okay so ive been bestfriends with this kid for about a year now.. but the problem is hes 11 and im 14. i went out with him before over the summer. and sometimes whenever he flirts with me or talks to me i start liking him again.. and he used to like me a little while ago but i dont think he does anymore but were like really good friends.. last time we broke up because he liked this other girl.. if he does ask me out i dont know if i should say yes to him and trust him this time or say no cause of the age difference? but when i like him i like him a lott! and i think its going to be happening soon and i need advice
please help mee!!!!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? ChOcOLoLo answered Thursday December 7 2006, 11:49 pm: hey there!
first off, this is not wrong, weird or queer, but normal. Relationships were the guy is slightly younger are not uncommon, and most of all, its the connection between both that matters, rather than some stupid age difference. However, your feelings toward him seem sort of like an infatuation, or you have a sense of insecurity because you are older. Don't let this get to you. I think if he is the kind of guy who can understand, connect, and inspire you at your level and you with his, he's definetly a keeper. [ ChOcOLoLo's advice column | Ask ChOcOLoLo A Question ]
theymos answered Thursday December 7 2006, 10:27 pm: You definitely shouldn't reject him for his age. Look at it this way: if you were 44, he'd be 41; not a big age difference at all. [ theymos's advice column | Ask theymos A Question ]
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