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i'm trying to find a place that sells the little balls on the ends of liprings. i want to buy some for my friend for christmas. They need to be a 16 gauge and they need to come with two of each color since the lipring that he wears has two balls on each end.

so basically my question is does anybody know of a place where i can buy a big pack (perferably mulit-colored) lip ring balls that are a size 16 gauge? and that comes with two of each color?

thanks! :]

Claire's or Icing hehe and their pretty cheap :]]

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14/f

Okay so this is the dealio.
I like this guy named Steven alot, and one day he told me he liked me too. so then i asked him if he wanted to give it a chance an he totally changed the subject to my socks!!!! i don't want to put pressure on him about going out but i just don't know what to do. and also i asked one of my best friends to like tell me a little about him since she knows him very well and she said he has never had a girlfriend and is the kind of guy that likes to hang out with guys and just have little crushes on girls.
so now that i know i am dealing with a major little boy, but i still like him alot
what do i do?

hmmm..ok well i think maybe steven just wants to try to get to know you a little better before you guys start a relatioship...since he never has had a girlfriend before hes obviously really nervose..but dont pressure him too much because thats gonna make him even more nervose around you..hope i helped..good luck deff. keep me updated :]]

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okay well, honestly, im seriously thinking aobut killing myself. my life is horrible. i swear half of the world hates me. i have the absolute worst life that anyone could ever live. i dont want to kill myself but its the only way everyone will stop being rude and making fun of me and everyone will be happy if i am dead. i know that i need to talk to someone about it but i just cant. please help me.

Okay no matter what you do..dont kill your self i kno sometimes it seems like you dont want to live anymore but no matter what things will always get better..even if they get worse first..if you need someone to talk to i'm here for you...always..you think everyone would be happy if you were dead but there are poeple who would be really crushed..deff. keep me updated..i really hope i helped

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Okay
ive liked this guy since summer but hes just started to get to know me. I danced with him at this party over the weekend and my friends keep on trying to figure out if he likes me but he always says that hes not looking for a relationship. the thing is, before he found out that i liked him he always flirted with me. I dont know what to do because i like him so much but i cant do anything about it. I know it sounds like he really doesnt want a girlfriend but he has this best friend 2 provinces away (Its a girl) and he said something about this girl he might like. So i dont know. what should i do?

Okay well i think this guy probally had a little thing for you and like to flirt with you but didnt really think much of it but then when he found out that you really liked him..he might not have felt as strong or maybe he just wasnt ready to start a relationship with you..If i were you i would try to become better friends with him first..still flirt and then maybe once he gets to know you a little better and your relationship gets stronger he'll be ready to start a real relationship..hope everything works out for you :]] keep me updated....bailey

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Ok well me and my friend Nick have been going out for ever and i realllyyy like him, and well hes broken up with me twice for other girls, and about 3 weeks ago he broke up with me for this girl named brook, and so me and my friend derick started talking alot and we started to realllyy like eachother and i went to one of his wrestling meets and we kissed and stuff and that night nick wrote me a 2 page note about how he feels and how he broke up with brooke for me, and i didn't know what to do because i knew nick was gonna ask me out and derick really wanted to ask me out but his best friend likes me, so he didn't know if he should, but i realllyy like derick and then nick asked me out and i felt really pressured so i just said yes and now im missing every thing me and derick used to do and i tihnk a made the wrong decision, but i dont know what to do because nick is like IN LOVE with me but i kno he will probably break my heart again like hes done in the past but i would feel bad for breaking up with him sense its only been like 3 or 4 days....HELP!

heyy haley ward..uhm i already told you what to do but i felt like commenting haha yea soo i think you should go out with nick still because then we can dbl and it would be like awsome..bestfriends going out with bestfriends hehe but then again derick is suuuper hott so i dont kno haha yea but good luck!! i love you!! call me later..byee

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im male
16 years old
ok well me and my girlfriend have been together for like a few weeks now and we started out going really fast like making out in my bed and stuff and like all of a sudden she wont let me kiss her goodbye or ne thing ans she sais she wants to slow down is this like a sign she wants to break up with me or sumthin yea i know im a guy and this is prob a stupid question but yea

okay ive done the same thing with my boyfriend..in the beggining we went really fast and i started to get board with the relationship because we didnt really talk we would just makeout when we hungout or even at school..i didnt really realise that we had been going too fast until i was already a couple weeks into the relationship when i realised that i didnt know much about my boyfriend..i think your girlfriend is probally scared that if you guys keep going so fast you might get board with eachother or maybe even go too far and end up messing things up..idk hope i helped...keep me updated :]]

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why do you like your boyfriend?(weird question i know)

i like my boyfriend because i can tell him anything..we can talk on the phone about pretty much nothing for hours..he knows everything about me and knows when to talk about something and when to just leave me alone..im always happy when im around him..uhmm..yea

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Hey everybody. My problem is this: I'm so sick of being shy.It's ruining my life! I know some people say to just be yourself, but its very hard for me to do that. How do I just let loose? It seems so easy for people to just be themself. If you don't mind sharing with me, how do you do that?? Thanks. Any advice is appreciated. :)

Okay well i have been in the same situation. I used to be horrified to talk to guys...Now i have a ton of guy friends. What really helped me was i would get the guys i kind of wanted to meet and become friends with screen name from friends. I would add them..start talking to them online and online i wouldnt be as shy. So we would talk about stupid stuff and make up little silly inside jokes. So then when i did feel comfortable enough with them i would just go up to them in the halls and we would have things to talk about like if we made up silly nicknames or something i would just like bring it up..im not sure if this is your problem but i hope i helped...keep me updated!! Hope everything works out just try to be confident :]]

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