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This Is Me. Take it - Or Leave it
I'm Emily
I'm 18 years young
I can be a bit straight forward but it comes from the heart
I'm moving to Florida next week!
I have a Jeep and it is very sexy.
I'm a little short for my liking
I am an aspiring model
I'm going to college for massage therapy, but am hoping to get into the entertainment business.
I used to be on my highschool's fencing team, and I miss it a whole lot ::sigh::
I used to fence with a sabre.
Art is my life
Andy Warhol is AMAZING!
I'm obsessed with tattoos and piercings
I am a guitarist, a photographer, a painter, and an artist.
I'm a loner, I'm a loser but I like it that way.
My friends and family mean the world to me.
I have 3 dogs.
I've been through more than I should.
I've been told I'm too adult for my age.
I'll answer your questions if you need it [=



Words of advice on love:
- Don't ever let someone tell you that you are not in love.
- If you say that you THINK you're in love, then you aren't. If you really feel it, then you are.
- Never let someone judge your relationship unless they know FACTS.
- To me, age is not an issue. If you are 13 and dating a 30 year old, then it's a big deal. If it's 5 or 6 years, not a big deal.
- If you are being abused mentally/physically GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP! Don't give the excuse that he apologized. If he loves you he wouldn't do that to you.


I'm not a fan of answering questions that are listed in the FAQ. If it's a question you can look up on Google then please, look it up on google. Don't be lazy.


I do not like when people have issues with typing.

iif u typ3 liik3 thiiz iit piissesz m3 0ff. Alot.

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i've been getting my period since april 04 and i got it on the 24th for april may june july and august. i didnt get it september but octor 2nd. now its november 5th and i still didnt get it. this is really messed up! what do i do because i dont know when to expect it and i'm sick of wearing dark jeans all the time. thx-very self conscious

When you are young and you first get your period, it is never on schedule. You can go months without getting it and then getting it again. There is nothing to be worried about. Normally the first 3-4 years of getting your period it isn't on an exact schedule. The only way you should be worried about it is if you are sexually active. But if you're not, stop freaking out and calm down. Stress can also cause your period not to come. Hope this helped.

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I get migranes all the time! Does anybody know what may be causing it? I dont know much about migranes. My mom and I get them all the time! I usually take advil or asprin, or something. Do you get migranes? What works well for you?

I get them because of the pressure outside and the weather change. That is most likely the reason why you've been getting migranes. Try using excedrin (The strongest one you can find). Advil won't work for my migranes and advil is strong for me. I use excedrin. I get really bad migranes to the point where I puke. Excedrin works best for me. Hope this helped.

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I have to read a fictional book for school on the subject of cutting (it has to be fictional) does anyone know of any good ones besides the book "Cut"... i've already read that one. I rate everyone with one book name. thanks!
~Ali

Well, I'd honestly have to agree with everyone else... "Thin Skin" Written by Emma Forest was an AMAZING book. It was very sad though... Hope this helped!

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What are ways I can get taller? I'm 14/m.

Well, you can't MAKE yourself get taller but for now, just drink lots and lots of milk and stretch. I heard that people that take yoga grow at the most an inch. So drink lots of milk and stretch your body. You're only 14, you have alot more growing to do. Calm down. There's a kid in my school 15 and he's 4'11". He's still growing. Males usually stop growing around the age of 18-20. You have 4-6 years to go buddy! You'll grow. Hope this helped.

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does anyone know how to change the font in your column, thanks!

You really can't change the text. There is an option if you go to Column settings there is an option right at the top that says "approved public styles" There are 4 options, each with a different font. But this is a site that you can go to where you can change the style of your font, bold, italic, underline, glowing... etc.http://www.buddy4u.com/view/?u=xXx+HTML+xXx#text Hope this helps.

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ok well you know you said how you were anerxic? well like how did you do it? like i've tried not eating for like a day lol and i couldn't i just got so hungrey? how did you help like not getting hungrey? like im the phone who asked the question about my friend being anerxic and like I can tell that she is hungrey but like doesn't want to eat..how did you like not eat when your hungrey? sry that doesn't make to much sence lol but basically how did you become anerxic..like dont you get hungrey and when you are hungrey how do you keep from not eating? thanks!

Well when you're anorexic, you're convinced that you're fat and even if you're hungry, you won't eat... that's why you're starving yourself. When I first started becoming anorexic, I'd eat less and less each day to the point were I was eating nothing. See, you're stomach is kind of like a balloon, it expands when you eat. When you don't eat, it shrinks and when you eat something you can't eat much because you're stomach is so small. It was painful not eating but I did it because I was convinced that I was fat. I was 5'3" and 90 pounds a size 12 in GIRLS pants. I could have fit 2 of me in a size 2 pants. Hope this helped.

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alright well I think my friend is going anerxic but I'm not sure..like shes eating alil bit but not as much as before..does anyone know like some signs of it? or like anything she might be eating instead of her regular food..? like she would never make herself throw up because she has braces and an expander and when she threw up when she was sick she thought it was the nastiest thing because it was all like stuck up in it..so if you know anything about it like signs or symptons please help!

People that are anorexic normally always complain that they are fat and if they do eat... they eat very very little. They will eat like a carrot or something healthy like that but in very small portions. If someone offers a bag of chips or anything like chocolate or sweet or any fatty food they will always turn it down and say that they are full. I used to be anorexic and that's how I was. Talk to her, being anorexic isn't healthy at all. She needs to get help if she really is anorexic. Hope this helped.

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hey my moms friend is having a baby in february and her name is Lindsey. What are some good middle names?

Michelle, Nicole, Elise, Marie, Ann, Lynn, Samantha. Those are all I can think of. Hope this helped.

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ok i been with my boyfriend for a while n we have alot of ups and downs...i really love him...and i no i do...but he is confusing me with this whole "i love u thing" i really wanna say ti to him soooo bad! and he sed it to me first....but it was n my voicemail...he left a mssg for me and he was like i love u..bye and like when we talk on the fone he wont say it....only on mssgs! and in person he dont say it either....its really confusing me! what can i do? do i say it first? helllpp wat does this mean

He's probably shy. Guys are like that and if they know that they aren't speaking to you directly and "live" then they don't have a problem saying it to you. Just sit him down and say "______ (his name) I have to tell you something..." He'll say "What is it (or something like that) and then you say "I really love you" You also have to do this... when you say it to him say it while you're looking down and not directly at him and then right when you said it look up at him. Then say "I really do mean it too." He should say it back. It works everytime... even if he's said it to you in the past but not in person he should say it. All of my friends have asked me about that and they told me that their boyfriends got this really cute/sad look on their face and said "I love you too". You also have to keep in mind that it is much easier to say "I love you too" than to say "I love you". It sounds weird but that's just how it is. I really hope this helped!

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ok yesterday i wore a long sleve shirt to school and forgot to put deoderant on(whoops) i by acident reached up and he saw my sweaty arm pits i was and still am so imbarrased!! I dont want him to like break up with me or anything b/c of them..would u do that to ur girl friend or boy friend??????

If your boyfriend really likes you then he won't break up with you for something stupid like that. My boyfriend has seen me with my hair a total mess, no make up on and in my baggy shitty pajamas and he still thinks I'm beautiful. You're boyfriend should think the same if he ever saw you like that and if he doesn't then he's no good. You need to feel comfortable enough around your boyfriend to look like shit and know that he's not going to offend you. You should be able to say "I look like shit" and he should say "No you don't, you look beautiful/pretty/gorgeous/adorible/sexy" anything along those lines. Don't be embarassed!! Hope this helped.

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I have a few questions about getting shiney hair.
1. Does icy cold water really help make your hair shiney?
2. Are there any other techniques that help make your hair shiney?
3. What are some good products?
Thanks..I rate high!

Here are your answers in order, No, use a square brush with plastic bristles, and matrix sleek look smoothing system and Neutrogena triple moisture healing shine hair serum. Hope this helped.

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ok does anybody know of any deoderant that works really well??? that like doesn't make u sweat at all...... i rate good!! please help!!

Certian Dri. It's expensive but it works great. It helps with the sweat alot. I use it because I had that problem. Try that it's like 7-10 dollars for a little tube but it's totaly worth it. Hope this helped.

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im 13 and im scared to wear a tampon what should i do...Im getting self concious

It's not bad at all. It's very easy to use and they are alot more comfortable than pads (In my opinion anyway) Buy a box and they have a little diagram on the back that shows you how to use them. I use tampax pearl because they are much easier to use. They are a little more expensive but they are much easier to use. You just have to make sure that you are relaxed because if you're tense it's not going to work. It might take a couple of trys to get it in the first time but you'll get the hang of it. It's nothing to be scared about, you'll be fine. If you have any other questions drop one in my box. Hope this helped.

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ok ladies i need your help haha,
ok every girl has worn lipstick at least once in their life, but what if youre about to have a makeout session with your boyfriend while wearing lipstick, doesnt it get all over his face or something, and make a big mess? well, please help quickly! i kinda need help NOW!
thanks!

Well, yes it does. That's why you have to wear the ever lasting lipstick that won't come off. Even with lip gloss you do that. I don't wear lipstick when I know I'm going to see my boyfriend becasue it WILL get all over his face. Wear chapstick. Don't wear lipgloss or lipstick. Only wear lipstick if it's the one that won't come off. Hope this helped.

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I was just wondering is it true that drinking diet sodas can cause cancer?

Probably not. They have been saying lately that everything has been causing cancer so it really wouldn't shock me if it did cause cancer. I highly doubt it though. Hope this helped.

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well when i was younger i thought having sex at 14 was horrible. but now im starting to think well maybe its not so bad.. sex at 11 or 12 is bad. i know people who have done it and theyre younger than me. im 13. so what is a good age for sex.. does age even matter?

confused..

elle

Well I really don't think that age matters all that much. I think that if you are at least 16 then it's not all that wrong to be having sex. Also, having sex with just any random guy/girl I think is very wrong. I feel that if you are going to have sex with someone, you should at least have mutual feelings for eachother and love eachother and trust eachother. Please don't have sex yet!!! You're too young sweetie! And yes, I do agree with you that sex at 11-12 is VERY bad. A girl in my school got pregnant at 12. Yeah... Pretty messed up. But in my opinion a good age for sex is around 16-17 or depending on the relationship you have with the person you are being imtamate with. Hope this helped.

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Hello, I'm 14 and am a Freshman.
Recently I have been dating my boyfriend for about 2 1/2 weeks. We have been getting along great except for one thing. I have been cheating on him. (I know I hate myself for doing so)
It all started when this guy I was friends with told me he liked me. I felt really bad for him because he always got picked on. So I told him I liked him because I did at the time. And after a week I started going around secretly after school kissing the guy every day. (I had to make stupid excusses for my boyfriend)
Today I stopped because I knew it was getting way out of control. ( I couldn't believe I was doing this to my boyfriend!!! And yesterday I almost french-kissed the guy! It turned out feeling terrible because I wasn't comfortable with him and it was his first time kissing a girl that way!) Today I wasn't late so I went outside and waited for my bus. Me and my boyfriend were having a great time playing around! But the guy I stopped kissing got mad at me because I wouldn't kiss him anymore and now started crying because I'm with my boyfriend. (I know how the guy feels, but don't I have a right to be with my boyfriend!) I feel like I am limited to what I can do with my boyfriend becuase I want to kiss him, but the guy is aways around to see and I don't want to hurt his feelings anymore!
Please help! I wish I had never cheated on him and I don't know what to do so the guy wont be mad at me anymore...

Alright... what some of the people said was pretty damn stupid so I'll give you my honest opinion. Yes I do think that it was a very stupid thing to start making out with another guy just because you felt bad for him. 2 1/2 weeks really isn't that long of a time and you and your boyfriend really don't know eachother as boyfriend and girlfriend yet. You really should talk to the guy you made out with and tell him that you're really sorry for leading him on but you have a boyfriend and you want to stay loyal to him even though you didn't in the begining. You'll really need to talk to your boyfriend because if you don't and you hide this from him, it's going to hurt him more if he hears it from someone else. I really hope that everythign works out for you. Getting cheated on isn't fun. I've been cheated on with all of my ex boyfriends (6 of 'em) and it really hurts. You need to be honest with your boyfriend because if he finds out later on, he won't be able to trust you again. Hope this helped.

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Does anyone have a tattoo on there lower back? I really want to get one when im 18. Or does anyone have one on their ankle. If so can you tell me how bad it hurt ect. Thanks.

My mom has a tattoo on her lower back, on her tail bone to be exact. I went with her to get it done and my mom is normally a very tough person when it comes to pain... for God's sake she gave birth to 2 kids. Anyway, If you get a tattoo anywhere close to a bone, it hurts. My mom was practically crying when she got it done. So yeah, it hurts pretty damn bad. Get it somewhere else, for 2 reasons, 1) You can't see it (as in YOU) and 2) It hurts really really bad. My mom regrets it. Get it like on your stomach near your hip, no one gets tattoos there anymore! Be different. Then again, it's your decision. But yes, it hurts. BAD. Hope this helped.

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hey i was wondering if anyone here watches one tree hill? i love that show. does anyone know where i can get make up tips/hair tips so i can look like brooke or peyton or haley. i want to act like them, dress like them, make up, hair. any tips would be greatly apreciated. thanks, ill give you all 5's.

For hair and make up tips: Bring in a picture of the girl that you'd want to be most like and ask your hair stylist to cut and dye your hair to the best he/she can to get it to look like her. For the clothes, try Bloomingdales, Abercrombie, Hollister, Sax Fifth Ave, Bebe, Wet Seal (they have inexpensive things)... As for the make up, if you go to Macy's they have the make up artists and you can ask them to make you look like them. They will give you pointers as to how to make your make up look like that. Hope that helped!

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Okay i am really good friends with my boyfriend and we've been going out since about 4 months ago. (we were friends first) Lately it hasnt been is fun dating him as it was at first, he used to wait for me outside my classes and talked to me SOOOO much more. I really think we need to break up, but i still want to be friends. How do i go about doing this? -kelly

I honestly do not mean to get you upset in any way after saying this but, people normally say "Friends first always make the best couples." About 90% of the time it's not true. When you're close friends with someone and you start to date them and you break up, you have a very weird vibe between you two and nothing will be the same. I've made that mistake before. I can say that only one time it actually worked out great for me. We are still great friends now though. Try talking to him first and tell him how you really feel about everything instead of just dumping him without a reason. Tell him, It really doesn't seem like you're interested with me and I like you alot but I can only picture you more as my friend than my boyfriend. You're a great person and I don't want to hurt you but, I think we'd be better off as friends. He'll be hurt at first if he really does care about you. Let him tell you how he feels about the situation and maybe everything will work out for you. I really hope it does! Hope this helps!

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