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I`m Desiree

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i`m 17 years old

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oaky i have a RLY bad sweating problem! At school i sweat like heck and i cant help it! by the end of the day i have HUGE oit stains! Ive tried many different deoderants....first i started out with avon and then i tried secret (( the strong and invisable kind)) and now im using avon sport...none of them will work!!! please help me! what is a very strong deoderant???

Don`t use avon deodorant.. try buying something from like walgrees or walmart it is a lil more expensive but thats probably the problem your buyin cheap deoderant so your gettin what you pay for.. i dont know weather your a guy or girl but if your a guy try axe or just any sport deoderant for a decent price.. if your a girl but dove or something with a good price range for you.. ♥ Dez

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ok hey, question for the girls. How would you feel if your boyfriend did something like this for you on Xmas. (by the way i am the male not the female lol) I get 2 roses, and put each in their own wrapped box. Ill say "when this rose dries up and dies, i will love you more," then give her the box and let her unwrap the first rose. then say "when this rose dries up and dies, you will love me more," then give her the box and let her open it. Then i will take a third box and say "when this rose dries up and dies, i will STOP loving you." and she will open the box, and it will be a glass rose. (for all the blondes out there, glass doesnt dry up and die ;-)) Ever. lol. what do ya think?

Awww thats so sweet.. thats a cute idea.. if my boyfriend did that i`d give him bunches of kisses and hugs lol.. hope you get em from her.. ♥ Dez

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My dance iz comin upp!! i have to choices on wat to wear.. I could wear RIPPED JEANS N A SHIRT or A SHORT SKIRT WITH SOME HIGH HEELS. what would you perfer?

Ripped jeans with a real cute shirt.. like a halter/tube top.. nothing to revealing but sexy at the same time.. ♥ Dez

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about how long after someones death do they have their funeral?

i think like two or three days.. they usually have visitation two days after then the next day is the funeral when they barry the person.. ♥ Dez

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welllll .. i made a HUGE mistake and umm kissed another boy while i was going out with my boyfriend and well he didnt dump me exactly and he always brings it up though =| idn what to do i cant live with this anymore. what should i do ?

Well yes that was a mistake and your boyfriend should behappy that you came to him and actually told him you did it instead of just tryin to keep it a secret and act like nothing happened.. tell him he should bring that up on you.. you know you screwed up and you wished that he'd except it and not use that against you.. tell him you know you hurt him and you`ll never do it again.. ♥ Dez

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what are the signs of being pregnet???

Missing your period..
Morning sickness..
♥ Dez

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ok i'm 13 yrs old and i' a lil bit emberaced to say this bu tmy boyfrind wants to finger me and i'v nvr done it b 4 i mean i wanna do it but i'm just thinkin ...will it hurt...and thoes kinda questions...what should i do..please help meeee

Don`t feel embarassed.. If your not comfortable doin it then don`t feel pressured too.. you don`t have to do anything you don`t want too.. Well if you decide to let him yes it might not feel that great and might even hurt a lil bit but durin this you can always say no or stop.. i don`t know any other questions you might be askin but if you`d like to leavesome more questions in my inbox i`d be happy to help ♥ Dez

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heyy ok when i shave u no down there i get these little red bumps and i start to bleed from the bumps what should i do...i tried shaving the same way as the hair grows but that doesnt work and im NOT waxingg

try not doing it for a few weeks then shave with conditionor and use baby oil afterwards or lotion.. ♥ Dez

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My boyfriend and I had sex last week and my period usally comes on around the 24 or 25. It is the 27 and my period still haven't come on. I have been have cramps and back pain. So am I pregnant or not?

Sometimes sex can cuse your period to mess up especially if it was your first time or first time in a while.. but if it doesn`t come within a couple days then take a pregnancy test.. ♥ Dez

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i was just wondering how old you were when you had your first kiss....im 14 and i still havent had mine so i kinda feel like a loser but plz put real age...ty

i was 15 almost 16 when i had my first kiss with a guy.. i practice with one girl before but i don`t think that counts that was so i wouldn`t look like a loser when i had my first kiss.. ♥ Dez

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I have this friend. She has been my friend all of my life literally but lately we've been drawing apart. :( what do i do to get this relationship back togeter?

Talk to her.. get together and do something you guys like and talk about it.. aks her whats going on and ask her if she feels the same way about drawing apart too.. ♥ Dez

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What are some good ways to keep a cat from scratching you??? I REALLY NEED TO KNOW! it's on a test tomorrow...! Thanks

Get it declawed.. ♥ Dez

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Im thinking about being a belly dancer or maybe a bunny for halloween. Does any one know any websites that show pictures of belly dancer outfits???
PLEASE HELP
ASAP
MUCH LOVEEEE!!
5'S FOR DESCENT ANSWERS

search on fredricks they had a real cute belly dancer costume in the catalog i looked at the other day.. Best of luck.. ♥ Dez

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hello, i need help. guys just dont like me anymore. and im depressed, my best friend tells me things will be ok but i feel so alone. all i do is cry. its not looks, because guys hit on me and stuff, just like once they get to know me then run, if you have any advice please help..

Well forget all those guys.. you`ll eventually meet a guy who likes you for who you are.. maybe it isn`t you it might be them.. just try to live your life and enjoy being single even tho i know havin a boyfriend is nice.. just always have standards in what you want in a guy.. ♥ Dez

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ok well I am talking to a really good friend of mine and he is 19 we talk on the phone and he works at a fancy constrution place...well my dad asked who he was and I told him but I met him on the internet and we talk on the phone about 2 times a day...my dad is strick to who I talk to...and how old they have to be...WHY??? he is 19 and I am 16!!!! but I did something I think was wrong, I told my dad he was 17 insteed of his true age 19...and he said for me to be careful to who I talk to ... well my sister told them his true age and my mom got on to me right after I got off the phone with him.....what do I do???? and why dont they want me to talk to a guy that is 19???

PLEASE HELP


-BlondeChic163-

nineteen is an adult an illegal for you if you guys ever became more then like talkin buddies.. i can understand why they might be a lil furious bout this guy and you lyin didn`t help the situation.. ♥ Dez

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ok so i know you gyes hate these qustions but i cant answer it on my own. ok so i still like my x but he has a girl friend.shes really mean and dose not want us to be friends.so today she went home sick and my x DID NOT seem to care. So today he huged me and flrted with me. He also spraed his favorite colnge on me which smelled really good!! I dont know if i should ask him if he still likes me or just let narure take its corse?? I really need help on this one i want to know if he still likes me??
i rate 5s

I can`t tell you if this guy likes you but i think he might of wanted to wait for her to be out of the way to get a little closer to you.. i don`t know weather he wants it to be as friends or more.. but i think lettin nature take its course would be better then askin him.. ♥ Dez

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14/f so i've been with my boyfriend for half a year.. and umm we made out a little i guess... so we were lying on my bed...watching tv and whatnot. his hand was on my pants playing with the belt hoops and suddenly he put his hand down my pants slightly...then he went farther and i kinda jumped...and told him no so he was okay with it...soo its a couple of days later..and i'm hanging out with him... he has his arms around me from behind and then his hands drop around my stomach and lower..then he puts his hands on my legs and he moves his hands... brushing up against /there/ and then he suddenly moves his hands to my stomach again...then few minutes later he puts his hands against THERE again...and i kinda got stiff...and i told him not to do it again.. i dunno.... so im just confused. in my mind i wouldn't mind if he did it but my parents said that im too young to do anything below the neck so.. yea and thats stuck in my head so i'm just stuck in middle of wondering what to do.. so..

the next time he does that..what do I do? break up with him or seriously tell him 'NO'. yeah..

lately hes getting a little weird..or horny i guess? cuz when we hang out...he's always behind me pushing my ass into him and whatnot... or like..he pushed me up into a table and talked to people while he was between me..then he would come closer and kiss me while leaning over the table a little too much.. almost like the missionary position. yeahhhh. i dunno. i'm just..blah right now. i don't want to have sex because that ruins a relationship...if you dont get enough or if you do it too much. gah. i dunno!

Seriously you should have a talk with him.. tel this guy what your ready for and not ready for.. i think that you want to do what your parents say but in your mind your not ready to go farther then below the neck.. half a year isn`t a long enough relationship to be havin sex and your young.. tell him you want to take it slow and move through the steps slowly.. if he can`t except that then you don`t need him.. if he continues to do this even after you have a conversation with him about it then deff. get rid of him he should show and have respect for any girl.. try to work things out the best way you can so you don`t have to break up with him.. Guys tend to get like that sometimes but you need to let this guy know his limits.. Yes i also agree with sex ruinin a relationship rushing into to things can make a relationship get old and it won`t be fun then your going to want to go back to other things other then sex.. hopei helped.. ♥ Dez

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okay i shave my private right! well how do i shave to wear i dont have razor burns or red marks? i rate 5's

Well here are some tips..
1..use a new razor and change pretty often..
2..use a different razor for down there then for your legs or under arms..
3..always use shaving cream/soap..
4..always shave downwards then upwards after all hair is almost gone..
5..sometimes maybe shave with conditonor or lotion..
6..after shaving use baby oil or lotion..
♥ Dez

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ok well i want to get a little closer with my boyfriend you know what i mean the thing is should i shave down there or not
i shve mu bikini line and stuff and i trim to but i don't know what the dudes like so how should i do it what do you guys like.
help me lol

Some guys like it shved.. some like it just trimmed.. but i would think if he is going to give you oral maybe shave all the hair down there.. ♥ Dez

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Im pretty late...and I'm 16 going on 17 btw I feel like an idiot and I know its all my fault. Anyway how am I gonna break it to my parents?

Well just sit em down and tell them.. no real easy way to do it.. if i had that answer i would of suggested it.. ♥ Dez

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