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I'm shy (but I don't want to be!)
Hey everybody. My problem is this: I'm so sick of being shy.It's ruining my life! I know some people say to just be yourself, but its very hard for me to do that. How do I just let loose? It seems so easy for people to just be themself. If you don't mind sharing with me, how do you do that?? Thanks. Any advice is appreciated. :)
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Okay well i have been in the same situation. I used to be horrified to talk to guys...Now i have a ton of guy friends. What really helped me was i would get the guys i kind of wanted to meet and become friends with screen name from friends. I would add them..start talking to them online and online i wouldnt be as shy. So we would talk about stupid stuff and make up little silly inside jokes. So then when i did feel comfortable enough with them i would just go up to them in the halls and we would have things to talk about like if we made up silly nicknames or something i would just like bring it up..im not sure if this is your problem but i hope i helped...keep me updated!! Hope everything works out just try to be confident :]]
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If anxiety is your problem, try seeing a therapist and/or going on anti-anxiety medicines. There are medicines and alternative therapies that can help you relax.
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