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am i turning into a whore?
okay so,
i have had quite a few people tell me imma whore because im flirty..
i don't mean to be but it's my personality..
and i like to hug people&stuff.
i REALLY don't went this reputation ..
someone please help!
thanks to all who help me <33:)
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You're not sleeping with tons of guys in a short amount of time, so no you're not a whore.
Hugging people and flirting doesn't make you a whore. Whoever told you this is either jealous, really ignorant, stupid, or all 3 combined. Don't listen to it.
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A whore is defined as a [woman] being promiscuous, having sex with multiple guys. A whore isn't defined as flirting with guys. A lot of young girls flirt, like guys flirt a lot with girls. What much difference is it?
You're not being a whore flirting. Flirting just shows interest in a guy.. that's it. Let them think whatever but don't change your personality over their opinions.
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I'm sorry that's happening to you. It can happen for many reasons, but unless you are accepting money for sexual favors, you are not a "whore" and unless you are sleeping around with many partners, you are not a "slut". Sometimes girls are jealous of another girl getting a lot of attention. You may be getting attention for having a bubbly personality, but other girls get jealous because they are not the ones getting the attention, so instead of being more bubbly themselves, they think the best answer is to tear you down. Some guys see a girl that is bubbly paying attention to other guys, and get jealous because they wish she was paying attention to them, so they call her a "whore". There may be other reasons, but the point is that it isn't your problem, it's theirs. Throughout your life, no matter how you behave people are going to call you one thing or another. Just be yourself and be proud, knowing that you're not doing anything wrong. The only thing I would advise you to be careful of is other people's boyfriends/girlfriends (you didn't specifically say you were a girl, so I don't want to assume anything). You need to be careful not to flirt with somebody else's significant other, or even do anything that makes it seem like you're flirting. Other than that, don't worry too much about your reputation. Just be yourself and everyone else can deal with it.
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