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Parties?


Question Posted Friday December 8 2006, 4:56 pm

So I'm a 17 year old guy and I'm a senior in High School. I also have a good number of friends. I've never been to a party before, or even a party with alochol. Most kids at my school have been to those kinds of parties, and I just feel left out and "Un-cool". Is it bad that I've never been to that kind of party, cuz I feel really stupid and anti-social and I feel that If I don't go to one I'll be hated by the people I like or looked bad apon.

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dimond_holmes answered Wednesday December 13 2006, 6:57 pm:
I dont think you should go to the party you dont want to get involved in that kind of stuff.Trust me take it from some one thats went thought it, it's not good and one thing leads to another.I no alot of people who had said they wish they could go back to when the wern't soming and wern't dranking so they could just get up they stops and not run out of breath.Even I have said it but it's to hard to Quit.So I dont think you should follow in what other people are diong.Hope I helped you in some way I dont want to hear about you on the news.

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kimberlygal answered Friday December 8 2006, 10:09 pm:
DON'T GO TO THAT PARTY!!!!! YOU COULD GET DRUNK AND ARRESTED OR GET IN A CAR ACCIDENT!! YOU WILL DISAPOINT YOUR PARENTS!! DO NOT WORRY ABOUT WHAT THE OTHER KIDS ARE SAYING , DON'T RUIN YOUR LIFE YOUR ONLY 17!!!! YOU CAN RUIN THE REST OF YOUR LIFE(I'M ONLY 11 AND I KNOW MORE THAN YOU!!!)

ok don't just do what ever one else is doing, i mean why would you do something so stupid just because of popularity, i mean come on can someone be any lamer. because once people start drinking then smoking then blah.... your going to be doing all that just because all the so called cool guys are doing your gonna do it to fit in. i mean you won't be a highschool outcast if you don't do those things. really you will be smart and all those other people would be in jail,broke,dead,life ruined because of drugs,or have no jobs because of when you wer 17 you did some pretty dumb things an went to jail or got involved with drugs, etc.

DON'T IGNORE THIS!!!TRUST ME, IF YOU DO YOU ARE REALLY STUPID, YAH THATS RIGHT I JUST CALLED YOU STUPID AND EVEN MORE PEOPLE WILL CALL YOU STUPID IF YOU GO TO THAT PARTY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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gnosticjewls answered Friday December 8 2006, 8:21 pm:
Next time you feel stupid about choosing not to go to a party where underage drinking takes place, think about the teens that die or kill innocent people while drinking and driving. Think about being drunk and getting a girl pregnant and having to raise a child. Think about getting arrested and having that on your record before you even had the chance to graduate. People do some crazy things when they drink alcohol, believe me, the next morning when you are nursing a hang over, you are anything but cool! If anyone tries to tell you otherwise, or make you feel inferior to them, they are NOT your friends and you don't need them. Keep making wise decisions, it will pay off. Take care.

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Igotamonopoly answered Friday December 8 2006, 7:26 pm:
Well, everyone will have their different idea. If you see yourself as antisocial, be extra-nice and try to make a new friend each day. You'll be invited in no time!

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batteredxdreams answered Friday December 8 2006, 7:21 pm:
It's your choice if you want to go or not. If people are going to think you're stupid for not going, let them. If you want to go for yourself, not just cause you don't want people to see you differently, then go, but drinking, binge drinking is stupid, even if you were 21 or over. If you decide to go, go for yourself, and don't do anything stupid if you decide to drink.

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