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Should I stay or go now?
I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years. About a year ago I found that he had a profile set up on yahoo personals. I had a suspicion that he was messing around because he was always on his computer. I found out too much, chat rooms, web cams, women online, porn sites and profiles on sexually explicit finders sites. I still can't trust him, he said he stopped. I don't know what to do.
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Trust is everything!! If you find out that he was cheating, I would leave him (that's just me), however, he may have been just innocently looking at porn and other "cam" sites just for fun. Many women get bothered when there boyfriends look at porn, as they feel that they are looking elsewhere for pleasure, why not just look at you? However, it isn't always that simple. Looking at porn and similar material can just be a release for him, or something to help him pleasure himself. Don't fall into the trap of thinking that if he looks at porn, you must not be good enough, because that is just silly. It is human nature to look at beautiful things. But, as I said, if he was actually cheating, that is a different story.
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Okay, well you have to understand that when we think of horny..it's at like a level 4. But a guy's normal average horny level is like a 1093248
Haha...guys are naturally really horny and they unfortunately go to the stupid porn sites.
Has he been cybering online or something?
If he did, dump him. He's gonna do that again to you even more discreetly behind your back since those habits are hard to break and I'm sorry, but there is just no relationship without trust.
BUT aside from what I've just said above...give him one more chance. But with some rules. Make him promise that he won't keep any secrets from you and that he should tell you something he's hiding from you right then and there so you won't be as mad.
Don't go all uber control on him and say "Show me all your convo" blah blah. That'll just drive him away. Well, anyways...give him one more chance and if get suspicious (I mean really suspicious) tell him that you feel like you're getting paranoid or whatever but if you could see at least one of his chats of your choice.
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ok .. well i mean yeaa its hard to trust sumone and then have them do stuff like that .. yeaa i understand why ur upset but i mean if you wanna continue to be with him and trust him let him kno that it bothered you and if he sed that he stopped that stuff then believe him because if he loves you like he says he does then he wouldnt lie to you but follow your heart .. it never lies to youuu
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ew dump him right now this instint!
first of all he is imature
an second when guys do that it is as bad as cheating.
it is like your not showing him orgiving him enough so he goes to porn to see what he is missing out on.
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