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Q: Well, my brother told me that if you put up blue christmas lights it meant that you were Jewish. So does anyone know if this is true or is my brother smoking something? Thanks!!

xo_sherry_ox
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Lol You believed him. Hes high! what a goober! Thats a good one though. You must be gullable haha. Jewish people dont celebrate it they do hannakuh or whatever for like 8 days or night whatever. He might just not like the color blue for x-mas i mean some ppl dont but whatever

Q: I'm 14. A day or two before my period, I tend to get this dark stain on my panties...the front of my panties, not where I would get a normal period stain. It's dark and kind of brown, and sort of thick. Do I have a disease or something?

Also, every single time in my period, I have a normal flow for maybe three days, then it stops for one or two days, then it starts again for only about half a day. Is this abnormal?

no your fine unless you think the idea like the description is not as bad as it really is then you should get checked

Q: I keep getting these nasty bloody noses, 5 times a day! What should i do?!

go to the dr.

Q: tomorrow me, my best friend, her boyfriend, and my fwb are going to spend the nite at a hotel as sorta a fun thing to do. im telling my parents that im sleeping over at my friends house but im scared shes actually gonna call my friends mom and find out we aren't there-she has a history of calling my friend's houses-is there anything i can tell her, or do to make sure she doesn't call??? do you think she'll even call guh need advice help fast

tell her she doesnt have a phone :) or say you are going to stay the night at her friends house that you dotn know her number

Q: My profile just got deleted i do not know how it was here in the morning and now its not. i do not want to retype that whole thing does anyone know what happened?? My column name is *MeEe* if that helps.

A mod. could have deleted it. if there was something inappropiate there

Q: Im going to get a root canal in about a few weeks and im REALLY terrified and scared!! I just went to the dentist today and they drilled my teeth, gave me 2 shots, put a dam on my mouth and pulled out the NERVES! The worst part was the dam adn the shots. Anyways I just want to know waht a root canal feels like and if it hurts on 1 - 10 and if you know any sites that tells about them. Please if you have had a root canal answer if you havent dont because I dont want the wrong information.

6.. so im told by my friend who is right next to me but you cant take what other people say always for a fact because we all have diff. pain tolerances

Q: Well see heres the deal. I met this girl online and we really hit it off. I had always been against liking people long distance but that seems to have been blinded by the presence of this girl. Now I dont want to use the L word because i mean techincally we havent met but i get a certain feeling everytime i talk to her and im like always waiting for her to get online. We do talk on the phone and stuff too. Should i pursue this at all or just accept that no matter how hard i try to make this work it never will, despite the fact i want it to with all my heart. 16/m

My friend is going thru that to. Actually 2 ppl are. I Mean if you plan on meeting sometime then just hold it off until then but if you dont then move on but still talk. Its hard to do long distance relationships even with people you do know. I met brandon at camp and we went out for almost a year. It was very very hard! So i wouldnt do it. Because it starts to suck because you can never see them (HoPe I hElPeD RaTe Me ToO!!) TriXXie

Q: i put icons for my picture on my advicenators page and i was wondering if theres anyways to add more than one and if so how? thanks ill rate.

You have to go to a certain site such as www.tickletrunk.com and get the links and put them in the big box on where you write about yourself.. look at mine and you will know what im sayin (HoPe I hElPeD RaTe Me ToO!!) TriXXie

Q: hey trix its alonnforgotn!! i was wondering if u could give me some help..... For my schools semi-formal... i want one of my friends to go with me....but i dont kno if i should ask her bc i dont want it to change ne thing between us... unless if its a good change lol.... wat should i do

15/m

Heyy buddy!! Whats going on?! Well arent you in a dalema.. Well is this friend a good friend? If she is then i dont think it would change things for the worse it could only make you 2 strong and closer. But if you 2 are just aquaintences then that is a bit more foggy and hard to tell unless you talk alot in class. But I dont think it could lead to anything to terrible. You shouldnt really be scarred of risk anyways if you ask me.. well you are asking me but you know what i mean! I would just ask her like through maybe a note if your to shy to do that. Or on the phone. On the phone shoes a lil bit more guts rather then on a note. And in person really gets the point across. HoPe i HeLPeD You BuDDY iM aLWaYZ HeRe!! TRiX

Q: Hey Ever1,
Our school will be having a sweethearts dance in Feb. And the girls ask out the guys. Well, there's this guy I like...and we had our troubled times, but I think he's starting to like me again! So, do any of you know how I should ask him to the dance? I wanna do something sweet for him since he's a sweet guy. Any tips?
~Missc~

Get him chocolates!! that'd be very cute!!

Q: I think I might have paranoia. I have a wonderful gf. I love her todeath, but she talks to the one guy, who constantly flirts with her and it pisses me off. She says dont worry about it and that she loves me, but I still get worried. What if she will start to like him? I know nothing will happen. Were perfect for each other but I feel like bad things will always happen. Can anyone give me sties to read up on it or tell me what I can do to not be paranoid? I dont want to lose her over my problems. I want to be normal.

it perfectly normal to get annoyed over that and to worry about that noone wants to lose there loved one. but once again i said to someone else maybe you shoudl go get checked nad maybe get pills if its really that bad. But if she is asking to see you then she wants to see you but i love a bf who i am always seeing. I mean yeah i need time away from him but thats when i hang out with friends cuz i like hanging with friends from time to time as i do with him but i dont think she thinks you are to clingy if she is asking to hang out with you HoPe i HeLPeD ((RaTe Me PLZ) TRiX

Q: My friend is going out with a guy that's a year younger than us (whom i like too.)He's like my best guy friend and i feel a little protective of him because a lot of people just want to go out with him for his looks and it's so annoying to me because they don't even know him the way i do. He flirts with me online and we can besically talk about anything. His girlfriend now won't even talk to him and she wants to break up with him, although i don't think she will. Please help! What should i do! i can't talk to him alone anymore because of her and i really just want to be with him! Should i ask her how she feels about him and and how she feels the relationship is going, in a friendly way? I'm not sure what i should do. I need another person's oppinion. Just to let you know, i'm 14, he's 13.

Ya you could ask her but not if you think he will take it badly. Just let them handle things. It isnt your business really if you ask me. I mean have that same prob. I am very protective over someone to and i pretty much dont want a girl near him for the fear of them breakin his lovable heart.. but its not our business.

Q: does anyone know if brown or penn take applicants who have graduated a year early? thanks!

Yeah i think they do not sure.. im just a freshy. But if you graduated a year early thats a awesome deal. Im sure you'll get in

Q: Whenever I'm around guys I get really shy and don't have much to say and then I get insecure and it's hard to be myself. So now all the guys at my school probably think I'm like really snobby or stuck up or something because I'm so quiet. Like there have been a few guys this year that have tried to be friends with me, but I just didn't know what to say around them, so they just kind of stopped talking to me. Help!!!

Just let them know that you are shy. Thats how i go about things

Q: ok theres this guy josh and he follows me everywhere, its so annoying, he loves me and wont leave my side for even a second in seems like, but i dont like him at all. it seems like he stalks me, he carrys my book and kisses me on the cheek all the time. he's nice but i dont like him. Help!

Tell him. Tell him he deserves someone who will love him as much back and not just like them as a friend. You shouldnt have a stalker.. thats kinda freaky!

Q: I tend to get paranoid very easily. For example, I will think my boyfriend doesnt like me, or thatI have no friends or that people are always talking about me. Everyone says I'mbeing stupid but I really believe it. Any advice?

Well maybe you should get checked i dont mean to be mean. Thats how this girl is at my school so she takes pills for it or something

Q: I feel like I really need a boyfriend. You see, all my friends have one and I feel so jealous. I can't go to any dances and if I ask a guy out, I'm so sure that he'll say no, because I'm not all that good-looking. I told my friends if they could find a guy for a birthday to go out with, and they said that the only reason why I'm doing this is to get a boyfriend, which is true. And right now, I am obsessed with a guy I like who knows I like him, but he doesn't like me, because of that time I embarrased myself in front of him. So, how do I get rid of my obsession and thoughts of thinking I need a boyfriend, because I know I don't.

You never know if a guy will say no you if you dont ask so you should take that risk. Just cause your friends have boyfriends doesnt mean you should to. Guys shouldnt go for looks anyways. Thats just the first opinion and first thing everybody notices. You just need to wait for a good guy to roll around and grab ya. Just give it time. HoPe i HeLPeD ((RaTe Me PLZ) TRiX

Q: Hi, my brother kind of has attitude problems and hes not gettin anything for xmas. My mom and dad aren't gettin anything for eachother and i feel bad for all of them. :( Does anyone hav any gift ideas? by the way my bro is 18. thx bye!

My mom and step dad arent getting anything for eachother this year either. Its there dumb new rule. But whatever im not effect haha. Just get your bro something. I mean there might be a CD he wants. So get a cd. or whatever or gift certificate to media play or best buy

Q: My sister was raped and killed about a year ago ( we havent found out who it is yet but they're still looking)and I lately I have been see her well her ghost and she always says some thing but I cant hear her like she just moves her lips and I want to tell my mom but I'm afriad she will put me in some kind a hospital or something but about a week ago my sister came back and she made me fallow her some how I mean she walked through the wall and I just had to fallow her and when I did it I found an old beat down house and I really really wont to show it to some one because I think it might be the guy that killed her

My mom said that when her dad died.. she was only 16.. he used to always sit in this chair.. this old green rocking chair or something like that some sort of chair anyways.. forget details. She saw him always sitting it and one night and just waved and said Its okay dawn everything would be okay and she rubbed her eyes.. because she thoguht it was all fake and she squinted real hard and he was gone. So i think ghost are true. And wow this stori is very interesting. I mean i would defintly tell someone. I would start off with your mom and i wouldnt really tell the police that your sister lead you there just say you just really have this feeling. I think if this is where this guy lives i would defintly get that mother f*er locked up! So you should really tell. No girl or guy.. usually girls that get raped. should have there raper person thingie get away with it so i think you should honestly 110% sure that you should tell. Let me know how things go and what you decide on!! good luck!! HoPe i HeLPeD ((RaTe Me PLZ) TRiX

Q: Well ok my brother got a girl friend about 2 monthes ago maybe and sence then he hasnt been giving me any time to spend with me well I am 13 and he is 17 and he use to do every thing with me until his girl friend 15 (I think)started to always go every where with him and sometimes Michael (thats my brothers name)is mean to me now all because of Katie I think (THats michaels girl friends name)Should I tell him how I feel or wait until they brake up or what he is driving me nuts!!!

Yeah you should tell him. I mean that girl probably wont be around forever. But still thats your brother and you shoudl talk to him about it because once again never let a girl come between you to. HoPe i HeLPeD ((RaTe Me PLZ) TRiX

bio

My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"