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only sex or no
ok theres this guy and hes older than i am and has a lot more sexually experience considering that im a virgin and really havent done anything yet and he knows it and well we knew eachother for a few months and we would talk and than after that he dissapeared for like 2 months and i heard he had a feiance and than seen him making out with another gurl while talking to me and well i just seen him latly and we exchanged numbers and well weve been kinda talking and the first night we were talking he was asking if i would ever sleep with him and asking me all this other stuff and mostly talking bout sex and he told me that the first time we hangout he bets that he can make me loose my virginty to him the first time we hang out but made it a point to say that he wont force me cause he wouldnt have to and than the second convo was much different we didnt talk bout sex once we joked and shit but after that first convo i dont know plus he moves pretty fast so is he just in it for sex or no plus were just talking not dating so what should i do should i hang out or no if i do what if i say no and he still trys to cause hes gonna be a perfessional boxer and well my mom and dad dont know so were talking on the down low help before i make a big mistake
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Let's look at the facts first.
- He's older.
- Your parents apparently won't like him.
- He's a man whore.
- He had a fiance.
- He thinks you are loose. (As in he thinks he can take your virginity easily.)
Now let's look at my opinions.
- He'll cheat on you.
- You'll end up having sex with him and then regretting it.
- Being with him is a BAD idea.
End of story.
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Oh geez, this guy is an asshole! Stay away from him. He's obviously very sexually active. He could easily have an STD. You don't want that. Plus, don't you want your first time to be special instead of with a slut like him? I know that talking about sex with him is interesting and exciting being that you haven't ever done it before. It makes you feel so good that you start to consider it. What could it hurt, right? It could hurt you a lot. Just as bad as an STD, he could get you pregnant. He doesn't seem like the type of guy that would stick around and be a father. Don't let your hormones decide! Use your head. Sex has a lot of consequences. Emotional as well as physical. You could get really messed up. It will not be a positive experience and you'll definitely regret having done it. Having sex with him is a bad idea. I really hope that you don't. Good luck.
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well on my perspective . it seems like thats basicly what he wants . maybe hes beating around the bush about it , but i think thats what hes gettin to & trust me losin your virginity to sumone you've only known for a month isnt the best choice ... i think you shouldnt hang out with him because you never kno he could try & make you .. im not sayin hes a bad person , imjust trynna look out for you ..
Love .. CheerBabyyy ♥
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