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Paranoia
I tend to get paranoid very easily. For example, I will think my boyfriend doesnt like me, or thatI have no friends or that people are always talking about me. Everyone says I'mbeing stupid but I really believe it. Any advice?
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wow! you are just like me, but i realize that i'm wrong. yes, people do talk sometimes but they would never say anything to hurt you.
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Well maybe you should get checked i dont mean to be mean. Thats how this girl is at my school so she takes pills for it or something
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Paranoid,
You are not being stupid. It seems that you are just a worrier. It is okay to worry about things, but the things you are worrying about don't call for thinking about. I am sure you have friends and lots of them. As long as you are kind to them or don't gossip about them they will be your bff's till the end, so just be the best friend and/or gf you can be and there will be no need for thinking things through. i hope i could talk some reason for you. Please rate. HAPPY HOLIDAYS!!!
~ItalianPrincess
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You are not being stupid. I also am a very paranoid person. I worry over every little thing about my boyfriend and what hes doing, saying, going behind my back. The best advice I could probably give out to you is to talk to somebody about this, that is what I have been doing. And also hearing assurance from my boyfriend helps. If you are worried about your boyfriend, have him tell you over and over how he feels about you and it will help relieve some of that pressure. Don't let anyone tell you that you're stupid, we all have problems in our personalities that arent always perfect. I hope you get the help you need and are looking for.
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think positive about things, like don't put yourself down and stuff.
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there isn't anything wrong with that, you just have a hard time trusting people. you should try and give them a chance and back off a little. try not to think so negative!! because i can promise you, most of the time they are probably telling the truth! now here's my question.. if your boyfriend really didn't like you, why would he still be going out with you? if he didn't like you, he would have broken up with you by now! people may talk about you, but not all the time! it's only normal for people to gossip!
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I get the same way! Omigosh thats weird...I have no clue what to do. I would say go to the guidance counselor but I know I'd think she'd think I'm crazy or something. I'd probably even be to shy to go talk to her. Hmm...
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Aw, I'm sorry. I know how you feel, I feel like that, too sometimes, so I know what you mean. It sux. Don't let anyone tell you it's stupid. I'm not really sure what you can do about, because I have the same problem. It just happens at random times, I don't know why. But good luck!
Happy Holidays!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~
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i fell like that alot too expecially since i just moved i just always tell myself that if people are talking about me then its their problem casue i didnt do anything to them
hope it helps
lisa
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