Me and this guy (lets call him Joester haha) are friends with benifits. His friend told me that Joester wants to make out with me. Part of me wants to that way I could piss off my x-best friend and because Joester is really hott. But part of me doesn't want to because after making out you do gross stuff that truthfully I dont want to take part in. Am I over reacting please help I rate really high<314/f
gakkuhideto answered Saturday June 4 2005, 11:09 pm: If you want to make out with him, do it. You don't have to do any "gross stuff", if he wants to just tell him no and if he continues pressuring you, beat him up and run. But pissing people off isn't really a good reason to make out with someone, neither is "because they are hott". But it's your life, your decision. [ gakkuhideto's advice column | Ask gakkuhideto A Question ]
SoInToYoUx0x answered Saturday June 4 2005, 10:13 pm: your not over reacting ur just being cautions hich is a good thing. but the guy is hot then make out wit him!!!! and the gross stuff part well if it was 4 me if the guy was hot i wouldnt mind that part.lol.. but you DONT have to do anything you dont want to do.. hope this helps.
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Cierra answered Saturday June 4 2005, 9:36 pm: no not really. but i would go for it! lol
iSpEaKsPaNiSh answered Saturday June 4 2005, 9:25 pm: how are you fwb if you are afraid to make out with him? isn't that what fwb do? i personally don't think those kind of relationships are good ideas at all..but do what you want. what do you mean by "gross stuff"? you don't have to do anything you don't want to do. [ iSpEaKsPaNiSh's advice column | Ask iSpEaKsPaNiSh A Question ]
BrUnEtTe1431 answered Saturday June 4 2005, 9:16 pm: I don't think you're over reacting. YOu should have to do anything you don't want to. If he's hot, I say you make-out with him. But if you don't want to go further, tell him you don't. Hope I helped :)
Mackenzie answered Saturday June 4 2005, 9:14 pm: How aRe you and "JoesteR" "fRiends with benefits" when you aRe afRaid to kiss him?? Do you guys just SKIP the bullshit, and just get STRAIGHT TO THE POINT, if ya know what I mean?? ;D ;D ;D And whetheR oR not kissing is "gRoss stuff" is all a matteR of opinion of WHOM you ask. I'd assume that MOST people will tell you that they don't see it that way, but SOME WILL. PeRsonally, I don't like to kiss... so my patteRn is getting STRAIGHT TO THE POINT. ;D ;D ;D
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