worse is that i know if i did end up going out with him, nina (his gf) would full dis me cos im going out with a younger guy..
should i tell him how i feel or just 4get about him?
is it wrong 2 go out wit sum1 in a lower grade?
love ali oxo


first of all age iz juss a numba it duznt mean shyt k hunni my bf iz over a year younger then me n it has worked out for 10 months this sunday and i mean we love each otha to death but i mean who cares how old he iz if u like him then u do and u should tell him how u feel so u can see if he has the same feelings for u so u could maybe start a relationship wid him and who cares bout that stupid bitch and wat she has 2 say!!! so say if he dumps her for u then she talks shyt bout u goin out wid a younger guy then be like your juss jelous cuz he dumped u for me so get ova yourself and juss rub it in her face and b a bytch to her like she iz to u!!! so GOOD LUCK and if u need n e thing drop 1 in my inbox k hunni!!!


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i've just put in a tampon for the first time about 2 hours ago . i tried to take it out , but it hurt to pull at the string . is this normal , and could this be because my tampon is still dry ? if not , how do i yank it out without it hurting ?

Well to get it out easieru can go pee as u pull it out so u dont feel it as much u kno and it iz normal to kinda hurt when takin it out!! Hope i helped if u need n e thing else juss drop 1 in my inbox k!!


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im 13 and in 8th grade and im 5'3...but i like someone thats 12 in 7th grade and is 4'7. i think he's gonna ask me out, but idk what to say cuz hes so short and younger than me....help! (i like him too but...)

Well if u like him it shouldnt matter wat size or age use are i mean u shouldnt care bout it so if u like each otha then go for it and hopefully it will work out between use so GOOD LUCK hun!! if u need n e thing juss drop 1 in my inbox k


Caitlin*

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For those of you who use PictureTrail is it free?

Iz free until u get to 36 pix on it then it costs money but i juss made anotha 1 so i dint hafta pay n e money lol!! so yea hope i helped!!!

Caitlin*

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ok well there is this kid who says he has had sex b4 and i tell him i will do all this stuff but i really dont no if i want to so i dont no should i or not

Well it depends ok well u shouldnt juss do shyt wid random ppl that dont mean n e thing to u and if u gave me an age it wold be easier for me but n e wayz i mean i could see if u were in a relationship with this person and were comfortable doin it it would be fine to do it but b4 u think bout doin sumtin like losing your virginity i would make sure he means a lot to u and he cares bout u your not juss a piece of ass u kno becuz he could juss be usin u ya neva kno and juss bcuz he has sed he has had sex b4 duznt mean n e thing he could be lyin juss to try 2 impress u or sumtin but as i sed b4 it would b easier for me if i knew your age so thaz all the advice i can give for now but if u ask me again for advice on the same thing and include your age it will be much easier for me k hun so if u need n e thing else juss drop 1 in my inbox k!!!


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