about

well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




advice

Ok, everyone and I mean EVERYONE says my b/f is bi. I don't really feel 'comfertable' going out with a bi person. My friends and other people like never shut up about it and it's really annoying. What should I do??

talk to him and ask him if he is or isnt.. thta is the only way you will find out the truth.. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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Is it right for a girl to ask a guy out? please answer..i rate!!

there isnt anything wrong with a girl asking a guy out..my best friend always asks guys out and she gets into a realtionship wit them.
*~Stephanie~*

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Okay people think that i stuff my bra when i really dont and then people are like oh i saw it but i really dont what should i do?
Signed,
Screw this
.P.S. I rate high

they r just jealous of you and you should just ignore them
*~Stephanie~*

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13/f
Okay well there's this guy I really like and I want him to be my boyfriend but the thing is that one of my friends likes him a lot too. So when I told her I liked him she made me promise that I wouldn't go out with him. I think it's kinda stupid for her to make me promise that so I told her that if he asked me out I was gonna say yes. But then she got mad at me and I think she told him that I liked him because he has been avoiding me ever since. I wanna talk to him about it but I haven't gotten a hold of him lately. And since he's avoiding me we aren't really hanging out. I'm really sad since I've liked him on and off the whole year. And I'm kind of jealous of my friend cuz he's been flirting with her a whole lot. So what do I do? Do I talk to him or her. . .Or both of them? Was it wrong for me to not promise I wouldn't go out with this guy since my friend liked him too?

i think you should talk to both of them.. and i dont think a "friend" would make you promise NOT to go out wit a guy you like.but any how you need to talk to her and find out what she said if she wont tell you then you need to ask him and find out what she said it isnt a good idea to jump to conclusions without knowing the truth.. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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hi.. okay well i like this guy ALOT! like i am in love with him and i would do anything for him and we r like good friends and we talk alot... but i no he would never like go out with me and he knows i like him and i really really like him so like wat should i do? thanks

this might be hard to do but like stay friends with the guy but just try to noy make it so obvious thta you like him.
*~Stephanie~*

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my friends ken and sarah really like each other. they just started dating yesterday. the problem is, she lives an hour away from our town. they both love each other so much, but she is having a few doubts about the long distance relationship. i think LDR's are hard and don't usually work out, but i think these two can pull it off with their love. what do you think they should do? if you need more info, please tell and i will give it.

-me

it can work out if both of them love each other. but they need to be able to trust eachother that the other wont cheat on other.
*~Stephanie~*

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Ok, this is how it is. Have 2 bestfriends at school; we have been friends 4ever. Anyway one of my friends {Lets call her Karla}found out that my other bf {Lets call her Tisha} was talking about her behind her back. It's very hard 4 me because everytime I talk to 1 of them the other 1 asks if she said anything about her. It's driving me nuts! I don't know if I can take it anymore. Anyway I've been friends with "Karla" longer than I have "Tisha". I've known "Karla" 4 about 8 years, and I've been friends with "Tisha" 4 about 2 years. I'm so confused and I cannot deal with it any longer. Anyway school is almost out, so maybe everything will get solved. {We only have 4 days left} But I really need help! Since there's only 4 days left I've been thinking of not talking 2 any of them? What should I do?

I RATE HIGH!

what you can do is comefront both them and be like you guys have been friends 4ever and you guys are letting one little problem break up your friendship. i am tired of getting stuck in the middle of both of you. i know deep down you guys still love each other. you guys need to solve the problem and work it out or otherwise i wont be none of ur guys best friends. they will think about it and they should go back being friends. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Ok so the last day of school is coming up and I dot no which outfit to wear??!!?

http://www.abercrombiekids.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?catalogId=10851&storeId=10101&parentCategoryId=12103&childCatgroupId=12151&categoryId=12151&productId=221862&langId=-1

or
http://www.gap.com/asp/Product.asp?wdid=402015&wpid=285763

Please Help!?!?!

i like the abercrombie one . that one is cuttier.
*~Stephanie~*

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alright so ive been dating this guy for 3 months and i dunno i keep wondering if hes doing things hes not supposed to like cheating on me maybe but i mean ive thought it out and im with him most of the time except for on wednesday nights when im at my dads and sundays when hes at church and if im not with him then i know what he is doing and he tells me he loves me every day so im just wondering do other girls suspect their boyfriends of cheating on them even though there isnt really any evidence proving it

yea most girls do. i do the same with my bf too. but what you ned to do is trust the guy and dont think about negative thoughts about him doing stuff with another girl. think about how much he loves you, how he can be having fun with his friends. things like that. hope this helpes.
*~Stephanie~*

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I have some minor acne on my face, its so really bad, but its on the back of my shoulders too. & its really irritating, I use that Clean & Clear stuff, but that dosen't seem to work to weel, & I had this percriptioned stuff that worked very well, but it ran out, & so I'm going back to the dermatologist soon. But what are the ways I can clear it up as fast as I can?

Thanks

14/M

i have learned dermatologist really dont help you. the give the medicaiton that is supposed to clear up ur acne but in the end it affects your body different places.. what you need to do is got to a place where u can get a facual and ask them what kind of medication they use. i went and got one and the medication she put on my face was a creame like lotion and it cleared up my acene realy good. or i heard pro active works really good. hope i helped you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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does anyone know a website were i can see the video to kelly clarckson's (sp) new song behind these hazel eyes for free

i know mtv.com and yahoo have it. and by the way kelly clacksons new music video and song are great
*~Stephanie~*

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My friend had sex on January 20th. Is it possible for her to be pregnant without any weight gain?

umm that was 4 months ago. if she has an signs of pregnance she would have known by now.
*~Stephanie~*

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Ok my boyfriend is the best guy i've ever met and well today or whenever he is hanging out with his friends or he calls me on the phone with his firend his friend always like well jokes around about like other girls and stuff.. and it also seems this one firend like he will never tell me stuff that he says are they hiding something from me..? or am i just getting a little jelous? and whats up wit them talking about girls should i break uo with him what should i do i really really love him
Help

if you love the guy dont break up with him because of his friends. if he is cheating on you or hidding something from then it will be his lose 4 looseing you. if i where you i would talk to him. communication is the best thing in a realtionship and so is trust. you shoudl trust him that he sint doing anything wrong. hope i helped you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Me and this guy (lets call him Joester haha) are friends with benifits. His friend told me that Joester wants to make out with me. Part of me wants to that way I could piss off my x-best friend and because Joester is really hott. But part of me doesn't want to because after making out you do gross stuff that truthfully I dont want to take part in. Am I over reacting please help I rate really high

your not over reacting ur just being cautions hich is a good thing. but the guy is hot then make out wit him!!!! and the gross stuff part well if it was 4 me if the guy was hot i wouldnt mind that part.lol.. but you DONT have to do anything you dont want to do.. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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I have Norton Anti-Virus and recently I decided to download AOL instant messenger because it is the best way to keep in touch with my GreatestJournal friends. I was signing in for the first time when a Norton Anti-Virus alert came up asking if I wanted to block the connection to AIM, I accidently clicked yes. Now I can't connect to AIM. I have tried uninstalling it and reinstalling it again but it still wont let me connect to it. I have looked through Norton to try and find an option to unblock it but I haven't found anything. Does anyone know how I can unblock AIM?

umm try uninstalling aim and downloading it again if that doesnt work try restoring your comoputer to the day that you installed aim. i used to have norton anti virus but i didnt block aim so i dont knwo about how to unblock it from nortin. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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I rele wanna get my belly button pierced but my mom won't let me, I just wanna see what it looks like adn how it feels. Can I peirce it myself, leave it in for 2 weeks, and then take out the piercing will my belly button close? thx

dont do it yourself so many things can go wrong.it will close up after 2 weeks and it isnt the best idea to do it urself because when you get professionally done they give u thi medication that you have to soak your belly button in so it WONT get infected.hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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okay i have a b/f and i really like him and all but then i like another guy (and i know its a *really* bad thing when you got a b/f) but i think he likes other girls too but i'm not for sure but he acts like it..but anyways this other guy i like is my ex..and i never have gotten totally over him and i think my ex is more my type than the guys i'm going out with right now i mean i love my b/f and all don't get me wrong but i don't know if i should dump my b/f or stay with him because of summer and all but my ex is moving soon and i'm really really gonna miss him and he likes me to and he was gonna ask me out:( and i don't know what to do i'm so lost..can someone help me out on what to do? cause they both like me and i don't know which one to choose..

well i cant choice for you because you will eb the person going ot wit them but you need to fallow your heart which ever you like better. if your ex is moving away then it might not be the best idea to go out wit him because then you will love him even more and tne it will eb harder for to let go.. you u need to find a way to get over ur ex completely... if he moves you can still be friends if you want but if you guys stay friends you feeling for him will sill be there...hope i helped you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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i am 13 and i want to have sex but like when it comes to that i get scared like i want to pratice with someone that wont laugh if i mess up ..... i love makeing out and i want some body that i can pratice with....it dosent matter guy or gurl i dont kno who to turn to

please help

if you are scared to have sex then you arent ready for it. i mean say if u get pregnant(i hope you dont right now) do you think you will be ready to take care of a baby? you cant really go wrong with haveing sex everyone does it differently.there really isnt a right or wrong way of doing it. hope i helped you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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i ahve only made out wiht a guy 1. i want to experminent wiht my best friend...im afarid that if i makeout wiht some guy it would be worng and he will laugh and i dont want that to happen...i just dont kno how to bring it up.....were both 13 and known each other for the longest time about 5years i dont kno what to do?

pleaz help ...ill rate high!

there isnt a wrong way to makeout with a guy..all you have to do is just go with the fallow just like ther other person said..but dont try to hard then it will make it obvious. hope i helped.
*~Stephanie~*

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i think i am way fat. everyone tells me i am skinny, but seirously, i am 5'3" and 112 pounds. my friends think that just cause i m going on a diet, i will be anorexic. help!!!!!!!!!!!!
i give high ratings

you arent fat. but if you want to go on a diet then just dont eat so much junk food eat healthy kinds of foods. hope i helped you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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