I have been through a lot and love to hear from people who have questions or problems. I feel that I can help, or at least I will listen to your troubles. Also, I can put myself into other people's shoes very easily. (One size fits all!)
E-mail: gnosticjewls@yahoo.com
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Location: Philadelphia
Occupation: Preschool Teacher
Age: 27
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ok i no theres like a zillon ocd posts but i really need help with this.
i think i have ocd i have to count everything and touch everything 5 times until its perfect and i think if i dont touch it i will die. i no this is stupid and yaa and like if my shoes arnt right i have to fix them, but my mom doesnt believe that i had ocd shes like if you did then the teachers or the doctor would of pointed it out. what do i do? (link)
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You know your body and mind best. First of all, teachers and doctors aren't specifically trained to look for OCD, and if it is something that you do in your head, rather than aloud, nobody would have an idea what you're doing. Tell your mom to take you seriously and maybe see a therapist for help. See a therapist that is trained in that field. It is more common than you could ever imagine.
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I know this sounds incredibly stupid, but I am terrified of spiders! Everytime I see one near me, or even up in the wall in my room, I freak. I know this is considered a phobia, but as far as illnesses go...? I feel like when I see one they're on me all over and I have to get it off. Is there anything I can do about this? (link)
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Phobias can be very serious, enough to disrupt your life. There is a therapy known as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. Do a google search on it and you may think that this is something that you want to try.
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Hey everybody. My problem is this: I'm so sick of being shy.It's ruining my life! I know some people say to just be yourself, but its very hard for me to do that. How do I just let loose? It seems so easy for people to just be themself. If you don't mind sharing with me, how do you do that?? Thanks. Any advice is appreciated. :) (link)
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If anxiety is your problem, try seeing a therapist and/or going on anti-anxiety medicines. There are medicines and alternative therapies that can help you relax.
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I have had what seems like a blister, sore,boil on my labia. It hasn't really gotten any worse. It hasn't really drained or crusted or anything like that. Doesn't even itch. It's only sore now cause i tried to pop it. Any idea what this is? It showed up right after my mestral cycle. Please help. I don't have insurance so i can't go to the doctor and i am not sure what to do. I'm freaking out cause it could be a STD, but it's not following the symptoms of herpes.
Thanks (link)
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This sounds like a common type of acne that occurs right after or before your period. It is just like regular acne and can be painful and itch. Herpes is extremely painful and can bleed and crust over. There are also several blisters if you have herpes, not just one or two. Leave it alone or get vagisil powder to absorb the excess moisture of that area (it is a breeding ground for bacteria). Messing with it could aggravate it.
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what's roleplay? (link)
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Role play is when you and/or your partner play the role of a fantasy character. For example, you may dress up as a sexy cop or something. Some people are excited by these things.
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ive heard some people say that you may not even relize that your hymen has been popped, is that true? or .. yeah idk and another question, does it always hurt when it gets popped by tampon,sex etc.?
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The first time I had sex, it didn't hurt as much as I expected and I DIDN'T bleed at all. Your hymen can be broken in a number of ways and you may not realize it.
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What are the positives and the negative to masturbating...? I always wanted to know (link)
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In my opinion, there are no negative aspects on masturbating. It is a natural human act that mostly everyone does. If you are having religious convictions, this will be a matter that you will have to decide on your own.
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I'm pretty sure that I have both of these two things stated in the title. I'm friendly with people I know, but totally ignore any other people I don't. Sometimes people think I'm very arrogant because I don't talk to anyone. I act so confident when I don't talk, because I'm trying to hide my extreme social shyness. This has really prevented me from doing things I want to do, and I avoid most social situations with a guy I like. I wish I could talk or even smile around my crush! You could say I'm painfully shy, I feel like I'm under attack and it's the most uncomfortable thing.
I've heard of a few self help books to help cure this, such as 'Painfully Shy' and 'Dying of Embarrassment'. If anyone has gone through this, what books do you recommend I read to help me?
P.S. I'm not looking for any advice right now such as 'be happier, think positive, and smile', because such things haven't working in the past.
Thanks so much!
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I have the same issue, try seeing a therapist who will be willing to give you medicine and/or alternative therapies. There are anti-anxiety medicines that may help you, also, cognitive behavioral therapy deals with these problems. Don't give up.
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ok, this might seem like a weird question. But I just told my mum about this problem i'm having and she got really worried and told me i have to stop at once. it got me a bit freaked that i might have some mental problem or something, my mum just said so...
So, here's the problem: Every single thing i read and every single word i look at i have to read backwards. My mind just tells me to read it backwards and i can't stop. No matter how hard i try i can't stop myself. I know, I know, this is probably really stupid, but just thought id ask.
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It still sounds like dyslexia to me, there are different forms, not all dyslexics have trouble spelling. Get it checked out.
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I am bulimic. Does God hate me for it?
It's a sin. (link)
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It is my belief that "God" and "hate" do not belong in the same sentence. Certainly God wouldn't want you to hurt yourself and to get help, but no, He/She (whatever your belief is) doesn't hate you. It sounds like you hate yourself and I pray that you get help before you do some real damage. Seek a professional who deals with those issues. People love you;)
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if you have a UTI how long would you experience it for? i mean i've been having some symptoms like that for about 2 weeks so..i don't know if i would have one or not? and if i do how long do i have to get medicine for or what do i need to do? (link)
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I used to get these very often. Honestly, the best thing to do is drink cranberry juice. Not the kind you get with sugar and preservatives, but natural cranberry juice, with no sugar. It is bitter and gross, but works like a charm. If you let it go too long, it can spread to your kidneys and become serious, then you should see a doctor who will probably put you on antibiotics for however long it will take. (depending on how serious the infection is). It usually does NOT go away on its own. It will only worsen.
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has anybody ever used bioskincare? is it worth the money? (link)
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I just purchased this about 7 months ago for keloid scars and acne, it didn't do a damn thing. For me, it was just another scam. You'd probably be better off seeing a dermatologist. Sorry to be a damper. Good luck finding a better product.
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Um I'm super shy around everyone and everything. My face just automatically turns red and my voice gets shakey when I read outloud or even when attention focusses on me for one minute when I answer a question in class. And when I talk to anyone(girl or boy or even teacher) for more than 2 minutes my face gets red and my voice gets shakey. If I stay in front of the class for a long period then I feel like fainting (I was so close one time too..). This is like something serious it isn't like one of those things when people say your just shy because this is like EXTREME!
Is this some medical condition I should be worrying about? (link)
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Hey there, I have the same problem. I don't think it's anything to worry about medically, it sounds like anxiety. It can make you socially suffer, and really limit what you can get out of life. There is help out there. You can go to a therapist that deals with anxieties (it sounds as if you have social anxiety disorder, do a google search and you'll find tons of information) or go on medicines or other alternative therapies that may be helpful.
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Everytime im sad !!I cut myself !Everytime is stress I cut myself!!everytime I feel bad about something I do it! is that really bad?cause when I do it I feel much better!!like all my problems dissapear!but I have many marks and thats the only thing I dont like!And some of my friend find out and now they are always calling me things!!I been a cutter since 3 years now!my mom saw some of the marks and cuz im a little bit o f a tomboy I told her I got them playing soccer!and volleyball! (link)
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This is more common than you probably realize, and more serious. Depression is very real and can lead to suicide. Cutting yourself, causing yourself pain is not normal and you need to find another outlet for your feelings. Try seeing a therapist who specializes in that area. There are medicines out there and other therapies that can help you. Please, stop hurting yourself, you don't want to be left with scars or worse; you could end up really hurting yourself. Get professional help. Take care.
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hi i was wondering im 13 and i have acne..does it go away when you get older? If it does what age does it stop growing and go away?
Thanks!
I greatly appreciate it! (link)
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There are many causes of acne, hormone inbalances, stress, diet and hereditary factors. For some people it clears with age, for others, including myself, it stays and can even worsen. I have tried everything and the thing that works best for me is Proactiv Solution. It is expensive but I feel it is worth the price. Do a google search and you'll find out some information on it.
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for some reason there are days where i wanna sleep all day. i could have slept all threw the night and at school and when i get home i want to pass right out. i dont really do any thing thats strenious like sports, so i dont kno why im always tired.
whats rong wiht me ? (link)
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There are many reasons why people get tired, namely deficiencies, hormone inbalances, heavy periods (anemia), viral infections and other more serious causes, such as cancer and heart problems (which is worse case scenario). There is also what is called Chronic Fatigue syndrome and/or Fibromyalgia, which I have, that can cause extreme fatigue. First, I would set up an appointment to get your regular blood work done. It very well may be something much more simpler.
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hi jewels,
thanx.. I hope he does contact me soon.. if he loves me as much as he says he does..he shud be able to contact me... if anything happens or not i'll keep u posted. thanx for being there for me..
-SS (link)
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Sounds like a plan. Please do keep me posted, I am interested to see what happens. Be strong;)
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This is my 16th day on my period. Last month it lasted 14 days, and before that it was seven. I've had my period for a year and a half and I'm thirteen years old. I know that normal periods should last between 3-7 days, & mine has lasted 16 days. What could be wrong with me and what could I do? If I tell my mom she will probably make me go to the gynocologist, what will the gynocologist do?!
Thank you, and please help me .. i'm really scared. (link)
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Hi there, this is not normal and can be serious. You are probably already anemic (loss of blood) and really need to get checked out. Have your mom take you to a female gyno (as that is most comfortable for women) and she will give you an exam. I will give specific details for the exam: You will get undressed, obviously, put on a paper robe, lay down on a bed and stick your feet in the staps on the sides of the bed. I won't lie to you, it is really awkward because your legs are wide open. Next, the doctor will push on your stomache to feel for abnormalities (such as cysts) and feel around inside of you with her other hand. They may also give you a pap test, which they insert a medal clamp inside of you and swab the inside with a q-tip and test the contents. (It sounds scarier than it actually is). The best way to deal with this is to understand that the doctors are trained in doing this, they now how you feel and try to make you comfortable. You should never let the awkwardness stop you from going to the gyno, because many problems can be detected and treated early. The examination is normally quick and pain free. If your exam is normal, she may order further tests such as cat scans or ultra sounds to check out what is causing the problem. If you are anemic, and I guarantee that you are if you have been bleeding for so long, your doctor may want to put you on iron pills. Good luck.
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HI, quick question. I have tried contacting him today in the morning but I got no response and yesterday I sent him a vmail saying I called to say hi. give me a call later today when you are free. and I didnt hear from him. so today in the morning I called around 7:04 to be exact and I sent him a txt msg about meeting up etc.. I dont want to bombard him with phone calls either.. Tell me what shall I do? shud I forget about him or shud I try other ways to persue him. Im soo confused and depressed.. I really like him alot.. (link)
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I would let him be the one to contact you for now. Again, if he loves you, he will return your calls/texts and try to set up a meeting or resolution. If you try to hard to please him, you might set yourself up for a long road of disappointments, as he may feel like you will do all of the work. So, I wouldn't give up right this second, but if he doesn't call you or contact you soon, I would forget it. Don't be depressed over it, you will be okay:)
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So I'm a 17 year old guy and I'm a senior in High School. I also have a good number of friends. I've never been to a party before, or even a party with alochol. Most kids at my school have been to those kinds of parties, and I just feel left out and "Un-cool". Is it bad that I've never been to that kind of party, cuz I feel really stupid and anti-social and I feel that If I don't go to one I'll be hated by the people I like or looked bad apon.
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ant thoughts..??? (link)
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Next time you feel stupid about choosing not to go to a party where underage drinking takes place, think about the teens that die or kill innocent people while drinking and driving. Think about being drunk and getting a girl pregnant and having to raise a child. Think about getting arrested and having that on your record before you even had the chance to graduate. People do some crazy things when they drink alcohol, believe me, the next morning when you are nursing a hang over, you are anything but cool! If anyone tries to tell you otherwise, or make you feel inferior to them, they are NOT your friends and you don't need them. Keep making wise decisions, it will pay off. Take care.
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