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Okay i am really good friends with my boyfriend and we've been going out since about 4 months ago. (we were friends first) Lately it hasnt been is fun dating him as it was at first, he used to wait for me outside my classes and talked to me SOOOO much more. I really think we need to break up, but i still want to be friends. How do i go about doing this? -kelly
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I agree with telling him, but be prepared for a little amount of time when he won't be as friendly. It's normal, but you two will be friends in the end.
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jus talk to him and tell him how u feel. i know its hard but everything will work out! hope i helped ~stef~
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you should talk to him first because he mite actually feel the same way as you do.you should also make sure that he knows how much you valued your friendship before you started going out with him.and how much you wanna stay friends.hope it all works out
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some people do get sick of their bf/gf after a while if they go out fer too long...they decide to be friendz instead of bf and gf just be like this isnt the same as it use to be letz just be friendz! good luck hun <33
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Well, ok. I kinda know what your going through. One of my best friends went out with another one of my best friends about a month ago and it went the same way. Just tell him that your really sorry but its not fair to him to keep going out with him when you dont like him like that anymore, but you REALLY want to stay friends with him. Just make sure he knows how you feel. Sounds corny I know but hey its the truth. Good luck
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I honestly do not mean to get you upset in any way after saying this but, people normally say "Friends first always make the best couples." About 90% of the time it's not true. When you're close friends with someone and you start to date them and you break up, you have a very weird vibe between you two and nothing will be the same. I've made that mistake before. I can say that only one time it actually worked out great for me. We are still great friends now though. Try talking to him first and tell him how you really feel about everything instead of just dumping him without a reason. Tell him, It really doesn't seem like you're interested with me and I like you alot but I can only picture you more as my friend than my boyfriend. You're a great person and I don't want to hurt you but, I think we'd be better off as friends. He'll be hurt at first if he really does care about you. Let him tell you how he feels about the situation and maybe everything will work out for you. I really hope it does! Hope this helps!
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Just sit him down, and tell him that you don't think the relationship is working out. Tell him that you think you guys don't have enough time for eachother anymore, and that it might be better just being friends. If it's hard for you to confront him, I suggest writing a note, calling him, or IMing him. That's always WAY easier, but direct talking gets the point across much clearer! Good luck! :)
x CeLeNe
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Just tell him what you told us. If he cares about you, he'll understand. You'd be surprised, but because of the way he's acting, he might be thinking the same thing.
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