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This Preppy guy that i really like
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ive liked this guy since summer but hes just started to get to know me. I danced with him at this party over the weekend and my friends keep on trying to figure out if he likes me but he always says that hes not looking for a relationship. the thing is, before he found out that i liked him he always flirted with me. I dont know what to do because i like him so much but i cant do anything about it. I know it sounds like he really doesnt want a girlfriend but he has this best friend 2 provinces away (Its a girl) and he said something about this girl he might like. So i dont know. what should i do?
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Okay well i think this guy probally had a little thing for you and like to flirt with you but didnt really think much of it but then when he found out that you really liked him..he might not have felt as strong or maybe he just wasnt ready to start a relationship with you..If i were you i would try to become better friends with him first..still flirt and then maybe once he gets to know you a little better and your relationship gets stronger he'll be ready to start a real relationship..hope everything works out for you :]] keep me updated....bailey <33
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Dear Summer lover,
THIS GUY KIND OF REMINDS ME OF ME! In the past there have been boys who I have flirted with until I found out that they liked me, and then I didn't really want to flirt or like them as more than a friend anymore. This is most likely because, YOU ALWAYS WANT SOMETHING MORE WHEN YOU CAN'T HAVE IT. Maybe you should try playing hard to get, and treat him as a good friend in the meanttime. You should still be flirty, but don't over do it.
Good luck
xoxo
Christine
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just read your letter and it sparked my interest. i too was once in a situation of sorts, but what helped me was to be able to read the signs. first you should distinguish if he was flirting with you because he was interested or if he was flirting with you because its a natural reflex ( people are flirtatious by nature) Also the friends scouting out the prospect is a bad idea, if you were to approach him it would show him that you are confident in who you are. sometimes the best relationships begin as great friends, try being his friend before his girl friend too.
sincerely
Ask Kevin A.L.
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