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i am 13 and i want to have sex but like when it comes to that i get scared like i want to pratice with someone that wont laugh if i mess up ..... i love makeing out and i want some body that i can pratice with....it dosent matter guy or gurl<<im not les>> i dont kno who to turn to
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at 13, if u tell someone that u had sex theyll prolly laugh at you...it wont impress them. practice? first time ive heard that one. sorry but your not informed enough to make a decision like that. as for messing up, theyre supposed to love you if your sleeping with them...
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sex isn't something you should just go around practicing. when the time comes, it will happen. if the guy knows it is your first time he won't care, and i mean you really can't mess up.
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look your feelings and emotions will change all the time your only 13 so having sex at your age is ileagal hope you realize that i no most people not all people do it at that age anyway but you have all the time in the world dont just do it cause you feel like it and your horny you should be able to trust the person and i think you should at least be in a relationship with them its not your falt your scared everyone gets scared on there first time but dont be pressured and that its what you want make sure he wears protection and you should aswell either the pill or cap or femidom or something go to your gp or a clinic you dont wana end up pregnent at 13 and you dont wana catch anything either
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Do you want to have a baby too? Don't have sex until you know how to prevent preganacies and sexually transmitted diseases, and willing to take those steps. Until then masturbate.
Michele
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Your only 13! the only thing 13 year olds should be worrying about is school/friends/and what the lunch lady just put on your plate, not about sex!no matter how mature you say you may be a 13 year old is never ready for sex. your not emotionally ready, or physically ready, or mentally ready. You say you may be, but once it happens things are going to go through your mind and things will happen. Its not good for a 13 year old to have sex. Nor is it safe. Have you even thought about pregnancy or std's? they can both ruin and change your life for ever. your obviously not ready to handle everything that comes with a sexual relationship if your scared. Do you really want your first time you have sex to be with a guy you didnt love, just because you wanted to practice? you should wait until your older and more mature and can handle that type of thing, and until you find someone you love that loves you. As for the Kissing thing, expiermenting (sp) is fine, Maybe do it on a dare, have a party with friends and play truth or dare. do it that way. its easier and you dont have to worry about messing up, its only a dare. please re think the whole sex thing. I hope I Helped
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if you are scared to have sex then you arent ready for it. i mean say if u get pregnant(i hope you dont right now) do you think you will be ready to take care of a baby? you cant really go wrong with haveing sex everyone does it differently.there really isnt a right or wrong way of doing it. hope i helped you out.
*~Stephanie~*
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1. You are too young for sex. 2. If you get scared then you are defenetlly not ready! Just wait for you turn and when you are ready you will know. Have you even made out before? If you havent then how do you love it? Seriously, you cant mess up unless you are trying way to hard. Its not even that hard just go along with it. L0L. If you make out with a girl its okay, it doesnt mean that you are lesbian so go for it. Make out on a dare or something. ♥
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