So I was dating this guy ( we are both 13) and it was going wicked great. Then one day I got a call from one of his friends saying he wanted to break up. Later that night he sent me a instant message saying he was sorry and was hoping we could still be friends I said sure. He asked if I was mad at him and I told him yes. But I don’t know I really wasn’t, I was irritated because just that Friday he had told me he still liked me (something came up and I thought he liked another girl) I sent him one that Monday (that took place on Sunday) and said I was sorry for flipping and yea I hope we can be friends too, but he went on an away message and ignored it completely.. Since then he hasn’t said a word to me. I had said something to him (it was about school, we had to be partners) but he just shook his head. I’ve been really upset since, I’m normally not the kind of girl to cry, but this is the first time this has happened to me and I really can’t help it. I feel unwanted, and I like him so much. I want to go back out with him, but that would be kind of hard because he said he didn’t like me anymore (that’s why he had broken up with me) plus it would be awkward but, as of now I don’t care what its like. Now (I might be a little paranoid) be is flirting with one of his best friend’s girl friends and she is one of those people that would dump her boyfriend for him. She knows I still like him. I talk to her about it, she’s kind of a friend but not best friend. But that doesn’t give her any reason to do this to me, or her boyfriend. I just don’t know what to do. My friends have been understanding and let me talk about it whenever I want but after a while, I have a feeling there going to get tired of this. WHAT DO I DO??? I WANT HIM BACK SO BAD!!! Thank you guys in advance.
Ps. If any guys have any idea what to do I would really appreciate the advice. And the thing I want to know most is how to get him to like me again (I’ll do anything) not that I'm desperate, but I miss him so MUCH!!!
girl im 14 & goin threw the SAMEEEE thing ..
me & jacob broke up in december . ohh my it was HORRIbLE & i mean like BADD ! . i went crazy i missed him so so soo much . so i started 2 [ try]
& get him bac ` you kno like i was callin him everyday askin him did he still like me . messaginng him . commenting him . WATEVER just 2 talk 2 him . but i noticed the morei tryed the farther he seemed . it was because he knew that no matter who he dated he could always come bac 2 me . so then [ & THIS IS VERY HARD ] i hated it !
but i called him less . message & commented less
then finaly i just didnt talk 2 him at all & just
[ acted ] happy with my life . maybe you should try that to .... he wont take me bac hes happy with another girl & it kills me . but now hes starting to talk 2 me more
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i have wavy hair. ive tried a lot of products but my hair is ALWAYS frizzy! wat products or things can i do to it to make the frizz go down?? its sooo poofyy! i always have to have it either up or straighten it or curl it with moose but i can never just let it down wen its wet. please. i need to get rid of this FRIZZ!!!
WALMART :]
i have natrualy curley hair its ALWAYS frizzy & it used 2 never stay straight when i scrunched it.
at walmart in the hair section it should have this dark pink bottle . after you wash your hair [ amke sure you use conditioner ] you squirt some of that stuff on your hands not to much but enough for your hair . rub it in your hands & then put it threw your hair ` like just take yur hands threw it & then blow dry it . its gonna [ look ] frizzy till you straighten it :]]
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i think i might be pregnant. what are the signs of being pregnant and how can u get a pregnancy test whithout an adult with u?
some signs are . you can get morning sickness , throwin up . skippin your last couple periods .
but try a DR . or you can get a hoem test :]
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How do you know if you and your mate are ready to have kids but still have issues with how you want to raise them? We both want them, but what do you do when you cannot agree about certain issues. Our prob right now is how will we raise our kids relegiously? We both grew up in two different Christian churches and don't agree with things in both parties? I do not know what to do about this. I have tried talking to my husband about this, but we cannot agree. He does not agree with finding a church for "us". I need advice about this suject from someone other than my family or his. Has anyone went through this? Please help!
you shouldnt worry about wat religion you raise your kids in . all you needa do is just give them your all . & love them for who they are & wat they become
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I am jealous when my boyfriend goes to hang out with females I can tolerate but dont like. I dont know why or how to tell him that I am jealous without him getting angry with me. I need some advice quick because he will be over to my house in a few minutes and then he is leaving to go hang out with his "friends", who are initally girls. ;x
k ` first you needa kno if you can [ trust ] him because if you cant trust him OFCOURSE your gonna be jelous ` you just have 2 face the fact that yes there will be other girls in his life besides you . but you ALWYS gotta thing [ WHO HAS THE GUY]
YOU :)
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I got my hair cut really short, about as short as the hair in the middle picture right here:
http://www.mirage.halland.net/stargazer_frisor/sgw104-39.jpg
I have very thick black hair.
I'm trying to get it to cup in towards my face, like the middle pic, but I go to sleep and it falls out of shape in the morning completely. Whenever I go to sleep, my hair always gets completely messed up. It always gets contorted in all different directions and it takes me an hour to get it back the way it was the night before.
So I tried flipping the edge out, like in the picture on the right....and it still comes out in the morning.
I've tried everything- I've tried blow-drying it on rollers, a curling iron....my hair still looks all screwed up in the morning. Weird thing is....when I got it cut, the hairdresser just blow-dried it and it DIDN'T fall apart in the morning.
Does anyone know what I can do so my hair won't fall apart in the morning?
well maybe you should wake up a little bit earlier & try to fix it .. you can also try straightening it . or scrunching it
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ok so i just tried to put in a tampon for the very first time (well i tried like 5 months ago and i couldnt do it) and when i was trying to push it in it wouldnt go in! i dont know if im putting it in the right spot or i just dont know anything. i dont get it. i tried reading the directions and they make sense i just cant get past step one (putting the aplicator in) cause i dont know where to put it in! and im so sick of wearing pads cause they always stick to me in school and when i wear them during sports and stuff its soo annoying and i cant go in water or anything when i get my period. anyway, does anyone know what im doing wrong or where exactly to insert the applicator (tampon) any advice will do!
pleaseee helpp.
well you put it in at the Bottom lol
dont try 2 force it in there because then i'll feel uncomfortable ..
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Okay, I'm gonna say sorry for some of the words I'll be using but anywhos.
You know when you say like negro [sp] or nigger to an african american or call everyone from south american mexicans (which means you're ignoring their individuality) it's considered racism and rude and hateful remarks using vitriolic words? Well, when people call someone form south korea a chinese or japanese, that's considered racism too. It's saying that all the individual countries are not important enough for them to acknowledge them as seperate places.
It's really hurtful to the person recieving these racist remarks like me. I'm from south korea and there's this girl that keeps on calling me chinese or japanese and makes fun of me by saying japanese or chinese--or at least attmepting to say them--and pretend like i'm from that country and sometimes she carries it on by saying "DO YOU UN-DER-STAND?" in slow mo as if I wouldn't understnad it if she talked like a normal person. She keeps on calling me "chinese girl" and today she even said to her friends--who I do not know-- "Oh this is that little chinese girl that I was talking about" in a really rude tone.
I've experienced racism since I got to US which is in 4th grade and I'm still experiencing it everywhere I go and I'm in 9th grade right now. No one understands that being racist against a person is really hurtful and they won't know because they haven't experienced it. I've told her that she may think it's funny but it really isn't and i've said some things that I shouldn't have. But I really can't take this anymore because she's geting her friends to join in against this ridiculous thing against me and I'm really just about to cry and I don't know what to do.
I can't ignore her because then she goes onto say "Oh, that chinese girl is deaf" or something like that and it's just hard not to get upset over it. My friend knows this and she saw me almost cry several times within the last week. What do I do about this situation? I don't wanna do what she's doing to me and I don't want to sink down to her level. Suggestions?
Gurl if this was me .. id be all up in her face .. dont take her shit
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Hey my name is Rachel strickland and iam 17 years old and in the 11th grade at my highschool and for some reason i have these crying spells all the time like at least once a week and i've been taking lots of naps lately and i havn't been eating as much as i use to.
This has been going on ever since my dad died 5 years ago and i wondered if that could have anything to do with it.I've tried looking at photos and i've tried remembering the good time like my mom told me to do but that just makes me want to cry more.my dad and i have always been really close even though my parents divorced when i was 3 we was still close.
my mom just dosn't understand how i feel whenever i feel sad i go and take a nap or a bubble bath to relaz bur i arill am sad.The other day i was so depresed i didn't go to school becouse i knew if anybody sad one thing to me i would burst into tears so my mom let me stay home.
my blood pressure has also been really high the last time i had it chceked it was 150/86.
I also have panick attacks when i get really upset.
what should i do?
maybe you should just ya kno chill out , relax .. maybe even go walkin [ get you some fresh air ] ... i kno you miss your dad but you cant let one heartbreak lead to another
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a girl in my school named courtney died last night in a tragic car crash. my friends whose mother recently died was friends with this girl so it really hurt her. i was crying, too, but she's been through so much more. i don't know what to do on this one, guys. im grieving but i want to be there for my friend at the same time. i don't know what to do. please help me.
thankyou in advance.
and god bless courtney, she will be loved and missed ... :'[
all i can say girl is BE THERE for your friend .. i kno yuor prolly scareed but at the same time you gotta be strong for her & for you .. make sure she knoes she can come to your for anything ... & also help her be strone at the same time ....
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I'm dating this guy named Brandon. He's everything I ever needed in a boyfriend. He puts me before himself and we play these cute games that only we would understand. We sit under the stars late at night and look for shapes in the clouds. The only problem is that I don't feel sexually attracted to him at all. Yes, I know that sex isn't everything. When I have a boyfriend, I'm usually doing whatever I can to be with them, or to cuddle with them, but with Brandon, I push him away sometimes. If that makes sense?
One of mine and Brandon's friends (I'll call him Chris) told Brandon a few days ago that me and him don't seem like we could be more than friends. Chris is like a brother to me, so he knows me very well. That got Brandon thinking, and he almost decided to break up with me. In a way, I wouldn't have cared because I kinda feel that all we'll ever be is just friends. But another part of me doesn't want to lose him because he's the best boyfriend I'll probably ever have. He chose not to break up with me because he's liked me for a long time (at least 3 years) and he doesn't want to throw it all away.
If we ended up breaking up, I'd still consider him one of my best friends, and I know he'd do the same.
What should I do? Stay with him, or break up with him? If I break up with him, how should I do it?
well its funny because you seem to have mixed feelings about brandon . you wanna be with him because you really like him . but then again its kinda borin inna way ? what you should do is maybe yall needa take a break because lets face it . everyone needa a little fun in the relationship ya kno ? & if your not attractive to him like that then what are ya ? taken a break will decide if you really like him or if your better off friends . so if you were to break up with him tell him straight up how you feel , dont hold bac because liein will just make it worst
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i have a friend that i like and she knows i like her but things are getting a little weird should i stay friends with her?
so .. sounds like yall are gettin pretty close ... the best thing to do is to make sure that no matter what yall will always stay friends .. it all depends on how it ends
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ok theres this guy and hes older than i am and has a lot more sexually experience considering that im a virgin and really havent done anything yet and he knows it and well we knew eachother for a few months and we would talk and than after that he dissapeared for like 2 months and i heard he had a feiance and than seen him making out with another gurl while talking to me and well i just seen him latly and we exchanged numbers and well weve been kinda talking and the first night we were talking he was asking if i would ever sleep with him and asking me all this other stuff and mostly talking bout sex and he told me that the first time we hangout he bets that he can make me loose my virginty to him the first time we hang out but made it a point to say that he wont force me cause he wouldnt have to and than the second convo was much different we didnt talk bout sex once we joked and shit but after that first convo i dont know plus he moves pretty fast so is he just in it for sex or no plus were just talking not dating so what should i do should i hang out or no if i do what if i say no and he still trys to cause hes gonna be a perfessional boxer and well my mom and dad dont know so were talking on the down low help before i make a big mistake
well on my perspective . it seems like thats basicly what he wants . maybe hes beating around the bush about it , but i think thats what hes gettin to & trust me losin your virginity to sumone you've only known for a month isnt the best choice ... i think you shouldnt hang out with him because you never kno he could try & make you .. im not sayin hes a bad person , imjust trynna look out for you ..
Love .. CheerBabyyy ♥
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Yesterday I ran away.
I've been ditching alot and I have plans in life with my friends and they are like everything to me.
I hate school.
I hated being home so much I asked my friend if I could stay at her house and my mom hates her. she said no because she didnt want the cops coming to her house.
She took me home and I stayed there for an hour and I cried and I stopped a realized I didn't want to be there
I live in las vegas so I pretty much walked 20 miles to my friends house and I stayed there.
I felt bad but I had nowhere to go and I just needed to be away for the weekend.
Well my mom found her number and called her and threatened to get the police on her.Well instead she told her to come pick me up at 530 and she did because I didn't want to do that to my friend.
I'm still so very miserable here.
What should I do? I'm just so confused I need someone to talk to
anyone
well im here to talk to you all you want .. i feel your pain your goin through , but the thing is .. running away isnt exaclt gonna solve anything... & im pretty sure everyone hates school but its just a part of life that we have to succeed in inorder to be able to get far in life , i kno this may seem crazy but ya gotta get an education before you try to have fun with your friends ... & i totally understand where youe comin from on the not wanting to be at home so much . i hate bein home to but theres really nothin i can do about that . just calm down & take a nother look at the problem .. more like think of it in a nother way
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Okay, Im 16 And A Junior In High School, And My Boyfriend is 18, And A Freshmen In College, We have been together for awhile Now, and we love eachother, but theres one problem. I Won't let my parents meet him. Theres nothing wrong with him, he isn't a bad person, hes really a GREAT person, but my parents dont believe in interacial relationships, and of course he is a different race than me. My parents aren't racist, they just dont believe in interacial relationships, they dont care if im friends with him, they jus dont want me being with him. They want me to end the relationship with himm, but i DONT want to, I love him, and he loves me. I have tried talking to my parents many tims about him, and that doesnt get me ANYWHERE, they are always like you know how i feel about this, and you need to end it with him.. but i cant.. I LOVE HIM.. soo help me
.. i have been in the SAME thing with interacial dating .. its hard on parents , oh yea its hard .. you parents may [ never ] approve of yalls relationship , but you also cant make them happy for the rest of your life . dont end it just because your parnets dont approve . if you love him then thats ALL THAT MATTERS
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So heres my problem...
my parents are really uptight, and a little closed minded when it comes to my future. They still have this picture perfect mental image of me graduating with honors, and getting a bussiness degree, and starting a normal life. Problem is, I dont want that. I have bigger plans, and a passion for music so great its almost unreal. All i want to do with my life is something meaningful, and inspiring to others like me. Sure it may sound like a childish dream, i want to be a rockstar kind of thing, but hey who ever said we cant dream big right?
My question is, how do I get them to realize its not going to be how they picture it. every time i try to confront them about it, they brush it off as if to say "you think thats what you want to do" but i dont think, i know. thats what they dont seem to understand, becuase they never had a passion like I have.
Any help would be much appreciated.
hmm .. tell your parents that YOU have a dream that your gonna fofill .. sure their your parents & they want whats [ best ] for you , but shouldnt you do sumthin that you enjoy and will have fun with it ? tell your parents that you have to decide your future , they can help .. but not make ... just like that sayin [ you can lead a horse to water but cant make it drink ]
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im rilly confused my mom hits me but its kind of my falt so it just dosnt seem like cild abuse to me but my best friend was over one day and saw what was going on he ses i need to tell but i rilly rilly dont want to . what should i do????
plz tell me what i should do
thanx
13/f
wow .. sounds like things are pretty tuff huh ?
well even if you [ say ] its your fault , doesnt mean she has to hit you ... no one deserves to be hit no matter what they do to make them mad .. if i were you id sit my mom down & tell how bad emotionally & physically shhe hurts you when she does that & i hope for the best
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okay so ive been bestfriends with this kid for about a year now.. but the problem is hes 11 and im 14. i went out with him before over the summer. and sometimes whenever he flirts with me or talks to me i start liking him again.. and he used to like me a little while ago but i dont think he does anymore but were like really good friends.. last time we broke up because he liked this other girl.. if he does ask me out i dont know if i should say yes to him and trust him this time or say no cause of the age difference? but when i like him i like him a lott! and i think its going to be happening soon and i need advice
please help mee!!!!!
hmmm .. iv been in this before , age really doesnt matter .. its just how much you like him .. think as if he was your age ..
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I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years. About a year ago I found that he had a profile set up on yahoo personals. I had a suspicion that he was messing around because he was always on his computer. I found out too much, chat rooms, web cams, women online, porn sites and profiles on sexually explicit finders sites. I still can't trust him, he said he stopped. I don't know what to do.
ok .. well i mean yeaa its hard to trust sumone and then have them do stuff like that .. yeaa i understand why ur upset but i mean if you wanna continue to be with him and trust him let him kno that it bothered you and if he sed that he stopped that stuff then believe him because if he loves you like he says he does then he wouldnt lie to you but follow your heart .. it never lies to youuu
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15/f.
first off i'd like to say that im not like those girls that look for guys online that say they love them but only want one thing.. sex.
k so i have a major problem. theres this guy i love sooo much.. his names Robin. well Robin and i haven't met.. yet. he was gonna come down not to long ago but family stuff came up. but now.. a new guy named Marc has came into my life but i havent met him yet either.. but i met him through a friend.. and him and i are hanging out during the week. well Marc said that he could see himself with me in the future.. i said that exact same thing. but like i love Robin so much and i dont know what to do.
but heres the scoop:
ROBIN - i've known him(online and telephone) for over 3 years now. he loves me. i love him. we say we're gonna marry one anotehr lol. i dont want to break his heart... again.. by being with someone else.
MARC - ive know him for not even a month. he says im amazing and that he could see himself with me. but i dont want his heart broken either.
PLEASE HELP ME!
all you can rely on in this situation is to follow your heart & stay on the path that it tells you .. you may think its the wronge choice at 1st ` but your heart NEVER lies to you .. & yea its gonna be hard to turn down the other , but you cant go on forever makin everyone else happy .. you always put your self FIRST before anyone
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