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getting a boy to fall for me
there is this guy at work that i have hung out with several times and we have hooked up. i thought things were going great on both sides and that we were on the same page and then i think i scared him off. i told him i had feelings for him and i dont think he was ready for that. either way, how do i get him to get back the interest in me? i feel like i may have fucked this one up. but i would really like to get to know him.. how do i get him to start calling and texting me again?
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first things first: hang out as friends and only friends. if things start going good from there you can flirt a little, but don't over-do it because you don't want to scare him off again. also, let him bring up the whole "i like you" thing first. things work out better if you take them one step at a time. goood luck :)
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One way to look at it: If you're looking for a committed relationship, he isnt the way to go. Honestly, if he felt the same way about you, he wouldn't have been scared.
Another possibility: he's scared of a committed relationship and you need to show him what that is like. Start talking to him again, just as friends. Don't mention the past until he does. See where it takes you.
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