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How do you move on?


Question Posted Thursday May 28 2009, 10:20 am

How do you move on when your ex-girlfriend who cheated on you after a five year relationship, text you messages telling you how she misses you, how she misses your touch, your kiss and that we shouldn't loose contant cause she still has interest at heart for me and that she doesn't see herself sleeping with her current boyfriend because she is afraid that he won't do it like i did?

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Additional info, added Monday June 1 2009, 6:06 am:
How can i move on if i still dream about her and think about her every single day? I don't know if i am a controlling, abusive, or obsessed man. Cause i was told all that, thats why i was cheated on. So i don't know if thats an excuse or i am all of those? Can somebody please explain an Controlling, abusive and an obsessed man does and what are the signs?.

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christina answered Thursday May 28 2009, 7:52 pm:
Ignore her messages. She cheated on you, therefore she is an ex for a reason. If you take her back, you are only asking to get your heart broken again, and it will only cause drama.

Apologize to her, but let her know that you just cannot take her back for the sake of you and your heart. If she loves you like she says she does, she'll understand.

Do what's best for you and ignore her pleas for a re-unification.

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heather21 answered Thursday May 28 2009, 6:41 pm:
hey wow seems like my life. im a girl though, hes the man whore. alright, well this helps in all honesty. basically you got two choices, cut this clean and be happy yourself, or make your self miserable. its all on you

stop responding to her messages. no matter how mad they can make you, sad, or upset
wait. an hour, and after that,think about how she is the one who messed up, and she is the one who cheated on you.
secondly, delete every single thing that reminds you of her, pictures on internet, anything on facebook or myspace if you got it, pictures in your room, basically anything and seriously everything.
third,spend your days in thought of how she is the one who fucked up, she is the one who cheated on you, its completely her loss, not yours. and she knows that
fourth, do not answer he calls, do not ask anyone about her unless you ready

Andd.. hate to say it, she sounds like a slut. I know im not a slut, i got morals. I just ghot fucked over two months ago from my two year relationship, now he wants me back. I would never though, say i want him back because i wanna fuck him basically. disgusting

she sounds selfish, she just wants to fuck, she donest care about how you feel, not trying to be mean, but thissoudns like the truth.
and, if you fuck up once, you'll do it again.

you deserve better, idk you, haha but you honestly need to follow what ive told you... and you will be alright. just like me, you'll be happy again

cut everything off, and then only good things come your way. promise

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Razhie answered Thursday May 28 2009, 10:41 am:
Block her number.

She's a selfish, attention seeking, brat.

It's not enough for her that she cheated on you, and has a new boyfriend, she also needs to do everything in her power to make sure you are still obessively thinking about her.

Her only interest in you, is how much she can keep you interested in her. It's not about you. It's all about her, what she wants, what she feels, what she is going to do. She's doesn't care about you, she only cares about how you make her feel, and clearly, you aren't even the only person who she wants to get those feelings from.

You wont be able to move on until you get angry with her and end contact with her.

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