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I`m Desiree

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i`m 17 years old

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I'm wondering, I'm only 14 at the moment, but girls my age seem to go for the bad guys and the biggest jerks. Why is that? I am a gentleman and I am as nice as can be and they always tell me that but why do they go for the jerks?

Truthfully its cuz their young and stupid girls.. some will grow out of it after havin some broken hearts but some will always go for those assholes.. ♥ Dez

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is there anyway i can like my my vagina better for when i get fingerd....like not to make the guy grossed out lol

Why would the guy be grossed out i mean if your clean and everything you don`t anything to worry about.. if he don`t like it then don`t let him do it.. ♥ Dez

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What is that piercing called when it's right above your lip off to the side (kinda where Marilyn Monroe had a beauty mark)?

its called monroe.. thats hott on some girls but on others it can be ugly.. Um ask people how you`d look with it.. ♥ Dez

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Ok im 14 and a girl and i really need help.
I dont have a boyfriend, because we just broke up but we will probably get back together.
I think about sex alot and get really horny. I know its normal, but it drives me nuts because I dont know what to do! My guy friends always talk about how the jack off and it makes them feel good, and i always wonder if i masturbate, will it feel good too?
I want to be able to do something about it because Im growing up and i want to be mature without having sex. What do i do?

Just masturbate.. your not hurtin no one.. ♥ Dez

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i'm 14/f i got my period when i was 10. i kno thats young. these past few days i've been getting LOTS of white stuff come out of my *area* and i haven't had my period for i think 1 and a half months? my boobs are getting smaller too i think. i'm not sure. i'm a virgin. i don't know whats happening anybody know?

This is normal.. you have nothing to worry about this is probably happening becuase you got your period so young.. and yes hun its discharge.. ♥ Dez

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I have a question about men. I want to have children some day but havent found the right guy yet. When I do find a guy that I like, what are some signs that could tell me whether or not he would make a good father?
Also, is it a bad sign if the man is already in his mid 40's and has never had any children? Is there still a chance he might want kids at that age? I am 26 and know a guy that is 45 and I think he likes me, but he has never had kids.

Well i can tell my brother and also my boyfriend are going to be good fathers because the way they act now around children like their cousins,nieces and just any random child.. they usually can play with em well and get a child close to them pretty easy.. my little brother never hangs around kids his own age when the little ones are around.. if they want to be a role model and not do anything wrong thats a good sign too..

Well if you ever get close to this guy not exactly as more then friend ask why he does`nt have children.. then you can find out.. he might have children he might just not get them or something.. ♥ Dez

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Hi,
I am 19, blonde and VERY pale. I consequentially can't find any decent colours of make-up - if I wear anything too pale, I look wishy-washy as I already have fair hair and skin. If I wear anything darker, I look gothic and I have nothing against goths but that's not what I'm going for :) Does anyone have any suggestions for some natural-looking make-up? Or some colours that may work? I have grey eyes, if that helps.
Thanks!
P.S. This has to be suitable for work, as I am a nanny and don't want to scare the children in my charge lol! On the other hand, some ideas for going-out make-up would be good too :)

Hey hun..
Well for your pale skin i`d buy a shade darker in foundation so you have more color to your face.. also for your eyes i`d wear mascara to bring your eyes out a little bit and maybe some eyeshadows such as light colors or blues and grays.. don`t get dark colors.. that would work around kids or going out your not over doing it and your still pretty.. also if you would like to bring your eyes out more maybe wear some eyeliner but if it makes you have that goth look then stick with what i said earlier.. also every girl has to finish off make up with LIPGLOSS.. ♥ DEz

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Hi I'm a 27 year old woman but dress like I'm a lot younger. I was wearing a pair of tight track pants that showed off my figure. They were not slutty, but just the style right now and I also wore a black jacket. Anyways these two older men were sitting on a park bench when I walked by, one man said "that's a little tight".
Also two days ago me and my friend who is 33 (but looks 25) were at Tim Hortons having a coffee. We were sitting outside and these old men were sitting behind us. We were not talking to them but they were eavesdropping on our conversation ( which was about men). When we left they jeered at us and said BYE GIRLS.
Why do I always get this reaction from older men? I am not a slut and not a flirt.

Hey i can feel you on this ALOT.. well i get hit on by guys older then me like 21 and up some are even old enough to be my father or grandfather sick huh.. i`m sixteen by the way.. my friends tell me to look at it as a compliment an say i`m lucky but personally i don`t like gettin attention like that and i also DON`T dress slutty actually i wear huge shirts to cover my figure cuz i`m so uncomfortable and even before then i DIDN`T wear slutty clothes.. so i doesn`t have anything to do with the clothing you wear i mean it can if you dress slutty but they apparently are lookin at your figure in those tight clothes and your facial appearance... i don`t understand why myself guys are like that.. hope i helped in some sort of way.. ♥ Dez

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what is it called when you only color the tips of your hair? I know that style has a certain name does anyone know what it is?

Tips.. i don`t thing it really has a name.. i had my tips done on my hair and everybody just described me with brown hair with red tips.. so i`m assuming thats what its called... sorry i didnt help much.. ♥ Dez

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I like this boy ALOT! and we were going out but now his going out with this girl i REALLY hate!! i mean shes a total WHORE!(so to speak) I just dont understand. is he trying to make me mad? or is he over me?

He probably is over you and wants something easy if she is *REALLY* a whore.. Just move on.. ♥ Dez

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can anyone help me think of some love songs that are about knowing someone for a long time& then falling in love with them? I'm trying but I keep running a blank! thanks in advance! :D

one wish.. Ray J
Delimma..Nelly ft Kelly
My Boo..Usher ft Alicia Keys
For you i will.. Monica
We belong together.. Mariah carey
Backtight.. Jaheim
♥ Dez

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What do you say when a guy asks you out. I'm only thirteen, so things don't come naturally. Do you just say "yes"? But that sounds like when someone asks you to marry them!! I think too much about simple things. CAn someone help mee?!?! Don't call me dumb please because you're just stating the obvious!

I'll rate honestly.

Well tell him that you`d like to get to know him better befor actually being called a couple.. i think that would be easier and better especially for your age.. No you not suppose to or have to say yes any guy who asks you out.. just go with who you like and are interested in and if your not ready for a relationship just try maybe going out with guys as friends befor makin it sound so serious.. ♥ Dez

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i really like this guy but he JUST got a g/f that i really dont like/know[the g/f]. what should i do?

I think you should try and find another guy to like.. or wait til they break up..

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is it normal to not like it when other girls are around the guy you like???

Yes its called *jealous*.. Don`t ya just wanna beat the bitches that go around him damnit.. ♥ Dez

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Well im going to be a belly dancer for halloween and i cant change it now. But my problem is, i got my period and for my costume the pants are see through. All most all of it is. What if i leak? What can i do? HELP?

Just make sure you wear a pad and a tampon.. and maybe change often.. i mean seriously you should be okay if you change right before going out.. ♥ Dez

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if the guy you like messes with ur head and likes beating you at stuff what exactly does that mean? is that considered flirting or not?

Usually a guy that likes you would let you win at anything even if he knows he`d kick your ass at it.. or he`d help you win.. ♥ DEz

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okay me and my boyfriend have been together for a while and i use to always go over to his house then something happened and his parents believe the rumor i want to see him really bad and my parenst dont like me having a bf so what should i do to see him and i'm 14/f

Meet somewhere.. like get him to lie so he can see you.. ♥ Dez

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ok well this is going to sound weird but i have sorta a large area down below my belly button, it sticks out alot i wan't to know if there are anyways i can "slim down" please answer quickly!!!


help please desperate

crunches.. ♥ Dez

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When you are makeing out with a guy or kissing him where should you out your hands. Or guys where do you prefer for girls to put there hands?
(I'm a girl)

Well this is what i do while makin out with my boyfriend.. i usually rub like the back of his neck or his stomach or even his back.. or i just put his hands where i want them.. ♥ Dez

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hi. i am decorating a t-shirt for halloween that says happy halloween on the front and i already know what i want on the back but i dont know what else to put on the front besides happy halloween...
keep in mind its for work...i am a server at ihop...and we are able to wear halloween shirts...
anyone have any ideas for what else i can put on the front?
thanks!

Pumpkins,ghosts,scarecrows.. ummm leaves.. skelentons.. witches.. moon and stars.. ♥ DEz

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