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k so i love a guy i've never met.. HELP!
15/f.
first off i'd like to say that im not like those girls that look for guys online that say they love them but only want one thing.. sex.
k so i have a major problem. theres this guy i love sooo much.. his names Robin. well Robin and i haven't met.. yet. he was gonna come down not to long ago but family stuff came up. but now.. a new guy named Marc has came into my life but i havent met him yet either.. but i met him through a friend.. and him and i are hanging out during the week. well Marc said that he could see himself with me in the future.. i said that exact same thing. but like i love Robin so much and i dont know what to do.
but heres the scoop:
ROBIN - i've known him(online and telephone) for over 3 years now. he loves me. i love him. we say we're gonna marry one anotehr lol. i dont want to break his heart... again.. by being with someone else.
MARC - ive know him for not even a month. he says im amazing and that he could see himself with me. but i dont want his heart broken either.
PLEASE HELP ME!
<3 thanks in advance.
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Well you need to decide do you really love Marc or Robin which one makes your heart skip a beat because of love and which one makes you feel like just friends. Do you kiss. if you do which one do you kiss. Whatever one you think is the best go with but if things dont work out then it is always possible to go crawling back to the other guy. But it is apsulutly your choice. Life is all about taking risks and chances break-ups and make-ups. Hope this helps. Please reply and tell me what happens and I would like it if you would rate this. Thanks God Bless
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all you can rely on in this situation is to follow your heart & stay on the path that it tells you .. you may think its the wronge choice at 1st ` but your heart NEVER lies to you .. & yea its gonna be hard to turn down the other , but you cant go on forever makin everyone else happy .. you always put your self FIRST before anyone <33
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An emotional connection is one thing, but you also have to have a physical connection with someone. Who knows, you could meet up with Robin, and not be physically attracted to him or anything. It is easy to fall in love wiht someone when you're not around them, because all you hear is words- they can craft themselves to seem one way, but they could be another way when you actually get to know them personally.
The fact that you're even considering the other guy makes me think that maybe you don't have as strong feelings as you think you do. You're fifteen, everything feels like love, but just remember like and love are very different things. I suggest meeting with the other guy that your friend knows and trying it out. You still have a lot of time to decide.
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ok all i have to say is meet them first they might turn out to be nothing you thought they were all i got to say
they might be some fat old purverts trying to get some okay lol
you never know because there are alot of sick men and woman out there today
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