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I found out today that guys dont like talkative girls. The radio had a disucussion on it, and my class had a discussion on it too. Guys find that "unattrcative" in some cases. I talk alot, im known for that. I dont want to change the person i am to impress guys, but im hearing that guys really dont like that. I have heared it before and im still hearing it. I dont know what to do, i dont like being quiet, i have the larger then life personality. What should I do? Thanks :) (link)
you should just be yourself. and ofcouse some guys will like you, and others will not. sometimes the radio says those things to just entertain people. pretty much like how gossip entertains people. so just be yourself. and a true guy will like you for you. not just what the radio is saying.


when people write 3 what does that mean? (link)
it means a side ways heart. (:


on the previews for the new show 'Greek' theres a song being played by plain white t's. does anyone know what it is? all i hear playing is oh oh oh oh oh... (link)
it's hey there delilah


ok on the pets one can you still have kids? like toddlers and teenagers? and can you "woo hoo"?



haha i know wierd question!

thx! (link)
Yes, i have that game and i still can have kids. it just takes time though...like how girls get pregant it takes time. because of it being an expantion pack it has every thing that you could do from the regular sims 2. The pets can have puppies and kittens too.
hope i helped!
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I am very scared of skin cancer - but I do go tanning in a tanning salon. I live in a very cold part of the U.S. and I look very bad without a tan. Also, creams and spray tans just make me look orange. Is going to the tanning bed 5 or 6 times a year going to give me skin cancer? How can I protect myself when going to a tanning bed? Can I wear sunscreen or something with SPF in it? (link)
Tanning for sure can get you skin cancer. You should stick with the creams and sprays but not so much, people will understand that you arent that tan because you live in a cold part of the u.s. Sometimes suncreen doesnt help it only helps a little. You shouldnt try to take the risk by doing that.


this might sound stupid, but is there really any difference between running on a tredmill and running outside or something?? since its winter, it's so much easier running on my tredmill. what are the differences??

thanks!! (link)
It is the same with running on a tredmill and running outside other than the heat or coldness.


I went to an audition yesturday and they said that i had potential. They want me join their academy for 9 months of acting then they say that ill be ready. I am so confused. After all this is my lifetime dream that no one knows...Do i do it? I mean i have no support, not my mom, nor my dad, but somehow i still believe and dream. I am sooo confused...wat do i do? (link)
In my opinion i think that you should do it after all it is your life time dream. You should talk to your pparents and tell them how important this is to you. Show them what you can do, so you they know how much you want it. Then sooner or later it will get into their minds and they'll give you support.


sarah goes through these phases. one minute she'll be like OMG BFF Love you so much, then the next she'll kinda ignore me. it's soooooooooo annoying! for ex. i did somethin really nice by takin her, me and her other closest friends to the poconos this weekend to celebrate her birthdya which was on friday. all durin the trip she was= like really good, but then when we got back saturday night, she started like bein weird. its hard to explain.

i dont know why she does this but im really sick of it. wat should i do? i dont think i can talk to her. (link)
try to talk to her and tell her how you feel about her doing that. and if it keeps on going on then you dont need a friend like that... thats not a true friend. that has happened to me too. but you just have to pull through it.


My parents are overprotective. They won't let me go places when there are gonna be boys there. My brother, however, has a girlfirend and he can go anywhere with him (he's going to be 16 later this month.) I am 14- and when he was 14, he was able to do stuff. Any advice to say to them? HELP PLEASE...:'(

-Jam (link)
your parents are just being over protective because youi are the youngest child (we think) and usually the youngest child is the one that gets watched over the most. but you have to stand up for yourself talk to your parents in a nice calm way though, dont fight with them. That would make them mad and then you would not be able to do anything. tell your parents that you would not do anything your not supposed to, take a cellphone and have them check up on you every 1 1/2 or so. but most of all you have to show them you are responsible or they wont let you do anything. Hope we helped you. leave me a comment to see if you are allowed to go anywhere boys go.


I'm not good with matching clothes.

How do you make layers look good?
I've tried doing it.. and it looks out of place.

Are there certain colors to wear together and everything?

I want a more mature look. I'm 16 and I dress all comfy. (like t-shirt & sweatpants) I want to look good, you know? (link)
first of all to match clothes dont put (example two greens together if they are not the same shade). only put clothes together if the top is (example light pink and one color/solid and the bottoms are dark pink and one color/solid). and to dress more conservative look for slaques and a nice blouse. or you could just go to a store like areopostale etc. or even wal-mart etc. and find a ncie pair of jeans and a nice top. dont wear sweats everyday only if you feel tired or you are in a sport.


Ok well me and my friend Nick have been going out for ever and i realllyyy like him, and well hes broken up with me twice for other girls, and about 3 weeks ago he broke up with me for this girl named brook, and so me and my friend derick started talking alot and we started to realllyy like eachother and i went to one of his wrestling meets and we kissed and stuff and that night nick wrote me a 2 page note about how he feels and how he broke up with brooke for me, and i didn't know what to do because i knew nick was gonna ask me out and derick really wanted to ask me out but his best friend likes me, so he didn't know if he should, but i realllyy like derick and then nick asked me out and i felt really pressured so i just said yes and now im missing every thing me and derick used to do and i tihnk a made the wrong decision, but i dont know what to do because nick is like IN LOVE with me but i kno he will probably break my heart again like hes done in the past but i would feel bad for breaking up with him sense its only been like 3 or 4 days....HELP! (link)
I think you should just leave nick dont try to break his heart tell him in a nice calm way. he has broken your heart so many times that you should just go for derick. and if he doesnt work just be single and have fun and sooner or later you'll find the right guy.


I've thought a lot about death lately, and have found myself very freaked out about what it would be like to not exist and that this is my only life. Dying and being nothing and not even knowing for forever scares me a lot.


Any advice or reassurance would be nice. Anything concerning Jesus will automatically get your question rated a 1 and your face ripped off. (link)
well nobody knows what is in the afterlife when your dead. but you shouldnt worry about that you should just worry about your life right now because since it is the only one you have you should just have fun and enjoy it.


i shave my vagina and bikini line of course. but it always bleeds and i get terrible razor burn right after.

am i doing it right?
help. (link)
well that happens to me i found out not to shave really hard. It also helps to shave with shampoo/conditioner/bodywash on it too. but other than taht your doing it right.


16/m
I'm so sick of being alive. Everything is so hard. I can't stand it. It's like I'm doing something wrong. I have few friends, but it doesn't matter because I don't like them. I don't like any one. People don't meet my standards and they never will. And when it comes to girls I have no idea what I'm doing. It's like there's some secret technique that every one but me seems to understand. My problems with girls contribute the most to my loneliness and depression. I'm unmotivated in school, because I care more about trying to find a place I belong, trying to find some one who understands me. I can hardly sleep because I'm always worrying about all this. I'm scared I'll never have friends. I'm scared I'll never have a good job. I'm scared I'll never have my first kiss or have sex, and if I do it will be with some one I don't want to do it with. Somewhere between now and the next few years I 100% sure I'll be dead. I can't take it anymore. I've been to therapy and they even locked me up like a criminal in a mental health ward, but to no avail. I hate life. I hate myself. I hate every one, especially if they're happy. I don't see things ever getting better. Please help me. And don't post anything about God, Jesus, or religion of any kind, it will be an automatic 1 on your rating. (link)
im sorry about how your life is going right now but thats no reason to kill yourself. You might not fit in yet but sooner or later you'll find the right group and then you'll be glad that you didn't give up. I, myself had my own ups and downs and sometimes it doesnt help to talk to someone or it does help but you have to understand that life is ruff you just have to pull through it. Plus you would never believe if you would kill yourself how many people woul be sorry for you they wouldnt know what they would do with themselves. Mostly what you have to know is who cares about you and don't want anything bad to happen to you. You are probably a talented kid with dreams ahead of you. So don't turn back now live your life and enjoy it.


ive been getting fat lately. basicaly i got a beerbelly and since i am a young woman it doesnt look right. becuase im tall and skinny . so my question is..would the ab roller (http://www.vitaminbungalow.com/prod_images_large/abroller1.gif) work more effectively for my stomach muscles than doing crunches? becuase i was going to get it for x-mas. but if it doesnt work..you know. my friend who has rock hard abs is my inspiration. :D
thanks! (link)
well what my dad did to get rid of his beerbelly was first he stopped drinking...not fully but not everyday like 1 a week. ANd he also took whats and just did normal stuff like that for excersize.
but an ab workout really works if you do it 30 mins a day.


Can ya'll help me to find the best ways to ask our a guy. I've never asked one out b4..so idk! please help!! (link)
well what you can do is find out the signs, first you have to see if he keeps looking at you in a funny-good kind of way. You can ask some of his guy friends to make him tell who he likes so they can tell you. then when the time is right you ask him out you can do that by asking your friends to do it for you or a note, or asking him out face to face.


Whats the best way to lose weight? I'm 13, 5'0 and 135 lbs. (link)
The best ways to lose weight is to join a sport like track or soccer. Or you could just go to a gym near you,or jog around town.


well i do indoor track and i've always been fast. but it seems like girls always seem to get infront of me. i was wondering if anyone had good ideas and advice on what shoes i should wear, like flats? i heard they really help. and like what brand and where i could find them.

also, if anyone has any tips of how i should run and use my arms. any input would be great! (link)
well the best shoes that i know of to run in are nikes but they should fit comfortable and not come off your foot....that can sometimes slow you down. You can find them at your local famous footwear too.


The best way not to have cramps when you run is to breath in through your nose then out of your mouth.




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