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This Is Me. Take it - Or Leave itI'm Emily
I'm 18 years young
I can be a bit straight forward but it comes from the heart
I'm moving to Florida next week!
I have a Jeep and it is very sexy.
I'm a little short for my liking
I am an aspiring model
I'm going to college for massage therapy, but am hoping to get into the entertainment business.
I used to be on my highschool's fencing team, and I miss it a whole lot ::sigh::
I used to fence with a sabre.
Art is my life
Andy Warhol is AMAZING!
I'm obsessed with tattoos and piercings
I am a guitarist, a photographer, a painter, and an artist.
I'm a loner, I'm a loser but I like it that way.
My friends and family mean the world to me.
I have 3 dogs.
I've been through more than I should.
I've been told I'm too adult for my age.
I'll answer your questions if you need it [=
Words of advice on love:
- Don't ever let someone tell you that you are not in love.
- If you say that you THINK you're in love, then you aren't. If you really feel it, then you are.
- Never let someone judge your relationship unless they know FACTS.
- To me, age is not an issue. If you are 13 and dating a 30 year old, then it's a big deal. If it's 5 or 6 years, not a big deal.
- If you are being abused mentally/physically GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP! Don't give the excuse that he apologized. If he loves you he wouldn't do that to you.
I'm not a fan of answering questions that are listed in the FAQ. If it's a question you can look up on Google then please, look it up on google. Don't be lazy.
I do not like when people have issues with typing.
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My ex boyfriend used to tell me he loved me and that I am beautiful even after we broke up...he loved me more than anyone and anything in this whole world. he told me that I was the only thing that matterd to him and that I was the only good thing in his life. and I know what his life is like, and believe me...its TERRIBLE. Anyways, I was to stupid to see how much he really meant what he was saying. and everyone else was telling me that I mean the world to him and I wouldnt believe it. But now I understand. And I want to fall BACK in love with him. I was in love with him once...at least i think i was..it didnt last very long. ive had a thing for my other ex 4 a LONG time and he came back into my life and I up and left the first guy for him. But now I want to fall back into love with him and I dont know how. I mean I love him, but I'm not in love with him. How can I fall in love with him again?
You can't fall back in love with him by force. Forcing love has a bad effect on a relationship. Try talking to him again and maybe ask him to be your boyfriend again. Get reaquainted with eachother and keep talking. And also, you said "I was in love with him once...at least i think i was" If you think you were in love with him then you really weren't. You'll KNOW when you're in love. It's hard to explain what it feels like but I'll tell you it's a beautiful feeling. Talk to him again, date him again if possible. It sounds like he still wants to be with you. Admit that you made a mistake and want to be with him again. If you two end up dating again, take things from there and who knows, maybe you will fall in love with him. Hope this helped.
i brokeup with my boyfriend but ONLY because he lived so far away and i never got to see him (everyone thought it was because of another guy but it wasn't) and ive been an emotional wreck ever since then, it was like 2 months ago and i still cry like at night and even somtimes if i start thinking about him during the day i go to the bathroom and cry during school... i'm just really confused. i mean, i don't know if i want to ask him for a second chance cuse i dont think i can stand never being able to see him all over agagin :-/ but i really want him back, and i still love him :( what should i do?
I'll tell you what I told another girl who asked a similar question. Those who do not believe a long distance relationship can work have no luck in carrying on a relationship of any kind themself. Those who believe longdistance relationships can work out and last are those who have the most success in a relationship. If you really love him and if he really loves you, you can MAKE it work. Distance between two hearts is not an obstacle, rather a reminder of just how strong true love can be. My boyfriend and I have a long distance relationship and I've been with him for nearly seven months and I'm the happiest I've ever been. I personally think that long distance relationships are stronger relationships just because of the fact that you are able to have a relationship without the other person being in the same town or school as you. You still love him. Does he still love or like you? Talk to him, ask him if he'd want to try it again. Ask him back out. Plus, when you do see him after a while of not seeing him- the excitement between the two of you is priceless and the most amazing feeling in the world when you get to be in his arms after not seeing him for a while. That's what I love the most about long distance relation ships. If you think it can work then it will work. Also, a relationship isn't all just one person. You both have to work at it and make it work, not just you and not just him. Hope you feel better. Hope this helped.
hello! i was wondering how do you get rid of stretch(growing) marks on your breasts or hip/thighs area?
Cocoa Butter or Vitimin E. Take your pick. They both work great. I prefer cocoa butter because it smells sooo good. They make lotions with cocoa butter in it, so you can find it at wal*mart. Hope this helped.
Well!My friend a while ago started cutting herself, but then she stopped. Today I hit her arm and she said ouch. I knew right away what she did because she gave me this look. Then she laughed about it. I honestly don’t think that it is funny. She is one of my best friends and I don’t need her going off and hurting herself. When she laughs about it, it makes me feel like she doesn’t want me to care or anything. She showed me her arm and it looks pretty bad and shes like ooo its not that bad. I don’t want to tell an adult but she has been pretty depressed latly and I don’t kno anymore if I should continue helping her about it or just give her her own space.
If you care about your friend and you want to help her you WILL tell an adult. She is hurting herself very badly and she needs to seek medical help. I was a cutter for a year and a half on top of the fact that I had depression. Her showing you her arm and then laughing about it is basically a secret sign for help. She wants help. You're willing to give her the help so why are you just doing nothing about it? Help her out tell her that what she is doing is not good for her. Tell an adult. She NEEDS help. For the love of God. HELP. HER.
this might seem like a dumb question, but if u swallow pre-cum (not knowing what it is), can you get pregnant?
No chance in hell. Cum or precum needs to be in the vaginal area in order for you to get pregnant. The mouth has nothing to do with the reproductive system.
do you HAVE to shave down there? if so.. how?
You don't HAVE to but most girls just want to. If you do, put moisturizer there first and let it sit for about 20 min. Then when you go to shave it off DO NOT USE JUST SOAP AND WATER!! You must use a moisturizing shaving cream or even conditioner. When you shave it off... just shave it as you would your legs. After you've shaved it you need to keep putting moisturizer on it or else it will be SUPER itchy. Hope this helped.
is it bad to be white and have a crush on someone who's black or darker skinned than you? im not racist but ive always wondered! thanks in advance!
Why would that be bad? If your parents are racist then you might be getting shit from them. Mixing races is a beautiful thing. You shouldn't care what color or religion a person is. If they're nice to you and treat you with respect and you want to date them, so be it. Race shouldn't matter. I hate racist people. It's pointless, they are all people. The only thing different is the color of their skin. It doesn't matter what's on the outside, just on the inside.
What's the step below going out? This guy said he likes me and wants to be the step below going out, because he doesn't think "going out" at this age is a good idea. We're more than friends though, I know that.. Any ideas on what it could be?
Well from what it sounds like you're "together" with him or "seeing eachother" and you don't have an exclusive relationship. An exclusive relationship is basically when you refer to the other person as your boyfriend/girlfriend. Hope this helped.
plz dont delete this question i need answeres fast!! okay..today is wednesday and next wednesday im going to make an appointment to get highlights...but saturday im leaving to go to hawaii and i was wondering if i can swim with my new highlights and them not get discolored or faded?? i REALLY want to get highlights over christmas break and im busy everyday except wednesday..help!!
If they are blonde, they could get discolored because of chlorine. They have products you can put in your hair to prevent from discoloration. Ask your stylist when you get your hair done about products to use to prevent the discoloring of your hair.
Today I found out that my boyfriend may be moving away. There is still a chance that he will be staying but if he does move, I don't know how I am going to cope. It would be very hard to visit him as I am too drive so I would only get to see him once every month or so, probably not even that. If he does move, how do I cope? Is it worth carrying on the relationship or should I just end things? Thank you.
Well it depends on how far he's moving. Keep this quote in mind: Distance between two hearts is not an obstacle; rather a reminder of just how strong true love can be. My boyfriend and I have a long distance relationship... He doesn't live that far away but it is hard not seeing him every day like I'd want to. If you really care about eachother you can make it work even if it means seeing him once a month. You have a phone most likely and obviously a computer with the internet. Call him every night. I personally think that longdistance relationships last longer and are stronger relationships because of the fact that you are able to carry on a relation ship with someone who doesn't live in the same town as you do or go to the same school as you do. I don't think you should end things. Those who believe long distance relationships don't work cannot carry a relationship of any kind themself. Those who believe longdistance relationships can work out and last are those who have the most success in a relationship. I hope this helped. Feel better.
ok exactly 1 year ago from this past saturday was the start to some scary a$$ sh*t..vases flying off walls,rooms being completely rearanged..yes i mean everything moved to a new place,moans & cries coming through the heat vents at night..oh yea scuri..but we got the house blessed and after about a month it stopped..
so we thought..
well like i said exactly 1 yr ago..we're siting in the living room and i hear a scream..i look over n my friend is sitting,pale as a ghost looking up..a shelf that has been on the wall since we moved in is in mid air oh yes i mean FLOATING..was there for about 30 seconds then crashed to the ground..well that night there was banging coming through the vents..then today i came home and my bed is soakin wet ..like not water..but a sticky liquid..enough to fill up half the bathtub..their was literally puddles..and it smelled like death..oh yea and even better my moms room was dry..however u culdnt walk into it and breathe at the same time b/c it smelled so strong like mens cologne
please some1 b serious when you answer this..im so not kidding about one single word i typed..i was just a little freaked out..but now im scared..especially after i saw it floating & the liquid..out nowhere..please any advice or if any1 has a paranormal story to share.. i just need a piece of mind..
Honestly, I highly suggest you move out of the house NOW. Don't wait until April. The house that I live in was supposidly where a little girl died. Of course the room she died in was MY room. The day before my family moved into our house (this was a couple months before I was born) My dad was shampooing all of the carpets getting everything ready for us to move in the next day. He was shampooing our living room rug which the windows in it face our front yard. He looked up and there was a little girl standing at the window waving to him. He turned off the shampooer, looked up again, but she wasn't at the window. He opened the front door and looked outside and there was no one to be seen. So he closed the door and finished shampooing and prepping the house for the move in the next day. When my family arrived the next day, my dad opened the garage entrace door which leads into our living room. He opened the door and he saw these little foot prints that seemed to have come from the window, down the stairs and out the door. That was the end of our hauntings but he could never tell my mom that or else we wouldn't be living here. But, you NEED to get out of that house. That is so messed up what you have to deal with. Move in with a nearby relative or someone for now. That is messed up. I Hope you're okay! Hope this helped.
Last week my sister was talking to this guy that I like and he also likes me back. She told him that I would go out with him if he just asked (which is true) and he was kind of sad and told her not until we are at the same school. So my question is, what do you think he means or why would he want to wait? He doesn't have a girlfriend right now if that helps. Thanks for your help.
He probably wants to see you often. The fact that you're aren't in the same school would annoy him not seeing you every day when he wants to. Also, he is probably the protective type and doesn't want other guys to be hanging around you. And being in the same school he'd be able to tell if they were and then scare them all off. He definately sounds like the overly protective type. Hope this helped.
im not sure if im pregnant.. my boyfriend and i had sex last week.. and we were protected and all.. and "nothing came out of him" (thats what he said).. i've been having tender breasts lately. i'm not sure if he's lying about nothing happening or whatever, but maybe i'm just overreacting? someone help me!
Having tender breasts is all part of puberty. When are you expecting your next period? Tender breasts, lower back aches, cramps, nausia are all signs of PMS. You need to calm down about it. Worrying about this will not make anything any better. Tell him that you want him to be honest about what happened. Did he finish or not while he was in you? Tell him that if he lied that he has to realize that there is a chance you could be pregnant. Also, it takes 5-8 days after you've had sex to tell if you're pregnant or not. Still worried? Go to the drug store and buy a test. You're probably just overreacting. Calm down, stress doesn't make your period come any faster.
i dont know if there is something wrong with me, but i'm 15/f and everday when i get home from school (i'm usually alone for about and hour) i completely pig out on tons of junk food. ie. those little debbie desserts, chips, licorice, etc. the rest of the time i eat normal stuff. i really like salad, and other healthy foods,but i cant stop this binging when i get home. i dont like throw it up or anything. but i have been getting really insecure about how i look. i m not fat, i am 5'6" and 107 lbs. but i don't know what is wrong with me. i am afraid i might get an eating disorder help!!
Sounds like someone has a wicked sweet tooth. I do the same thing as you. You're very thin and you won't end up with an eating disorder. But keep in mind, eventually your motabolism will slow down and you might start gaining extra pounds. It happens to the best of us. How could you be insecure about how you look? You're a perfect height and a pretty good weight. When you get home, just put the junkfood away. Buy fruits and veggies and snack on that. Tell your parents to hide the junk food. Hope this helped.
Everybody I've asked has said different things about it but when is the best time to have sex so you wont get pregnate, alot of people say to do it when your on your period because its less likely, is that true? thanks a ton!!
Who the hell said to have sex when you're on your period? What the hell were they thinking??? That is the nastiest thing I've ever heard. The best time to have sex is when you're done with your period or 18 days before your next period because then (supposidly) you are less fertile. If you are scared about getting pregnant, I'd really hope you and your boyfriend are using a condom? Condoms= less chance of getting pregnant. Always use a condom. Hope this helped.
me and my boyfriend have been going out for a week now an everyhting was cool the first 2 days but on the third day he called me and said that he was going to take shower then call me back but he never did, he still didnt call me yet what should i do next?
He's a guy. They don't remember shit. Call him back but don't ask "OMG WHY DIDN'T YOU CALL ME BACK LIKE YOU SAID?!?!?!" Guys hate clingy girls. Don't sit at the phone waiting for him to call you. Get up and do something, if he calls he calls, if he doesn't then who cares? You've only been with him for a week. So calm down. Hope this helped.
how old do you have to be to get your toung peirced in new york?
With parental consent I believe it's either 15 or 16. Without parental consent you must be 18 which is the legal age to do almost anything but drink. Hope this answered your question.
Hey people, I'm supposed to be doing a poll for the school paper. (it doesn't have to be school related, but it can be) what is a good idea for a poll?
Out of 5-6 certain candies which is your favorite. Favorite drink, color, TV reality show, subject, clothing store. Hope this helped.
Hello, I'm 16 years old and I'm female. Let me start off by saying I hate the phrase "Let's just be friends." My best friend is one of those types of people who's actions very easily deceive you. I love him so much, and it hurts so bad. We hold hands, hug all the time, even say "I love you". But he says that to everyone. It's so hard because I'm confusing platonic love with "real" love. I take his gestures seriously though, and I really do love him. I want to tell him how I feel, but I don't want to ruin our friendship. He likes someone else, but he is currently single. Should I even bother trying? Am I too young to even be thinking about love? What should I say to him? Thank you so much!
Too young to even be thinking about love? Are you crazy? Love is possible at ANY age. No matter how old you are, where you're from, race, religion, love is possible. It's worth a shot telling him how you feel. Just say ________ I like you alot, we've been friends for a while and I have to tell you this but I think I'm in love with you. I know you have feelings for someone else but all I'm asking for is a chance. Plain and simple tell him how you feel. It's hard to let those feelings out but once it's out in the open everything is fine between you guys.I Hope you feel better. I hate that phrase too... Hope this helped.
i'm a 17 yr old male that has a false reputation of being gay. i'm actually metrosexual and almost all the school assumes i'm gay. how can i show my peers that i'm straight without betraying who i am.
Oh God. You'd think that when people get older they become more mature and less dumb. God whoever thinks that needs to think again. I swear the whole "you're gay" thing is SO 5th grade. Honestly. Tell them to grow up. Tell them, "if you want to know if I'm really gay or not try shoving something in my ass and see how I like it, better yet shove something up your ass and I'm sure you'll like it" Flirt with girls more. One of my good friends is metrosexual. You don't have to prove anything to them, let them believe what they want. Be proud of who you are and don't let anyone bring you down. Fuck them. Hope this helped.