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I'm 13 and I've liked this guy for a year now, and I'm beginning to wonder whether I should tell him I like him. I doubt he likes me back in "that way", but I'm 99.99999...% sure that he likes me as a friend. We're good friends. Not like unseparably devoted best friends, but we talk a lot. I'm not sure whether telling him how I feel is a good idea. Can anyone give me their thoughts?

tell him. you don't want to regret it. you never know, he may like you too but is too shy to say anything & plus he might not know you like him. a year is a pretty long time, so i think it'd be a good idea to tell him. you never want to regret anything & you wouldn't feel so great if you never told him & he went out with some girl.

-hope that helped!♥

There is this guy who likes me but he is not my boyfriend.(because I don't like him that way) He always sits next to me during classes we have together. He flirts with me alllll of the time. He treats me way better than other girls. But the thing that really gets on my nerves is how he calls me EVERYday. I don't even talk to my friends that are girls everyday. Do you think he is getting to attached or is it just me?

he could be attached. try mentioning it to him nicely w/out hurting his feelings. juss tell him that you're busy & with your phone bill & stuff you don't think you should talk that much outside of school since you guys aren't really dating. you can also tell him that you'll call him instead of vice versa, er he can call you when he has to.

-hope that helped!♥

Ok, I know this is a weird question.

I'm just curious, I'm not trying to get a bigger ass, but anyways, if you really exercise your gludius maximus (aka butt muscle), will you get a bigger butt?
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i think butt exercises tones it. it could definately make it bigger, since you're making the muscles bigger. it's not totally true though, since you can't really decide where all the fat goes & what you can do to fix it. here's a website-

http://exercise.about.com/cs/exerciseworkouts/tp/butt.htm

-hope that helped!♥

Alright. So for about three years i had the same best friend. We were really close and nothing ever got in between us. After three years though, i met another girl who kinda took her place. We were best friends for about a year and a half, but then i met ANOTHER girl who also took the place of my other best friend. After a very short time, me and that girl got too much of each other. I really dont know what to do. It's like i can't have a best friend but i always have at least 5 really great ones. Can anyone relate or give advice on how to get used to my best friend's flaws?

this is deifnately a girl thing. most girls think you have the 'one best friend' when you shouldn't. i have a lot of close friends, kind've like a circle of best friends. that's an easy way where everyones accepted & you don't juss have one friend that's a girl that you can depend on. you have many friends that are girls that way.

-hope that helped!♥

Hi! I'm a 16/f, tan, brown hair, blue eyes. I need eyeliner and mascara sooo i was just wondering if I should go black/brown mascara with brown eyeliner or just black mascara and black eyeliner! heLp!

personally, i think both brown & black look good. pick whatever color you like better for eyeliner & then use the same color for mascara. i think it looks better when they're both the same color.

-hope that helped!♥

Alright. I am 17 and ive had sex alot. but the thing is...my parents think im still a virgin. and my brother found out about me and this guy last night. and now hes like holding it against me. i am pretty paranoid cause i mean. he usually doesnt tell on me but sometimes he does. what should i do? come clean or just see what happens?

the whole virginity thing is your own privacy & your personal life. maybe you should talk to your brother & explain to him that its your life & if any of that ever happened to him, he'd probably wouldn't want your parents to know either & vice versa. if you want to be open & honest then let them know. they might want to know, but its really up to you.

-hope that helped!♥

16female single. Long story short:
(this has been going on for about a month now)
1 class with an older boy
Always stares at me
i sit on the other side of the room
whenever i look up low and behold he's staring at me
we've talked once over the computer and said one thing to me at school:(what page was the homework on?)
he is definatley NOT shy, i am tho
he is single as well

do you think he may like me?
or does he just like to look at me?

the other columnist is right. the only true way of knowing if he likes you er not is if you get to know him & ask him. plus you guys can become really good friends.

-hope that helped!♥

I have a problem ... i'm 90 pounds but i'm short and I don't eat anymore because i'm scared to become fat. But because of how short I am my stomach is kind of big. I need to get some advice ... what to eat, what not to eat, what work-out's are good etc. Thanks!

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90 lbs is definately not a lot so don't even worry. really, i think you should get some sort've professional help if you don't seem to get better. to stay in shape, you're suppose to eat all 3 meals. if you don't eat, it becomes really unhealthy & you can actually gain weight. its because your body goes into starvation mode & you don't burn any calories. you can eat whatever you want as long as you work out. running & crunches are good. but really, eat. if your parents notice, er people around you they might want you to get help. why not juss do it the healthy way?? if you become really bad & don't eat they'll send you into an institution & you'll have to be forced to gain more weight than what you started in with. soo eat & stay healthy. it's the best way.

-hope that helped!♥

I want to get my haircut and colored like nicole richie. But I had medium length hair and i dont want it to be as short as hers. Like maybe just a little trim. I just want her layers and bags.
Does anyone know any really good pictures of this I can show to my stylist?
I dont want a drastic change either.
Thanks!

here's a few websites-

http://gim.gupshup.org/gal/H/3000_3677_Richie-Nicole-05-4x20124_9432121.JPG

http://cdn-channels.netscape.com/gallery/i/r/richie/51289291.jpg

http://www.vh1.com/sitewide/flipbooks/
img/shows/maxim_hot_100_2005/38_
nicole_richie.jpg

-hope that helped!♥

ok, so i think that i may like this guy who is about 2 years younger than me. i think he's a good guy and he's nice to me. i'm not sure if he likes me too. what are some signs that i should look for to see if he likes me, without asking him if he does?

stares at you, flirts with you, pays attention to you, talks to you, etc etc. that's all you really notice without asking them. also, all guys are different, so even if he doesn't do those things, he still could like you.

-hope that helped!♥

i have a song on itunes i would like to put on myspace but i dont know how to. so can someone tell me how i can get a code for it so it plays on my myspace. thnx

what you can do is go to myspace & there's a whole bunch of tabs near the top, go to the MUSIC tab & there should be a music home page type thing with a search bar. click the search for..thing & click down & search by band. then type in whatever artist sings that song. it should give you websites for that certain artist. you click on w/e one you want & then there should be songs in a music player near the top on the right side of their site. there should be buttons under each song link. click the 'add' one & it should add to your site. before it says "do you want to add w/e to your site" & you click yes then there you go!! if not then you can go to this website-

http://www.myspacevideocode.com/

search for the song/artist there & they'll give you a song code to put on your myspace.

-hope that helped!♥

Okay. This is going to be a longer entry but i'd really love the advice, i need some help on this one. So there's a guy at my school. this is going to sound incredibly typical, but i really do like him a lot. I have for a long time, i think its been about 5-6 years. We were together on and off for the majority of last year, but we had some conflicts and he said he didnt want a romantic relationship over the summer, but maybe once school started up again. This school year is almost over, and he's basically told me and some of my friends he liked me. We flirt with each other a lot, but every once in a while we just kind of stop talking, like for a week or so. I dont really know why, except that he's kind of shy when it comes to me. But with other people he's totally out there, and doesnt hold back at all. Recently, another girl has started to like him too. She's apparently really obsessed, and i do mean obsessed. She writes poems about him and basically freaks out everytime she hears his name. she follows him around and he's all she ever talks about. He knows about all of it, and has no interest in her. i feel bad for her, but at the same time i'm kind of annoyed. she found out he liked me and watches me all the time. her friends question me, him, his friends, my friends, and other people about our feelings for eachother all the time. One of this girls friends asked him if he liked me and he said if he liked me he'd ask me out. I was disappointed at first but just earlier that week we'd been flirting like crazy and his friends were telling everybody about how he talks about me so much and how much he likes me. I'd love to talk to him about it but the truth is i'm totally shy. I really need some advice, either on what i could do to get over my fears or what some of that stuff means. For those of you who read this far, thank you so much. Like i said i really need some help. ♥

i think you should go for it & talk to him. what do you got to lose?? you'd wouldn't feel so great if you didn't talk to him & he moved on, ya know?? if you can flirt with him then you can definately talk to him about it. try not to be shy. i know it sounds difficult but you should really try. you don't want to regret not doing it & maybe he wants you to. try not letting the whole girl situation bother you. obviously he doesn't like her & he might like you. juss talk to him about it.

-hope that helped!♥

My name is Jay im actually a coulmnist on this website but would like advice from someone else for a change.

The thing is i moved to Spain 4 years ago and i fell in love for the first time and the girl is great. But now i have moved back to my home country and she has moved to another country and the only thing i have is her e-mail adress. But since she didnt even notice me when we were in the same place how is she supposed to talk to me on MSN or anything. I have no clue what to do, i cant get over her.

What should i do? Im 14 by the way.

it wouldn't be a bad idea sending her an email. see how she's doing & maybe you guys can be sort've "pen pals/email pals" & send msgs back & forth. since you guys are in totally different countries, you might wanna try meeting new people. it'd probably be a bit difficult being that far away, i mean it's not like she's in a different state than you are er vice versa. you can juss send her an email asking how she is & what's new. she might be interested in that. if not then you should juss try meeting new people & hanging out with them. it'll probably take your mind off of it. juss because you guys aren't good friends now doesn't mean you won't be later on.

-hope that helped!♥

One of my best friends likes the same guy as me. Well my and my crush (Ross) have been talking alot latley and he told me he likes me. I don't know how to tell her that he likes me. I don't wanna sound like I'm trying to rub it in her face, but I don't want her to find out from like gossip or something so I want her to know so she doesn't get her heart broken, but what should I say?

i think you should juss tell her that. juss say "i didn't want you to find out through gossping & be confused, but..." & explain to her the whole situation.

-hope that helped!♥

Can anyone tell me the price range of a hamster?

Hehe, thanks. =]

depending on the store, it probably goes up to around $10 maybe more depending on what store. here's a website with supply costs-

http://sps.nus.edu.sg/~neesohye/hamcost.htm

-hope that helped!♥

I downloaded AIM triton and I really want to uninstall it but whenever i go to the uninstall list it doesnt show up. My dad is wicked mad because now when he goes on the internet its the AOL browser. I really need help because I dont know where to uninstall it because it's not on the uninstall list.

you're right. AIM & AIM triton isn't on the list, because it's really difficult to uninstall. don't worry though, you can get back the regular internet browser rather than going through the AOL one. i've had problems with that too, soo what you can do is go to-

START
SET PROGRAM ACCESS & DEFAULT
DROP DOWN CUSTOM TAB
CLICK THE ONE YOU WANT- you probably want the INTERNET EXPLORER(IE)

-hope that helped!♥

I'm 13 and I'd like to know, how much makeup is too much? On a usual day, I wear eyeliner on the bottom lid, and an opaque, frosty lilac lip gloss. Is this ok? I don't want to look like a clown

the point of makeup is to make it look like you're not wearing any. it's suppose to look natural soo yeah i think it's fine. eyeliner & lipgloss is good.

-hope that helped!♥

My boyfreind has braces. I don't, I already got them off. We haven't kissed yet, but I'm sure we will. The thing is, is it harder to kiss a guy with braces? Is it more risky? Could my lips get stuck on his braces or can my tongue? Does it hurt?

uhh i never kissed anyone yet & i don't have braces but tons of my friends have/had braces & it wasn't any different. i mean in some cases, if you guys were kissing..idk weirdly, maybe but that's totally rare. i'm pretty sure it's not any different & juss normal. definately don't worry about it. here's a website that's kind've neat-

http://www.kissing.com/braces.html

-hope that helped!♥

i was using the program applesauce to change the font on my writing for AIM and i didnt know what it meant when it said change color of aways i thought it meant the one i had up so i told it to do that and i lost all the color in all my saved aways and i had alot.. does anyone know how to get them back to normal?

hmm sorry i don't think you can fix it. honestly, i never tried applesauce, i use a different way of getting AIM colors. maybe asking a faq website for applesauce?? here's a website-

http://colour-dreams.net/help/faqs.php

OH & if you want the manual way of getting AIM colors to prevent that stuff from happening let me know.

-hope that helped!♥

can you put music from your ipod on the v3 razr as like a ringtone or something? rate high.

hmm..i never heard of that. do you have a voice recorder?? some phones, under tools, have voice recorders that let you record songs, sayings, etc etc & you can use that as a ringtone. if not, then you have to buy it. jamz has pretty good ones.

-hope that helped!♥

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