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Question Posted Friday December 8 2006, 10:31 am

last month i had sex with this guy when i had my period. he cam inside me...well at least i think so. he layed on me a few minutes then got up and left. so i think he did. now i feel like in gonna throw up in the morning and sometimes during the day and nite. idk if i missed my period cuz i dont know when its suppost to come. i dont keep track. could i be pregante? please help me!

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alisonmarie answered Sunday December 10 2006, 1:59 pm:
Right. For future's sake, some quick tips:

Buy a calender or use your planner. Whenever you have your period, circle the days you've got it. The first day of your period is Day 1 - continue counting up to see how long your cycle is. The average menstral cycle is 28 days long.

Most women are fertile around day 14 of their period, which is when they are ovulating (releasing an egg). Sperm can live in women for up to 7 days, so having sex from day 7 onwards can lead to an increased risk of pregnancy. While it's not a high chance of pregnancy when you are menstruating, every woman is different.

No matter what time of the month it is, anytime you have unprotected sex you risk pregnancy (and STIs/STDs).

While it would be best if you knew if you were missing your period, you can still take some steps anyway. You'll want to access a free pregnancy test at a local health clinic, perhaps one specifically for young people. If this makes you feel uncomfortable or you aren't sure how to find one, you can buy a pregnancy test at any pharmacy.

Go home, breathe, and carefully read the intructions in the pack. Follow them exactly, and wait for the result. If it is positive, then you will need to access support to help you discuss your options.

If the test is negative, it does not necessarily mean you aren't pregnant. You can wait a week and retake the test if you still haven't gotten your period.

I would encourage a visit to your doctor (after asking about your rights to confidentiality, if this is important to you) to discuss this situation. Feeling like you need to throw up could mean, for example, that you've got some other sort of medical problem.

Only a doctor would be able to give you the specific guidance for your body and your situation.

I wish you the very best. Please feel free to ask for more info if you need it.

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gnosticjewls answered Friday December 8 2006, 10:55 am:
First, let me start off by saying that you seem very young and should not be having unprotected sex with anyone, let alone a guy who just has sex with you and leaves. You are worth more than that. As you don't need to hear preaching, I'll just answer the question, yes, you can pregnant during your period. Many people debate over this subject, but as with everything else to do with women, everyone has a different body. It can be very confusing..some women can get pregnant right away while other women take years to get their internal clock set up. I will say that it is harder to get pregnant during your period, as the egg already dropped and your uterine wall started to shed (where the blood comes from). It is all a matter of where you were in your cycle. You really need to see a doctor, or at least get a pregnancy test. Please be careful, there are so many diseases out there to watch out for. Get some condoms and take care of yourself. Good luck.

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