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caught between 2 guys
Ok well me and my friend Nick have been going out for ever and i realllyyy like him, and well hes broken up with me twice for other girls, and about 3 weeks ago he broke up with me for this girl named brook, and so me and my friend derick started talking alot and we started to realllyy like eachother and i went to one of his wrestling meets and we kissed and stuff and that night nick wrote me a 2 page note about how he feels and how he broke up with brooke for me, and i didn't know what to do because i knew nick was gonna ask me out and derick really wanted to ask me out but his best friend likes me, so he didn't know if he should, but i realllyy like derick and then nick asked me out and i felt really pressured so i just said yes and now im missing every thing me and derick used to do and i tihnk a made the wrong decision, but i dont know what to do because nick is like IN LOVE with me but i kno he will probably break my heart again like hes done in the past but i would feel bad for breaking up with him sense its only been like 3 or 4 days....HELP!
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heyy haley ward..uhm i already told you what to do but i felt like commenting haha yea soo i think you should go out with nick still because then we can dbl and it would be like awsome..bestfriends going out with bestfriends hehe but then again derick is suuuper hott so i dont kno haha yea but good luck!! i love you!! call me later..byee
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If Nick really cared about you he wouldn't repeatedly leave you for other girls. He is using you. He goes back to you in between his other relationships because he knows you will take him back. My advice to you - NEVER DATE THIS JERK AGAIN!
You need to have some respect for yourself. He is lying to you. He doesn't care about you at all. Don't waste your time or your heart on him. He'll just keep leaving you over and over. You can do so much better than him. :)
Good luck.
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Maybe you should write down all the right reasons to get with Derick and all of the wrong resons, then do that for Nick read them and compare them that might help you make your decision and if you feel that they don't really make since then you should stay single for a while and see how it feels.
Hope this helps =D
~Briana~
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The worst thing you can do to yourself is deny your feelings. Think about the way you feel about both guys, then pick the one you have stronger feelings for. If it means breaking up with your current boyfriend, be gentle and polite. Tell him how you feel about the other guy, and why you're breaking up, and why you started going with him in the first place. Try not to feel too sorry for him, though, or else it could effect your relationship the new guy, then you two might break up. Once you break up with your current boyfriend, if you have to, put it out of mind, and try not to think about it so much.
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I think you should just leave nick dont try to break his heart tell him in a nice calm way. he has broken your heart so many times that you should just go for derick. and if he doesnt work just be single and have fun and sooner or later you'll find the right guy.
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