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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.

I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

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i just need a streaight answer

According to these, it can be good for training, and for treats but only in moderation.

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070608141329AAr31sm

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http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/1048049/cheerios_a_great_training_tool_for.html?cat=22

Can i get pregnant being that i am a virgin?

You cannot get pregnant unless you have sex. So, until you someday have unprotected sex (which I don't recommend unless you're smart, educated and trying for children), no you cannot be pregnant.

do you give a guy head? i know what it means, but I have always wondered in great detail. Haha.

We'll get in trouble if we go into detail, and this was something you could've used Google for anyways.

Well there's this guy I like at school, but he's a grade above me!It seems like he likes me but I'm way to scared to confront him.My friends think he's a dork but he's gorgeous!!!This other guy in the same grade is always like "You like Landon!"(Landon's his name)I'm always yelling at them that I don't.What should I do since today was the last day of school???

Try and talk to him. See if he has a MySpace or Facebook & add him there to keep in touch since that's what those sites are for anyways.

Build a relationship with him, try to hang out & get things going. You do like him, so there's no reason to deny it to people. Besides, if you don't deny, there's a chance people will tell him that you like him, and he may be interested in speaking with you.

And who cares what your friends think? It's not like they have to like him or even date him. Don't worry about what they think because they don't dictate who you like & they shouldn't dictate your opinion on someone either. :)

Just go for it. I hope things work out. Good luck!

How do you move on when your ex-girlfriend who cheated on you after a five year relationship, text you messages telling you how she misses you, how she misses your touch, your kiss and that we shouldn't loose contant cause she still has interest at heart for me and that she doesn't see herself sleeping with her current boyfriend because she is afraid that he won't do it like i did?

Ignore her messages. She cheated on you, therefore she is an ex for a reason. If you take her back, you are only asking to get your heart broken again, and it will only cause drama.

Apologize to her, but let her know that you just cannot take her back for the sake of you and your heart. If she loves you like she says she does, she'll understand.

Do what's best for you and ignore her pleas for a re-unification.

Okay well ive already wrote on here a couple times but. Im 15/f...Dont tell me im too young or anything cause i already know. Well i think i am pregnant. Im about one week late on my period wich is about the 21st or 22nd of each month. and when i was suppose to have it i was spotting for like two days.

I took a pregnancy test this morning and it says im not pergnant? This doesnt make since? What do i do?

I don't know when you started your period but if you've started it about 13 or 14, then your period is going to be irregular for the first couple of years. I've had my period for about 5, and it's JUST starting to regulate.

I wouldn't automatically assume that you're pregnant because like I said, your period won't always show when you think it's supposed to. You can sometimes go up to months at a time without a period. If you don't end up getting it, and are still scared, I'd take another test but if it again comes out negative, you can go to a doctor or assume that it's just your period acting up.

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i am going to try and make this quick. but i have been given ' Trimethoprim Tablets' by the doctor. i have taken 1 already. but after i took it i read the leaflet. on the leaflet it says not to take if you are pregnant. thing is i dont quite know if i am pregnant because me and my partner was trying for a baby and i haven't yet taken a test. am i safe to take these tablets do you know? the box only has 6 tablets anyways so i only need to take the 6 tablets overall. if anyone can help me it would be appreciated thanks

The doctor is supposed to ask you when you go in for a check up if there's any chance of pregnancy. If he didn't ask you that, then you should've told him.

I would take a test, see if you're pregnant or not, and give your doctor a call. If you are indeed pregnant, your doctor can give you medicine that is safe to take while pregnant.

Hello! My name is Sara, Im 22/F And am getting married in August. I want to start taking some form of birth control because my fiance and I want to wait befor we have kids for a while. Heres the low down,
-Both myself and my partner have waited to have sex until marrage, so as far as birth control goes I have NO idea what to expect....
-As luck will have it, i will most likely be getting my period the 28th...my weedding day..ugh so I am looking for a method that can possibly alter my menstal cycle by then...
-I dont particularly want a vaginal ring as im scared it could be felt by my husband durring sex (and I one of you girls has used it and it doesnt please let me know too!!)
-Im a scatter brain, I work 2 jobs and would have a tough time remembering to take a daily pill...but if that is the best option I will try my hardest to remember!!!

So yeah, anything that anyone has tried that seems to work the best and is less of a hastle and gives u fewer periods, PLEASE let me know your opinions!!!! Thank you!!!

I'm not trying to be rude with you, but you really shouldn't ask this here. It's not because we wouldn't love to help you because that's not the case.

We're just not your doctor, and your doctor will tell you what is best for you and your body when it comes to birth control. You should be asking them, not us.

i have to take a urine sample tomorrow for a job interview but i'm on my period. is there any way i can hurry up my period flow, like by drinking a lot of water tonight?

I don't think there is a way to hurry up your flow. You cannot hurry your body and your hormones. Your period ends when it's supposed to, not because you want it to.

Just explain to them that you're unable to give them the urine sample because you're on your time of the month, and I'm pretty sure they'll understand and let you do it some other time when your period is over.

It's not like they're going to be assholes and demand you do it whether you're on your period or not. They'll understand.

how do you make it fun for a 11yerold boy to clean his room.

Put music on. It would probably make things a lot more fun.

What does bulimia do to your body?
What will it do if I only throw up everyonce in a while?

It can do a lot to you, and if severe enough, it can kill you. Read up on it.

someone's using my name on facebook! what should I do??? they have all the details including my initials right except that the only thing is that they don't have my first name (only my first initial) and then middle name last name!!! and year i joined year i graduated, college and school and birthday! what should i do? i can't report it to facebook because technically the person didn't put my "complete" first name.....

Are you sure this wasn't an old account that you might've made and then left alone? I've done that with MySpace. I still have a MySpace from when I joined when I was like 13 or 14 that's still up.

But if that isn't the case and someone really is pathetic enough to try to pretend to be you online, you need to report it to Facebook. I'm not sure if anything will be done immeadiately, but I'm sure they won't leave it alone and will try their hardest to eliminate the fake.

what is menopause?

when your older and your periods stop forever?

http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/menopause

okay so,
i have had quite a few people tell me imma whore because im flirty..
i don't mean to be but it's my personality..
and i like to hug people&stuff.
i REALLY don't went this reputation ..
someone please help!
thanks to all who help me

You're not sleeping with tons of guys in a short amount of time, so no you're not a whore.

Hugging people and flirting doesn't make you a whore. Whoever told you this is either jealous, really ignorant, stupid, or all 3 combined. Don't listen to it.

http://img37.imageshack.us/img37/6162/meandtaylor.jpg

Who is prettier? the girl on the left or the girl on the right?

THANKS!

They're both alright looking, but I wouldn't say either is prettier than the other.

How do I get a guy to get me praegnent? I really like this guy and I want his babys but we haven't really done anything like sexual or anything. Is there some way I can get him to have sex with me but make sure I get praegnet?

You're 16. You shouldn't be having sex, or wanting kids.

You can hardly spell. How are you supposed to take care of a child? Get your education first, and get a career, and get yourself good financially AND THEN worry about having children and family.

i know this is proban absurd request/question BUT

if you go to a concert how do you meet the artist playing? if there are so VIP BACKSTAGES passes ....

does anyone know any tricks or anything as to how to meet the performeres?

It depends what type of concert you're going to. Concerts with bigger names will sometimes have VIP passes. If you're going to a show at your local venue, then chances are there won't be but sometimes bands hang around their merch booth either before or after their set. It all depends on them. So, that's a way to meet them.

If you're going somewhere like Warped Tour or Bamboozle or whatever, you can obtain VIP passes, BUT they're a lot more expensive than the regular ticket. If you're willing to pay the price to meet the acts on the tour, then go for it, but if not, you can meet them at certain booths because at the ends of their set they usually announce where they'll be and what time so that you can meet them. :)

Does anybody know any songs that are about someone being fed up with their life and all their drama and just want to start over their life and turn over a leaf? Like just become a brand new person and forget all the shit?

genres that are Pop, Hip-Hop, Rock, Alternative (like simple plan, linkin park, hellogoodbye, fall out boy, nickleback, etc.) are recommended.

Please no country music!

thanks :)

Weightless by All Time Low.

It's a really good song, and seems to be right up your alley for what you're looking for. :)

okay, i am 15/f. my bffl is a girl too (same age). we r both strait so dont go thinkin sumthin like "ohhh, maybe she likes you".we have been bffl ever since the beginning of the school year. lately i have been getting close with these other two girls, but we are all friends. she keeps on getting jelous saying she thinks she is going to be replaced. i have told her like over a million times that she is not gonna b replaced and we will always be bffl! well... now it is starting to get annoying. i am tired of her feeliing jelous and me always having to tell her we will always be best friends. please someone help me? tell me wat to do! i cant tell her im tired of it because she is the kind of girl who will feel hurt and then get mad and act like she didnt care in the firt place! help please!!

She sounds like she's had issues with past friends where she thought they were her best friend & then someone new and interesting came along and they dropped her.

I know it can get annoying, but she cares about you. If that's what's happened previously to her before, you can't blame her for being jealous.

Ask her what the deal is. Don't be rude about it, but just ask her why she's so jealous. She'll probably tell you. Just reassure her. I can see you're not like the other girls, and even after being friends for this long, you'd think she know, but sometimes it just takes a bit to click.

Talk things out with her & it should be fine.

so i'm still inlove with my first boyfriend. After I broke up with him, he went onto one of the girls that I had told him thought he was cute...this was during the relationship. They never went out...but i'm really close with the girl now...and she would tell me all about their converstions. He always brought me up and talked bad about me. their conversations would based on how weird or whatevever I am....just basically talking shit....i don't get it....so what do you guys think this means? i know sometimes people on here try to say things just to make a person feel better, but straight up honesty for me wont hurt at all! so please, i don't care how much it will hurt, but at least I will know the truth of what this sutuation really seems like.

He's an asshole. He pretty much used you, and didn't care about you. If he cared about you, his bazoo wouldn't be running like a triathlete.

Date a new guy and get over it. He isn't worth your heartache or worry.

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