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Bored of Lads..
Im not to sure how to explain this but here we go..
Straight to the point..i get bored of lads really easily. When i say bored i dont mean like we dont do exciting things etc. and its never anything the lad does wrong .. i just seem to get bored of spending time with the same person and eventually i hate speaking to them and they start to annoy me. This happens after about 2 weeks with every boy that i start to like :/ Its really getting to me now because i just want a LONG relationship.
I just want to know does anybody else have this problem? And what can i do to stop me from getting bored!??!?! xxxx
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Happens to me all the time... at least, it did before 3 years ago!
You can't stop it. Trust me, I tried.
You can't force relationships. If you can't stand the guy after a couple of weeks, it means that you're not meant to be together. There's something about him as a person that doesn't click right with you.
I used to be bored with guys all the time. I'd date for a couple of weeks, then get bored. 3 months was my maximum. Then, I met the guy who has kept me interested for 3 years. He'll also be keeping me interested for the rest of my life... we're getting married!
You just need to find the right guy. If it helps, though, think about it this way; at least you know early on that they're not going to work out. Would you rather get bored a couple weeks in, or a couple years in? This way you can move on to finding out what you really want in a relationship.
Some things you can try;
- Find out what it is about each guy that bores you. Is it their personality? Their habits? Try to find something in common so you know what to avoid in the future.
- Try dating entirely outside of your usual scope. For instance, I have a friend who only dated blonde hockey players over 6 ft tall (how she found them all, I have no clue). She was always complaining about how they were all the same. Then I pointed out that she had dated variations of the same guys for the last few years. As soon as she tried someone new, BAM, her guy problems were gone.
- Who do you like spending time with the most? What is it about them that makes them so likeable for so long? Take that and look for it in future dates.
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