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My first love
My name is Jay im actually a coulmnist on this website but would like advice from someone else for a change.
The thing is i moved to Spain 4 years ago and i fell in love for the first time and the girl is great. But now i have moved back to my home country and she has moved to another country and the only thing i have is her e-mail adress. But since she didnt even notice me when we were in the same place how is she supposed to talk to me on MSN or anything. I have no clue what to do, i cant get over her.
What should i do? Im 14 by the way.
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You should still e-mail her, everyday if possible, just to let her know you care about her. I'm not trying to let you down but truth be told, a lot can happen with that much distance and time.
Hope I helped.
~~~~~~~~hailey~~~~~~~~
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well you mean love from 1 side which is yours. send her an email telling her who you r if she doesent notice you just try to know her like you have never seen her and know her more she might love you :) good luck
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Here's the problem, you fell in love but she didn't. Even if she were your next-door neighbor, things wouldn't be any different if she doesn't feel the same way about you. Since she does live in another country, you don't have the opportunity to find out whether or not she would change her mind, so try to let her go. I know it sounds hard, but you can stop yourself from thinking about her. Every time you start to go into a girl from spain daydream, tell yourself (silently) that it's not going to happen and there is someone else for you. If you remain hung up on Spain girl, it's going to be hard to fall for or meet anyone else. The worst thing to do is to allow yourself to dwell on what if's, stop dwelling and you'll start to feel better.
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Well do anything you can to stay in touch with her if u do truly care about her,even though there is a distance between you 2 one day your paths will once again cross and when they do,you'll be thankful for trying to hang on to your relationship with her hope this helps
Jasmine,
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I would deffinately send her an email, it will take a lot off your shoulders, because at least you know that you are doing all you can.
So just send an email to her seeing how she is doing and everything, and go from there.
Good Luck!
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it wouldn't be a bad idea sending her an email. see how she's doing & maybe you guys can be sort've "pen pals/email pals" & send msgs back & forth. since you guys are in totally different countries, you might wanna try meeting new people. it'd probably be a bit difficult being that far away, i mean it's not like she's in a different state than you are er vice versa. you can juss send her an email asking how she is & what's new. she might be interested in that. if not then you should juss try meeting new people & hanging out with them. it'll probably take your mind off of it. juss because you guys aren't good friends now doesn't mean you won't be later on.
-hope that helped!♥
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