ok i'm 13 yrs old and i' a lil bit emberaced to say this bu tmy boyfrind wants to finger me and i'v nvr done it b 4 i mean i wanna do it but i'm just thinkin ...will it hurt...and thoes kinda questions...what should i do..please help meeee
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? LongLostHeart answered Friday November 11 2005, 8:45 pm: Sorry it took so long to answer back,sweety.
But lets see,if your 13 your hymens probably broken already,thats a layer of membrane in your vagina that splits if touched,but it should be gone by now,especially if you've already had your period.
You don't have to be embarassed at all,alot of couples do it.
Anyways,talk to him about it,if you don't think your ready just tell him that and tell him your afraid it might hurt.
But I'm pretty sure it won't hurt much,maybe a little at first,but you just have to get used to it.
xRoOxiSxBlOnDex answered Tuesday November 1 2005, 8:31 am: It SHOULDN'T hurt unless he's too rough with you, or if he accidentally cuts you with his fingernail or something like that. Even then, you probably won't feel it.
If you decide to let him do it, just tell him that you haven't done it before and he shouldn't be rough with you. If you're mature enough to do it, then you should be able to talk about it. Just tell him to go slowly and be gentle. (=
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3TheThreeMusketeers3 answered Friday October 28 2005, 6:30 pm: o ya have you tried fucking masturbation dumbass
HawttxParadise answered Friday October 28 2005, 2:44 pm: it is ok it doesn't hurt alot. but you ll feel good.
let him kno how much you lov him before he does. then after makeout. don't worry it only hurts a little it like getting a tooth pulled out.
ThugGirl041790 answered Friday October 28 2005, 7:00 am: Don`t feel embarassed.. If your not comfortable doin it then don`t feel pressured too.. you don`t have to do anything you don`t want too.. Well if you decide to let him yes it might not feel that great and might even hurt a lil bit but durin this you can always say no or stop.. i don`t know any other questions you might be askin but if you`d like to leavesome more questions in my inbox i`d be happy to help ♥ Dez [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
livestrong answered Thursday October 27 2005, 10:40 pm: I know you wanted to me to answer this but Im really sorry I dont really have the answer your looking for becuase ive never had it done or w/e but just make sure your 100 % sure you want to b/c if you dont you cant end up taking it back anyways goodluck... [ livestrong's advice column | Ask livestrong A Question ]
Advicelady6798 answered Thursday October 27 2005, 8:41 pm: It is the same as wearing a tampon but it doesnt really so i have heard from my friends. Dont worry about it. If you dont want to do it then he souldnt put any pressure on you. [ Advicelady6798's advice column | Ask Advicelady6798 A Question ]
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